Please guys help me Bunminikan jesusjnr2020 yada01 thattallgirl justli Nuttella monben (I'm sorry I didn't reply ur comments that day, the mentions I had that day was much couldn't read it all plus I've been off Nairaland for bout a week now I'm sorry) I... really don't know just yesterday Sunday I was happy thanking God and sharing to my youth leader how I clocked 4weeks without masturbation and today, OMG I was browsing and that was how this picture flashed I couldn't help it but keep searching on the pornster picture and I just couldn't controlled myself. at first I stopped n prayed asking God to please help me quench this temptation. my brothers n sisters it didn't relieve me like it just couldn't I masturbated just again my people and I feel really sad right now cuz only me sabi what masturbation take my eyes see. I don't know why or how I could not have controlled my body

I remembered Kingrefreshed and omobaba1759 saying I shouldn't rejoice yet that the masturbation spirit is stubborn and just like they've said it's true and now I feel the urge just again. please guys help save this soul from destruction and devil's manipulation please.

I'm thinking of fasting but again all the fast I've been doing these days looks like it has not worked when I needed it the most today please help me guys

troublemakea:
Please guys help me Bunminikan jesusjnr2020 yada01 thattallgirl justli Nuttella monben (I'm sorry I didn't reply ur comments the mentions I had that day was much couldn't read it all plus I've been off Nairaland for bout a week now I'm sorry) I... really don't know just yesterday Sunday I was happy thanking God and sharing to my youth leader how I clocked 4weeks without masturbation and today, OMG I was browsing and that was how this picture flashed I couldn't help it but keep searching on the pornster picture and I just couldn't controlled myself. at first I stopped n prayed asking God to please help n quench this temptation. my brothers n sisters it didn't relieve me like it just couldn't I masturbated again my people and I just feel sad right now OMG how could I have not controlled my body

Kingrefreshed and omobaba1759 saying I shouldn't rejoice yet that the masturbation spirit is stubborn and just like they've said it's true and now I feel the urge just again. please guys help this soul from destruction and devil's manipulation please.

I'm thinking of fasting but again all the fast I've been doing looks like it has not worked when I needed it the most today please help me guys

Masturbation is one of the worst addiction you can ever indulge in.

The spirit in charge of Masturbation is called Agabus.

It's a very terrible spirit. I understand what you're going through. Continue to go closer to God daily. It's a gradual process!

troublemakea:
Please guys help me Bunminikan jesusjnr2020 yada01 thattallgirl justli Nuttella monben (I'm sorry I didn't reply ur comments that day, the mentions I had that day was much couldn't read it all plus I've been off Nairaland for bout a week now I'm sorry) I... really don't know just yesterday Sunday I was happy thanking God and sharing to my youth leader how I clocked 4weeks without masturbation and today, OMG I was browsing and that was how this picture flashed I couldn't help it but keep searching on the pornster picture and I just couldn't controlled myself. at first I stopped n prayed asking God to please help me quench this temptation. my brothers n sisters it didn't relieve me like it just couldn't I masturbated just again my people and I feel really sad right now cuz only me sabi what masturbation take my eyes see. I don't know why or how I could not have controlled my body

I remembered Kingrefreshed and omobaba1759 saying I shouldn't rejoice yet that the masturbation spirit is stubborn and just like they've said it's true and now I feel the urge just again. please guys help save this soul from destruction and devil's manipulation please.

I'm thinking of fasting but again all the fast I've been doing these days looks like it has not worked when I needed it the most today please help me guys

You're just stressing yourself. Read and understand the write-up below cos truth be told, u can't get rid of that temptation on your own by reading 5 chapters of Bible in a day or by fasting and praying 100 times a day. Jesus wants you to believe and rest in Him, in His finished work at the cross:


Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Romans 8:1, NASB

Today, I want to talk about how you can have a victorious thought life. My friend, the solution to temptations, sinful desires and thoughts is found in the very first verse of Romans 8: “Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (By the way, some Bible translations, like the New King James Version, go on to say “who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.” This was added by the later Bible translators. In the oldest manuscripts of the New Testament available today, the Greek simply states, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”)

You may experience temptations and sinful thoughts from time to time, but right in the midst of that temptation, you need to know this: There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Notice that this verse is in the present tense. Right now, even if at this very moment, sinful thoughts are going through your mind, there is no condemnation because you are IN CHRIST JESUS! Are we then to sit still and entertain those sinful thoughts? Of course not.

