Confusedlove:
Before you insult me, please read this carefully.

I fell in love with a married man. This is a very complicated story because I know how wrong this whole situation is but I know it's very easy for anyone to say "just leave him and find your own" but this situation has led me into depression.
I met him some time ago through a friend and I felt it was just going to be a friendship thing.
FAST forward to some months later, he's even better than all the boyfriends I've had combined. He's always there when I need him, he's always all over me and he's just so sweet and to top it all up, his D game is 100%
Everything was going all fine till the friend who hooked us up started to spread lies about me to him and everything has changed now. He's distant now and acts like I'm a whole new person in his eyes.
This whole new situation is almost driving me crazy because I didn't even do all the things I was accused of. I know dating him is wrong but I'm in love with him.
Now I can't accept the fact that everything's changed just because someone lied about me.

Like I said, I know this is wrong but one way or the other, I can't seem to do what's right.

Confusedlove:
Before you insult me, please read this carefully.

I fell in love with a married man. This is a very complicated story because I know how wrong this whole situation is but I know it's very easy for anyone to say "just leave him and find your own" but this situation has led me into depression.
I met him some time ago through a friend and I felt it was just going to be a friendship thing.
FAST forward to some months later, he's even better than all the boyfriends I've had combined. He's always there when I need him, he's always all over me and he's just so sweet and to top it all up, his D game is 100%
Everything was going all fine till the friend who hooked us up started to spread lies about me to him and everything has changed now. He's distant now and acts like I'm a whole new person in his eyes.
This whole new situation is almost driving me crazy because I didn't even do all the things I was accused of. I know dating him is wrong but I'm in love with him.
Now I can't accept the fact that everything's changed just because someone lied about me.

Like I said, I know this is wrong but one way or the other, I can't seem to do what's right.

Confusedlove:
Before you insult me, please read this carefully.

I fell in love with a married man. This is a very complicated story because I know how wrong this whole situation is but I know it's very easy for anyone to say "just leave him and find your own" but this situation has led me into depression.
I met him some time ago through a friend and I felt it was just going to be a friendship thing.
FAST forward to some months later, he's even better than all the boyfriends I've had combined. He's always there when I need him, he's always all over me and he's just so sweet and to top it all up, his D game is 100%
Everything was going all fine till the friend who hooked us up started to spread lies about me to him and everything has changed now. He's distant now and acts like I'm a whole new person in his eyes.
This whole new situation is almost driving me crazy because I didn't even do all the things I was accused of. I know dating him is wrong but I'm in love with him.
Now I can't accept the fact that everything's changed just because someone lied about me.

Like I said, I know this is wrong but one way or the other, I can't seem to do what's right.

Confusedlove:
Before you insult me, please read this carefully.

I fell in love with a married man. This is a very complicated story because I know how wrong this whole situation is but I know it's very easy for anyone to say "just leave him and find your own" but this situation has led me into depression.
I met him some time ago through a friend and I felt it was just going to be a friendship thing.
FAST forward to some months later, he's even better than all the boyfriends I've had combined. He's always there when I need him, he's always all over me and he's just so sweet and to top it all up, his D game is 100%
Everything was going all fine till the friend who hooked us up started to spread lies about me to him and everything has changed now. He's distant now and acts like I'm a whole new person in his eyes.
This whole new situation is almost driving me crazy because I didn't even do all the things I was accused of. I know dating him is wrong but I'm in love with him.
Now I can't accept the fact that everything's changed just because someone lied about me.

Like I said, I know this is wrong but one way or the other, I can't seem to do what's right.

Ehmmah588:
If you think this op is crazy raise your hand

Confusedlove:
Before you insult me, please read this carefully.

I fell in love with a married man. This is a very complicated story because I know how wrong this whole situation is but I know it's very easy for anyone to say "just leave him and find your own" but this situation has led me into depression.
I met him some time ago through a friend and I felt it was just going to be a friendship thing.
FAST forward to some months later, he's even better than all the boyfriends I've had combined. He's always there when I need him, he's always all over me and he's just so sweet and to top it all up, his D game is 100%
Everything was going all fine till the friend who hooked us up started to spread lies about me to him and everything has changed now. He's distant now and acts like I'm a whole new person in his eyes.
This whole new situation is almost driving me crazy because I didn't even do all the things I was accused of. I know dating him is wrong but I'm in love with him.
Now I can't accept the fact that everything's changed just because someone lied about me.

Like I said, I know this is wrong but one way or the other, I can't seem to do what's right.

Openbusiness:
Some women will NEVER LEARN. A shoulder to cry on, will eventually be a d!ck to ride on, it's only a matter of time. And of course yes, an older married man that has reached the "stability phase" in life will always be a million times better for a younger woman to date than dating a younger your-age-group boyfriend that is still most likely in the "instability phase" and is as unstable as the wind.

Instead of all this cat and mouse bs, why not become his 2nd wife then? Like that famous quote says, "The Heart Wants What The Heart Wants, Even That Which Is Worst For It"

Because the way you're doing it now, If and when his wife eventually catches you, she will hang you with a spear on her wall like a hunting trophy. You will finally know that husband snatching business is like trying to take meat from the mouth of a tiger. If the wife loves her husband and loves her marriage like crazy, then you are in trouble....

specialmati:
ok let me help you.first of all forgive yourself for falling in love with someone's husband. then ask God for forgiveness, then now open your heart and fall in love with Jesus if you are Christian. you will now live a happy life .then ask God anything else you need he will give you.anything you are not doing right steals your joy.

mabea:
Did you just say if you're a Christian....well you first fall in love with Jesus before you become a Christian

Shortyy:
Nobody spread any lies to him.

Most married men are good emotional manipulators. They know what they'll do and say that will make you falling head over heels for them. They know the right button to push, and the right game to play.

Even unmarried guys do this too.

He has had his fun, and he's tired and want to move on to the next emotionally weak girl.

When they profess love and whatnot to you, don't take it seriously. Just chop whatever you're chopping, and when you're done, you move tf on. Simple.