StacyO:


It isn't about equal right at all.
Kai



The topic is all about reasons why female children are not allowed to leave home in pursuit of their dreams,while in their youth.

StacyO:


You know what feminism is but,you keep conflicting your own statements.


I'm not a feminist,just so you know.


All y'all know is how to bring up feminism when in a serious discussion,just to prove void points.

StacyO:


A guy can't do that cause there's no opportunity presenting itself.

When a guy see's a sugar mommy, I'm certain he'll jump on the offer without thinking twice.


I get your point sha.

StacyO:


And who's teaching them??

StacyO:

Know your role and play by your rule.
In Nigeria??
Stop forming Drake here abeg niggar
I'm certain you don't even know what we're discussing.

StacyO:

People,especially men when they see a lady who stays alone comfortably without her family tend to think the girl is most likely wayward.

People tend to think;
1) You're irresponsible
2) Possibly have no parents
3) A prodigal child
4) Sponsored by sugar daddies.
5) Prostitute.

What do you think about it and would you allow your daughter live alone if she comes to you with the plan of doing so??

StacyO:


Gladly you wrote it to be in your books.


I'll advice you to stop attaching everything logical to feminism.

You can't deny my argument to be false instead,you tell me the reason why it is done or a possible solution.




You actually wrote nothing with all the long epistle you wrote about feminism.

Iretii0511:


Nice answer.


Now, if you are a parent, if you have two children, one is weak and always sick, the other is strong and rarely go sick, which would you easily let out between the two?

JayCynic:


Comprehension is essential.
There's nothing logical about your article, you wrote a bunch of STEREOTYPICAL statements based on your limited experiential evidence and passed it on as though it was a generally accepted norm in society. That's why I told you to understand how stereotypes work before making your assertion. Logic is based on factualities not anecdotes.

Your first statement that women are treated as "second class citizens in Nigeria",

Q: Is that a fact? Where's the evidence

"Young girls aren't granted freedom until they're ready to settle down"

Q: How often does this happen? Do they put a gun to their heads? Where's the evidence that it happens to all the women in Nigeria

"They were not granted privilege to be independent"

Independence isn't gotten by privilege, it is gotten by hard work and self-sufficiency.

If I want to go further, I could go on and on to point out dozens of inconsistencies in your piece. If you're writing facts, present data to back it up, if you're writing an experience, then don't generalize. If you're stating your personal opinion, do it coherently.

Leshurr:


First she says no gender is superior to the other, next minute she says a woman would rule better than her male counterparts
Confused fellow.

StacyO:


The healthy or strong child.

Iretii0511:



That's the reason it's easier for our parents to want to let go of their male children while trying their best to keep their female children. It's called love.

Generally, the society believed the male child is strong and should be able to cater for himself, that we are less exposed to risk living alone. This is true to some extent if you will agree with me.

StacyO:


Yes.

I got the point behind the whole issue.


*society* *protection*




Thanks for your time.

Liposure:
The way a girlchild is brought up is quite different in that she is expected to be prim and decent before heading to her husband's house. And this involves: grooming her in her father's house on the dos and don'ts of a lady; grooming her for marriage. For instance, she is not allowed to leave without taking permission. She is not allowed to attend outings. Any act of disobedience is subject to harsh chastisement. Her life is under close supervision like a casual job. Even her privacy is infringed upon. But that is africa for you. At the end of the day, such a girl may never experience independence in her lifetime. Although, things are changing, there is still a long way to go.