Sin cannot take root in a person who is full of the consciousness that he is righteous in Christ. You cannot stop birds from flying over your head, but you can certainly stop a bird from building a nest on your head. In the same way, you cannot stop temptations, sinful thoughts and desires from passing through your mind, but you can certainly stop yourself from acting on these temptations, sinful thoughts and desires. How? By confessing at the very moment of temptation that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus!

The power of Jesus to overcome every temptation kicks in when you remain conscious that even at the point of temptation, Jesus is still with you and that you are righteous in Him apart from your works (Romans 4:6)! When you do that, you reject the condemnation for the temptation that you faced. You now have the power of Christ to rise above your temptation and to rest in your righteous identity in Christ apart from your works. That, beloved, is the overcoming life in Christ!

troublemakea:
Please guys help me Bunminikan jesusjnr2020 yada01 thattallgirl justli Nuttella monben (I'm sorry I didn't reply ur comments that day, the mentions I had that day was much couldn't read it all plus I've been off Nairaland for bout a week now I'm sorry) I... really don't know just yesterday Sunday I was happy thanking God and sharing to my youth leader how I clocked 4weeks without masturbation and today, OMG I was browsing and that was how this picture flashed I couldn't help it but keep searching on the pornster picture and I just couldn't controlled myself. at first I stopped n prayed asking God to please help me quench this temptation. my brothers n sisters it didn't relieve me like it just couldn't I masturbated just again my people and I feel really sad right now cuz only me sabi what masturbation take my eyes see. I don't know why or how I could not have controlled my body

I remembered Kingrefreshed and omobaba1759 saying I shouldn't rejoice yet that the masturbation spirit is stubborn and just like they've said it's true and now I feel the urge just again. please guys help save this soul from destruction and devil's manipulation please.

I'm thinking of fasting but again all the fast I've been doing these days looks like it has not worked when I needed it the most today please help me guys

And there's a testimony of a guy that used to be addicted to alcohol for a decade or even more. He couldn't stop it on His own. He got hold of a sermon by Joseph Prince that even at the point of temptation, he's righteous in God's eyes cos of what Christ did at the cross. He took all our addictions and diseases and sins at once at the cross. This guy said that even as he couldn't help but get himself a glass of alcohol, right there as he was pouring the drink, he confessed that he's the righteousness of God in Christ. He said he felt like the biggest hypocrite in the world, but each time he poured himself a drink, he kept on confessing that, and he also believed that God's wrath on him has been poured on Jesus at the cross!

Within 2 weeks, he lost his desire to drink alcohol. It may not be as immediate for u as it was for this guy but before u know it, that desire to masturbate will leave you. Someone close to me broke free from it too, and it's been 2 years now with no desire. Christ said we should come to Him and He'll give us REST not STRESS! I pray this will bless you.

troublemakea:
Please guys help me Bunminikan jesusjnr2020 yada01 thattallgirl justli Nuttella monben (I'm sorry I didn't reply ur comments that day, the mentions I had that day was much couldn't read it all plus I've been off Nairaland for bout a week now I'm sorry) I... really don't know just yesterday Sunday I was happy thanking God and sharing to my youth leader how I clocked 4weeks wi-[

I'll try and tell you exactly how I overcame masturbation. If you pay attention carefully, it will work for you. Pls read carefully.

For close to a decade, 9 years to be precise, I indulged this devastating habit. Nothing I didn't do to overcome it, or more accurately, I did everything but what I should.

The reason we stay with this addiction is because you fight. You fast, you cast and bind, you set calendar, you Mark and celebrate successes of abstinence... These all set you up for failure. Your craving heightens being that you are deprived.

