A Nigerian man has narrated how he asked his mother to leave his house after she complained about him cooking instead of his wife.

According to the story a man identified a Oluwanishola Akuje Whitehead said, his mother visited his home and was to spend some time with him, his wife and their newborn baby.

However, when his mother noticed that he was the one always doing the cooking instead of his wife, she complained and told the wife “only a shameless woman would allow her husband cook”.

He returned and met his wife crying, when she told him what his mother said, he angrily asked his mother to leave his house first thing the next morning.

However, his mother did not wait for the next day to leave and left that very day and never picked his calls for about two years. Read his full story below…

“Yea! First person you should keep out of your marriage is your mother.

When my wife gave birth. My mother came over to ogbomoso. She was to spend some time with us.

After few days, she saw that I was the one cooking. And she asked at a time if it was okay for me to go cook. I answered of course.

And subsequently, each and everytime she needs something to be cooked for her, she would call my wife. I would respond and tell her I will get it done, and so I would do.

All the while, I never knew she was displeased.

I returned home one of the evenings, I was a Corper then. And I met my wife crying.

I asked what happened. She said nothing. I asked her again and again. She kept saying nothing. I asked if anything was wrong with the baby. She said no. The baby was sleeping beside her. I became confused. It resorted that i started begging her to speak. Then she told me my mother had just finished speaking to her. She had told her only a shameless woman would allow her husband cook. I never heard the rest. She tried pulling me back but I was so infuriated.

I called my mom. I told her she leaves first thing the following morning. She was shocked to her bone. She already knew my wife told me what she had said to her. She said my wife is lazy. I said I love it that way. I put a call through to my Dad. I explained to him what had happened. He called her to leave. Then he called my wife too.

Mom didn’t wait for the next day. She left that same day. I told her to pass the night but she didn’t say anything again. She left.

After that night, I didn’t see her, didn’t hear her voice for almost 2 years. I would call, she won’t pick.

So one day, I traveled down and showed up in her place with so many lovelies. I never mentioned what happened, I just greeted her lying flat. My siblings were there. Nothing was said about the past as we make up.

Following, I took my wife and Desire to her. She couldn’t refused them. While I was away for some time, she told my wife. Femi, is so different. (Femi is the name she calls me.) I still don’t know why she said that.

And every of my family members give my wife same respect as they give to me. No way to penetrate into my marriage.

Mom came to stay with us August this year and my wife gave her a delicious meal to eat just once. I cooked every other day. And she would say all the time, her’s is tastier than mine. We would laugh over it.

But the fact is, The point have been made. And the massage passed.

It’s a “No” to Mother or Father who try making decisions for us in our marriage.

This is for both genders.
Either of the two whose parents wants to interfere in the home should stand against it.

Mothers in-law to the wives do this a lot. They want to know everything happening in their son’s home. From when their son sleep with his wife, and to where she goes and what she does. They literally wants to direct every single thing by telling their sons how he should run the home. And you get to see a lot men too following mama’s order. They have no idea of their own. And how on earth will you tell your mother every single thing happening in your home.

If a man is truly responsible and deserving to start a home, he will never allow his mother to have a say in his home no matter who the mother is.

Many beautiful marriages have been cut short because of the inability of the man to stand at the right time and say no to external forces trying to control the home.

The truth is, so many different things work for different homes and it is abnormal to people. But that’s not your problem. It is your duty to say, as long as this keeps my marriage happy and I am happy. I say no to every other person.

If you can do this, your marriage will be enviable.”


Do you think he overreacted with his mum?

https://tsbnews.com/2020/12/man-narrates-how-he-sent-his-mother-packing-for-disrespecting-his-wife/

Not enough reason to do so, all for the gram

mchtwee.

RUBBISH

WHAT DO WE USE THIS STORY FOR PLEASE

NAIRALAND JUST DEY FILL UP THIS DAYS WITH STORIES

When it comes to issues between your mum and wife, you have to be diplomatic. You can't replace mum.

Is that his wife or his mum?


There is one useless spirit that turns people's head on twitter.

Awọn progressive

He acted childishly. Same with the wife. A future mum -in- law like me can never support my husband send his mom away over something so flimsy like that. E chekwam n'oji okwu. They should be ashamed of themselves

I'll never condone my wife disrespecting my mum, neither will I allow my mum to disrespect my wife. Mutual respect is key. Case closed

First of all, the guy is a simp for chasing his mother who breastfed him out of his house. It's evident his wife is in full control of him. Dare that with my mom and you would regret the day you were born!
For him to even beg his wife to speak is an insult. And after she spoke he could have just confronted his mom and frankly tell her how hurt he and his wife is by his mom's words, not immediately telling her to leave his house. He could use body language to show his anger to his mom. Then when tempers had cool, he should have approached her and explained to her quietly his own viewpoint. Then listen to her and see things from her own point of view too. She may have a point, and he could learn from her since she's more experience in marriage.
To be sincere, he owes his mother an apology.
As for the mother, she shouldn't have reacted that way to her daughter in law. Instead of attacking the girl, she should have silently directed her anger at her son, perhaps in a quiet discussion. She gave birth to her son , not her daughter in law. Perhaps, she could lure him to the village and there in a family meeting devoid of outsiders, explain her displeasure.
If her son refuses what she says, well she should have left him. He's a grown up man and knows his right from his left. Let him handle his family the way he likes. As long as it isn't harmful to him or people around him.
My opinion, though...

It is hard,but they are things you let slide, your mom wasn't going to stay forever,so him and wife could have adjusted to his mom demand,while looking for a fairer ground to see his mom go. Contacting his dad without having neither of his wife but dad aware, would have been matured,men understands this issues better,but na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement tho,no forget

You're an idiot.

I hope you finally got the attention you were looking for!

Whatta guan man!


The oil way dey dis man head nor be groundnut oil or goya oil na confam original oil... Don't know why most Africans see it as a taboo for a man to enter the kitchen and cook for the family, d one way dey pain me pass, dem see man way dey wash hin wife clothing's as woman wrapper...too badt.

He's even proud of his act...I may not fully support the mum,but he was too quick to treat his mum as a dispensable

He was a little harsh but at the end of the day a very strong message was passed.

I read about the story yesternight because I was following the guy as a good writer he is. However, I couldn't contain my appalment when I finished reading his story. some men of this generation are something else especially when it comes clout chasing they will just act irrationally inorder to suit the narrative of some certain female folks out there. To be sincere no mother in-law will be pleased seeing his son taking over kitchen affairs when his wife presently in good health condition. For a mother to have reacted based on her feelings and the best you could do was to send your mother away from your home
This is a credence to a popular saying that *Good command of English is not a yardstick for intelligence* I have unfollowed though.

He was a little harsh but at the end of the day a very strong message was passed.

Nonsense and ingredients

See what excuses the bast**rd is coming up with. A disgrace to ur generation thats what you are. Karma will cut up with u sooner than you think.

Very irritating story. The stupid man even had the balls to narrate his stupidity to the world. Another Timi Dakolo

Sikay19:
I read about the story yesternight because I was following the guy as a good writer he is. However, I couldn't contain my appalment when I finished reading his story. some men of this generation are something else especially when it comes clout chasing they will just act irrationally inorder to suit the narrative of some certain female folks out there. To be sincere no mother in-law will be pleased seeing his son taking over kitchen affairs when his wife presently in good health condition. For a mother to have reacted based on her feelings and the best you could do was to send your mother away from your home
This is a credence to a popular saying that *Good command of English is not a yardstick for intelligence* I have unfollowed though.