@ Odunnu, he sounds like an average man -- why is he taking a bus to his village ? Doesn't he have a car --- what happened to his car ? and why is a man who doesn't have a car ? giving a stranger $50,000 ?

Your beauty must have captivated him. How fine are you ? Oya post your pishure

Obo: He travelled by air to Enugu and took a bus to his village,anythn wrong?

odunnu,
your problem is a simple one. i will forward my a/c no to you. you can just transfer the money to me
that way you can be at rest. next step i'll help you contact him and beg him to accept the money back.
shikena!  

But you goofed oo, why didn't you tell him u don marry? not "relationship oo, i mean real marriage because me no say we don marry.

@ OP, well stop making a fuss about this. Spend the money or use it to buy a gift and send it to him in Lagos.

Odunnu don turn high end escort oooooooo

I would like to hear Mr 50k side of this story.  

And, to answer your request for help on what to do, I can't tell you that.  It is obvious you deliberately defrauded him, and you are now scared he might come on here and start a thread about you being a SCAMMER, kinda like this thread, right?:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-629321.0.html

He's made it clear to you he doesn't want the money back, so enjoy it.

fstranger3:

Odunnu don turn high end escort oooooooo

exactly --- same sentiments.

50k for wetin?

Shey wetincall don expensive like that ni?

I bet when some ppl genuinely need assistance this guy doesnt give. Even to dash beggar money na wahala.

Odunnu, What of the $5,000 I gave you to fly to Texas so we can shaaaggg? Aint you going to say something about that?

ko easy, lati jomo okunrin,

afi k'oluwa ko wa yo. . . . . . .






money money money,

all is money,

it's a rich man's world. . . . . .

But o easy lati je omo obirin, all you need do is t'edi e sile, right?

^^that one no even necessary again.

all the guys need now is a guarantee, unlike before when the ladies had to "forise forunse" ie work harder to get goodies.


as per the rest- i dont understand that kind of conc yoruba.

Congo go kill men sha!
@Odunnu,how much wud u pay me if i help u sort this matter?
Dude must have prepared his kini,waiting to devour u that weekend.lol
You sef no try,hope u learn from this.

If he does not want his money back as others have said donate to charity.

But certainly the guy should have seen this thread, so it behoves on him to defend himself at least against allegation of verbally assaulting you and in a way a kind of emotional blackmail.

It's a very simple case.
If you truly and sincerely want to give him back his money, go to the bank and ask for his account number. Make sure his account number, his passport pics and his name corresponds before You send it to him. This is the only option to give him back his money by brute force.
You dont need to fear nada.
Anyways goodluck.

A man with that kind of money would not be trolling the internet

looking for women! Unless he's awfully hideous looking. Even

then he could have his pick of girls as long as his bank account

is strong. A man like this would be at the most expensive

nightclubs or supper clubs looking for a woman

of quality. Not the internet.

ifyalways:

Congo go kill men sha!
@Odunnu,how much wud u pay me if i help u sort this matter?
Dude must have prepared his kini,waiting to devour u that weekend.lol
You sef no try,hope u learn from this.

My sister, I don learn. I'l never try this rubbish again!

^^^

Do you mind sending the money to my account?

henry101:

It's a very simple case.
If you truly and sincerely want to give him back his money, go to the bank and ask for his account number. Make sure his account number, his passport pics and his name corresponds before You send it to him. This is the only option to give him back his money by brute force.
You dont need to fear nada.
Anyways goodluck.

Funny post

odunnu don chop im dollar.

lol.

I sent this thread link to my friend yesterday. I just woke now to see his missed call. He called around 11pm, I was already asleep and thats the first time he's calling me (he texts) since the fallout.
Please, nobody should insult him or i'l break bottle.lol, thats a joke. He doesnt deserve it at all. Twas my mistake.

why not call him back, since he is now ready to talk?

I don't think the poster is all that innocent in the matter. How else would he have been thoroughly convinced to drop that kind of money for the proposed visit without the poster leading him on in the first place?
I mean what kind of conversation were they having that could have led to the notion of visitation to the extent of providing genuine bank account details and exchange of money?
The man's reaction speaks for its self; why would he have been disappointed, angry and hurt if he didn't feel genuinely misled?
Bottom line, the babe scammed him emotionally and financially (whether intentionally or not), then later had a change of heart.
I bet you in her heart of hearts she is probably hoping she could eventually get to keep the money and still look morally clean, by going through the motion of wanting to return the money while getting a psychological pat on the back from us NLders for all her supposedly failed efforts.
Abeg, who is she fooling jor

tashanja:

I don't think the poster is all that innocent in the matter. How else would he have been thoroughly convinced to drop that kind of money for the proposed visit without the poster leading him on in the first place?
I mean what kind of conversation were they having that could have led to the notion of visitation to the extent of providing genuine bank account details and exchange of money?
The man's reaction speaks for its self; why would have he been disappointed, angry and hurt if he didn't feel genuinely misled?
Bottom line, the babe scammed him emotionally and financially (whether intentionally or not), then later had a change of heart.
I bet you in her hear of hearts she is probably hoping she could eventually get to keep the money and still look morally clean, by going through the motion of wanting to return the money while getting a psychological pat on the back from us NLders for all her supposedly failed efforts.
Abeg, who is she fooling jor

sincerely speaking, I dont want the money! I may need it but No! I cant keep such money. If i'd known he'l make a deposit, I wouldnt have given my details. I thought he'l 'play' me and thereby move on adding me to his 'gold-digger' list. Until ths happened, I didnt know how much trust and respect he had for me.
I feel ashamed for misbehaving.

Odunnu:

sincerely speaking, I dont want the money! I may need it but No! I cant keep such money. If i'd known he'l make a deposit, I wouldnt have given my details. I thought he'l 'play' me and thereby move on adding me to his 'gold-digger' list. Until ths happened, I didnt know how much trust and respect he had for me.
I feel ashamed for misbehaving.

And so you should.
In fact what were you thinking, toiling with another man's heart when in fact you had a serious relationship going on.

Yep, you certainly have succeeded in adding your name to his and everybody's gold digger's list because by giving out your bank details, you have proven that you could collect the money as well as having the potential for using it for the intended purpose (even if not entirely going through with it). Unfortunately, that impression would now be hard to remove - at last not for a while.

Yes, I would like to believe you didn't intentionally set out to defraud him, however, you are quite clearly guilty of playing this poor man - though he may have also played a role in his own misfortune.

Unfortunately, you wanted to eat your cake and have it and are now paying the price of your mis-judgement. Anyway, I feel you sha, hope you learned your lesson.

Lastly, I think we should now daub you as one of our very own official female NL PLAYAS, so welcome on board

Odunnu, don't forget our own deal oo, i won't be sending to your account, i prefer giving it to you in person, how about that?

Thirst4Lif:

A man with that kind of money would not be trolling the internet

looking for women! Unless he's awfully hideous looking. Even

then he could have his pick of girls as long as his bank account

is strong. A man like this would be at the most expensive

nightclubs or supper clubs looking for a woman

of quality. Not the internet.

you need to re-adjust your mentality.
Sane men dont go to brothels in search of a wife,yet we'v heard stories of prostitutes who married a potential client.
Men dont walk out of their houses in search of a wife on the street but we'v heard stories of people who met by chance on the street and later got married.
It is same in every aspect including meetin on the internet. If I wantd a relationship I would have given it a try despite what you thnk so Oga, change ur mind. You destiny ordained wife maybe Tpiah but you overlook her because its online.

Pweety abeg no make me laff.

Loool between you & the guy who should they beat?

Why do i hav a feelin we're talkin abt TKB417 here