Without dragging this too much, I'll tell you what worked for me and I believed, with little variations, it's the only thing that works.

First, I stopped fighting. I came to the conclusion that I was helpless as far as masturbating was concerned. I didn't blame myself. I accepted this as my fallen and weak nature.

But one thing was still clear: yes, I masturbate because of my weak and sinful nature, by no means my fault, but if I die in this sinful nature, I am doomed.

Second thing I did...
One day I was home and had the urge... I let out a prayer of absolute surrender:

I simply said, " God, you know if you want you can heal me of this sickness". It was that simple

You might not believe, you might never understand the depth of God's powers. From that moment, days passed, weeks passed and months...it was an absolute miracle.
It wasn't will power. It wasn't my doing. It wasn't effort. It was God redeeming a broken servant that accepted helplessness.

The next time I'd accidentally see porn flash, it was repulsive and I immediately looked away...I was healed. My default factory setting was restored.

Third thing you must know:
He who the son sets free, is free indeed. But when the son frees you, you must be wise enough to avoid tempting yourself.
Sometime ago, my friend was watching pirate movie full of sex scenes...he urged me to watch...I bluntly told him I'm guiding my sanity. I don't want to tempt the devil because I've realized the powerlessness of my willpower.

God will see your heart and he will heal you. But you have to let him. Stop hurting, it's the devil's way of ensnaring you even deeper.

We are all sinners. Make peace with that. Now ask the son to do heal you because you are helpless...wait for the miracle.

troublemakea:
Please guys help me Bunminikan jesusjnr2020 yada01 thattallgirl justli Nuttella monben (I'm sorry I didn't reply ur comments that day, the mentions I had that day was much couldn't read it all plus I've been off Nairaland for bout a week now I'm sorry) I... really don't know just yesterday Sunday I was happy thanking God and sharing to my youth leader how I clocked 4weeks without masturbation and today, OMG I was browsing and that was how this picture flashed I couldn't help it but keep searching on the pornster picture and I just couldn't controlled myself. at first I stopped n prayed asking God to please help me quench this temptation. my brothers n sisters it didn't relieve me like it just couldn't I masturbated just again my people and I feel really sad right now cuz only me sabi what masturbation take my eyes see. I don't know why or how I could not have controlled my body

I remembered Kingrefreshed and omobaba1759 saying I shouldn't rejoice yet that the masturbation spirit is stubborn and just like they've said it's true and now I feel the urge just again. please guys help save this soul from destruction and devil's manipulation please.

I'm thinking of fasting but again all the fast I've been doing these days looks like it has not worked when I needed it the most today please help me guys

See bro, that you aren't there yet doesn't mean you're not making progress. That you had a setback doesn't mean nothing has changed. You have to keep at it. Keep striving til it becomes a thing of the past. Do not expect that just because you fasted for a few days that it would just leave you forever like that. Fasting is similar to prayer as Jesus said we ought to pray always and not to faint. It's a spiritual exercise which helps to keeps you spiritually fit. And as you know with exercises, when you stop doing them, you begin to lose (spiritual) fitness, and you should know already that the flesh is weak.

So fast as regularly as you could until you get to the point where your spirit has gained more control over your inclinations than your flesh. There's a point you'd even get to where such things would no longer move you anymore or to that extent. Even if you come across such things accidentally, you'd still be able to control yourself and leave there without much difficulty because your spirit has more control over your inclinations.

As I told you, it shouldn't just be about leaving masturbation, but getting closer to God and becoming all He wants you to be. So you should also study His Word and learn what He requires of you and do them. I'd recommend the teachings of Jesus to you. Keep those Words and you'd surely become an overcomer of temptations as Jesus was.

God bless.

jesusjnr2020:
See bro, that you aren't there yet doesn't mean you're making progress. That you had a setback doesn't mean nothing has changed. You have to keep at it. Keep striving til it becomes a thing of the past. Do not expect that just because you fasted for a few days that it would just leave you forever like that. Fasting is similar to prayer as Jesus said we ought to pray always and not to faint. It's a spiritual exercise which helps to keeps you spiritually fit. And as you know with exercises, when you stop doing them, you begin to lose (spiritual) fitness, and you should know already that the flesh is weak.

