After publishing the article "When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex" some days back on sundayakanni.com, it is necessary to also discuss with guys.

Manhood is sacred, and male folks have been adorned with unique glory by God the Eternal Creator. As expected, the evil devil is aware of this, and he is extremely jealous. The devil hates you sorely, and he is already eager to do what he knows how to do best: "steal, kill and destroy" (John 10:10).

In history, and all through the Bible, there are several incidents where the devil successfully ruined glorious men and turned them into ashes. He utilized several mediums, particularly via members of the opposite gender, usually through illicit sexual encounters. One glaring case study, as far as such a discourse as this is concerned, is that of Samson. As men, we should learn from Samson's brief life, so we won't fall into the same pit he fell into.

First, before Samson was born, he was ordained by God to become a great and mighty deliverer. In the same vein, I want you to know that God knew you before you were born, and He has already destined you to be great. He cares for you, and He has good thoughts toward you

Again, GOD endowed Samson, so he could fulfill his destiny as a Deliverer. Samson's major ability was his great strength, and it was enough to make him a significant man in his day. You too as a man today, God has deposited in you qualities and endowments meant to help you fulfill destiny and take you into greatness. Just discover them and nurture them by His help.

Nevertheless, Samson's endowments attracted immoral women. Like Samson, immoral women will always come your way too.

Samson's greatest mistake was operating outside the Will of God, and he paid dearly for it. As a Nazarite, he shouldn't touch unclean things - but he did (Judges 14:9). He shouldn't have anything to do with immoral women - but he did (Judges 16:1, 4)

In the same vein, God your Creator has given you loving instructions in His Word, asking you to be separated unto Him, and to run away from sin and anything that defiles.

Samson went against God's Will as far as relationship with the opposite gender is concerned. The right thing for him is, when it's time to get married, he should go for one of the damsels among his own people - a daughter of Zion, and not amongst the immoral daughters of the unbelievers. Don't forget what the Bible states:

"Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14)

And of course, the marriage bed must be undefiled, as God's Will for sex is that all manner of sexual pleasure should be shared only between a married man and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution.

As a man in this generation, you must learn wisdom and learn to tame your healthy sexual urges (hence they put you into trouble). You should not have anything to do with just any kind of lady. Many people (both males and females) out there are possessed by demons, and are used by the devil to lead others into destruction. Yes, in fact, many beautiful looking folks out there are actually direct agents of the devil - terrible and evil witches, belongs to dark kingdoms, and are possessed with evil spirits. Your girlfriend is likely one of them.

The right thing in God's Will is that, you should first develop an intimate relationship with Jesus, giving Him your all and making Him your Lord and Savior. If you are yet to do this, simply open your heart and tell Him, "Jesus Christ, come into my life and save me"

As you grow in your relationship with God, He helps you discover your purpose. This is when you can now start thinking about a relationship, with marriage in view. So, what you should do is to allow God connect you with one of His daughters (as you are now a son of God), and you start what is known as courtship - becoming fiance and fiancee, with marriage in view, and not indulging in sexual affairs till marriage.

The boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationship thing is not in the Will of God, and it's used by the devil to spread immorality. What then should you do with such girlfriend? Break such relationship and go your separate ways. Don't allow romantic 'love' (which is lust in reality) lead to your fall (both now and eternally in hell fire). Generations awaits your rising. Please don't fail. Jesus loves you.

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You give it to her. Didn't the Bible say, 'ask and it shall be given'?





Modified: Well, the smart ones can tell that I was just being funny. Plus, I don't buy the entire religion stuff.

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Why keep a girlfriend in the first place?

Like really? Why keep a girlfriend?



I'll start by telling you who a girlfriend is. A girlfriend is a lady a man takes interest in, a lady a man is particular about. Joseph, the earthly father of Christ kept Mary as a girlfriend/fiancee.


When you buy a car you know little about, the mechanic ends up being the one fixing the car everytime it develops little or serious problem. I hope you get my point.

Why keep a girlfriend in the first place?

matrix199:

Like really? Why keep a girlfriend?

I'll start by telling you who a girlfriend is. A girlfriend is a lady a man takes interest in, a lady a man is particular about. Joseph, the earthly father of Christ kept Mary as a girlfriend/fiancee.

When you buy a car you know little about, the mechanic ends up being the one fixing the car everytime it develops little or serious problem. I hope you get my point.

