What are the things to consider before marriage so that one wo
nt get married to the wrong person ...... advice pls

dk2baba:
What are the things to consider before marriage so that one wo
nt get married to the wrong person ...... advice pls

this is the wrongest place to learn.... who do you know here that you are sure has a working peaceful home.

pls go on youtube and find KINGSLEY OKONKWO and you can start learning about relationships and marriage from him.

nairaland is a public place for opinions... not for core wisdom

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just know that no virgina person is loyal.... and u shall have a peaceful marriage

Is attraction/interest mutual?

Are you forcing her interest/commitment to you? And vice versa.

Is she improving herself, earning power?

Are your views on life, relationship, finances sincerely held?

Are these sincerely held views compatible?

Answer the above questions honestly.

people still get married to these farm toolz pro Max?

dk2baba:
What are the things to consider before marriage so that one wo
nt get married to the wrong person ...... advice pls

No one is perfect but these qualities are non-negotiable.

1. Temperamental level

2. Don't really pay attention to how she respects you, pay attention to how she treats people around especially those beneath her level financially. it's Very very important. Those ladies too harsh on people beneath them should be dropped like hot potato. no say dem no warn you o.

3. Check how generous she is with her resources (money). does she spend on you too or she's tight-fisted with money/gift? any girl that can't spend on you or make financial sacrifices at all towards you or people around her won't do same in marriage. in fact, that's one of the ways to know a lady really into you. you go hear wen when you go broke for marriage which is mostly inevitable. Girls like that can't support you with anything in the future and you'd start resenting her.

4. Piousness: is she religious to some extent? a pious girl will follow teachings of the religion and still follow or hold some religious values to herself such as purity (virginity) etc.. if Dem don fuçk her before don't even see her as wife material.

5. Does she keep company/contacts of men not related to her? pleeaaaaase, dump her sharply!


these are what I could come up with.