The only thing worse than being a home wrecker is the being the person disrespectful enough to cheat on a committed, legally binding relationship. What are the immediate and long term consequences of a spinster/married woman having a crush with a married man who is not her husband?

lack of trust n bad romance too,

The only thing worse than being a home wrecker is the being the person disrespectful enough to cheat on a committed, legally binding relationship. What are the immediate and long term consequences of a spinster/married woman having a crush with a married man who is not her husband?

FYI   If he felt he was in a "committed, legally binding relationship" he wouldn't be cheating! Cheating wouldn't
even be a topic in the marriage. So, clearly, what the wife thinks and what the husband thinks are 2 different
things. Though I'm sure he's lying his arse off, pretending he's the innocent party in all of this!

The person outside of the marriage can't do anything or cause any more harm than the person within the
marriage allows them to. He might be telling her he's getting a divorce or he's separated from his wife.
You never know.

Sometimes the 'other woman' feels if the husband doesn't respect the marriage, why should she? So the wife's issue is with HIM!
A wife's first reaction is to attack the 'other woman', but He's the one who spoke the wedding vows, not the 'other woman!'

It takes two to Tango!

A spinster having a crush on someone else's husband? She needs to get

the h.ell over it!! And get on with her life. If she's a spinster, find herself

a man! If she's married, act like it! She took vows, before God, to her

husband. She needs to act accordingly!

You all talk about spinsters what about married woman having crush or relationship with single or married men/single men having relationship with married women?