For someone who could advise that he gives it to her because the bible says "ask and it shall be given", I very well understand where you're coming from and hence why you can't comprehend my speech.

jesusjnr2020:
Why keep a girlfriend in the first place?

good question. Funny thing be say people hardly think before them act. Humans na their own Satan.

When your pastor keeps disturbing you for money..

Please write a lengthy post on the above too

I keep saying it.

Fornication or adultery will be rife when most don't call against indecent dressing, free mixing of opposite sexes, watching/listening to sexually provocative videos/Music, pornography, etc.

Almost all the men God guided in the Old testament has one or more mistake. It's only Jesus and maybe a few others are seen as perfect. Even David Jesus' ancestor was accused of adultery, murder, covetousness,...

Funny thing be say people hardly think before them act. Humans na their own Satan.

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What’s Wrong With Sex?
Is there anything wrong with two people coming together and just having sex — for fun — without first having an emotionally intimate relationship (assuming safe sex is practiced of course)?

I was raised to believe the answer to this is yes, that there is something wrong with it.

As a sophomore in high school, I had to write a school paper on why premarital sex was wrong. I did the assignment and regurgitated what I needed to get an A.

Privately I had doubts about what I was taught. And of course I went ahead and had premarital sex anyway, which turned out to be a lot of fun with no guilt or regret.

Looking back, I think I would have preferred to get an F on that assignment and had more fun instead.


Your sexual orientation does not define you
Today I see absolutely nothing wrong with having sex just for fun, as long as it’s done safely and consensually. I think those who feel that sex is wrong, dirty, or immoral are terribly repressed. I’ve never met a genuinely happy person that felt this way about sex. Perhaps if such people just got laid more often, they wouldn’t be so grumpy.

Prerequisites for Sex
What prerequisites do we actually need to engage in sex? A willing partner is really all that’s required. If you have a willing partner, you can have sex.

Serious rocket science here, eh?

Just to be clear, let’s assume your body and your partner’s body are physically capable of having sex as well.

All other rules, constraints, and requirements arise from social conditioning and are therefore unnecessary.

You don’t need to be married or in a committed relationship.

You don’t need to be dating.

You don’t need to be in love.

You don’t need an opposite-sex partner.

You don’t need to be exclusive with your partner.

Your partner doesn’t need to be exclusive with you.

You don’t need to be programmed in multiple techniques.

You don’t even need to have met the other person first.

All you need is consent.

Technically speaking, even your partner’s consent is a socially conditioned prerequisite, but I think it’s one we should maintain. The alternative is illegal, unethical, and hurtful. We can certainly enjoy sex without resorting to rape. Acting out your kinky fantasies, on the other hand, can still be completely consensual.

How many extra rules do you have in your head about what’s required for you to have sex above and beyond the most basic?

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/

Wondering why some Christians are so concerned about Sex than Salvation.

Eish

flee every immorality

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I don't subscribe to illicit sex. It has physical and spiritual effects

First, before Samson was born, he was ordained by God to become a great and mighty deliverer. In the same vein, I want you to know that God knew you before you were born, and He has already destined you to be great. He cares for you, and He has good thoughts toward you

Nevertheless, Samson's endowments attracted immoral women. Like Samson, immoral women will always come your way too.

Only the wise ones will learn something great and everlasting from these few words above.

What's the purpose of this long story this morning?

Oxymoron...

Naija men are very generous and willing to please. You don’t need to DISTURB them.

A willing penis is always available, way more than portable clean water.

Don't be stingy with God's phallus shaft

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Only the wise ones will learn something great and everlasting from these few words above.

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Go and rest, talkative

Na dis kind topic dey give mr. Righteousness orgasm

Soon he will storm the thread with his italic font long epistle

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OK I DEY COME

Fornication has become a norm in our society

FLEE....... There's a way that seem right unto a man but the end is DESTRUCTION.

Philippians 1:18
What then? notwithstanding, every way, whether in pretence, or in truth, Christ is preached; and I therein do rejoice, yea, and will rejoice.

Devious satanic evil masquerading as truth.

No dog of satan will go unpunished!

Preacherman calm down
Even Solomon as a married man had numerous girlfriends and today we pray to be wise like him.
Run your own race man
body no be firewood

pocohantas:
Oxymoron...

Naija men are very generous and willing to please. You don’t need to DISTURB them.

A willing penis is always available, way more than portable clean water.

But above 35, the slack already worn-out p*ssy begins to be stigmatised

jesusjnr2020:
Why keep a girlfriend in the first place?

DID GOD THROW YOUR WIFE FROM HEAVEN TO YOU.