So fast as regularly as you could until you get to the point where your spirit has gained more control over your inclinations than your flesh. There's a point you'd even get to where such things would no longer move you anymore or to that point. Even if you come across such things accidentally, you'd still be able to control yourself and leave there without much difficulty because your spirit has more control over your inclinations.

As I told you, it shouldn't just be about leaving masturbation, but getting closer to God and becoming all He wants you to be. So you should also study His Word and learn what He requires of you and do them. I'd recommend the teachings of Jesus to you. Keep those Words and you'd surely become an overcomer of temptations as Jesus was.

God bless.

God bless you to bro.....this was really helpful

I guess I'd keep coming to check this message over n over again for motivation

Thattallgirl:
You're just stressing yourself. Read and understand the write-up below cos truth be told, u can't get rid of that temptation on your own by reading 5 chapters of Bible in a day or by fasting and praying 100 times a day. Jesus wants you to believe and rest in Him, in His finished work at the cross:


Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Romans 8:1, NASB

Today, I want to talk about how you can have a victorious thought life. My friend, the solution to temptations, sinful desires and thoughts is found in the very first verse of Romans 8: “Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (By the way, some Bible translations, like the New King James Version, go on to say “who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.” This was added by the later Bible translators. In the oldest manuscripts of the New Testament available today, the Greek simply states, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”)

You may experience temptations and sinful thoughts from time to time, but right in the midst of that temptation, you need to know this: There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Notice that this verse is in the present tense. Right now, even if at this very moment, sinful thoughts are going through your mind, there is no condemnation because you are IN CHRIST JESUS! Are we then to sit still and entertain those sinful thoughts? Of course not.

Sin cannot take root in a person who is full of the consciousness that he is righteous in Christ. You cannot stop birds from flying over your head, but you can certainly stop a bird from building a nest on your head. In the same way, you cannot stop temptations, sinful thoughts and desires from passing through your mind, but you can certainly stop yourself from acting on these temptations, sinful thoughts and desires. How? By confessing at the very moment of temptation that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus!

The power of Jesus to overcome every temptation kicks in when you remain conscious that even at the point of temptation, Jesus is still with you and that you are righteous in Him apart from your works (Romans 4:6)! When you do that, you reject the condemnation for the temptation that you faced. You now have the power of Christ to rise above your temptation and to rest in your righteous identity in Christ apart from your works. That, beloved, is the overcoming life in Christ!

I see this as a motivation but please sister as much as it sounds nearly impossible but please always include me in ur daily prayers Jesusjnr2020 you to please. the fact that I'm finding it hard to break free from this act and that I'm almost bout dropping outta Uni is rather killing me slowly. my name is Zion pls bro n sis put me in prayers and I believe when two or three are joined in faith there's nothing God cannot do I want to believe.

justli:


I'll try and tell you exactly how I overcame masturbation. If you pay attention carefully, it will work for you. Pls read carefully.

For close to a decade, 9 years to be precise, I indulged this devastating habit. Nothing I didn't do to overcome it, or more accurately, I did everything but what I should.

The reason we stay with this addiction is because you fight. You fast, you cast and bind, you set calendar, you Mark and celebrate successes of abstinence... These all set you up for failure. Your craving heightens being that you are deprived.

Without dragging this too much, I'll tell you what worked for me and I believed, with little variations, it's the only thing that works.

First, I stopped fighting. I came to the conclusion that I was helpless as far as masturbating was concerned. I didn't blame myself. I accepted this as my fallen and weak nature.

But one thing was still clear: yes, I masturbate because of my weak and sinful nature, by no means my fault, but if I die in this sinful nature, I am doomed.

Second thing I did...
One day I was home and had the urge... I let out a prayer of absolute surrender:

I simply said, " God, you know if you want you can heal me of this sickness". It was that simple

You might not believe, you might never understand the depth of God's powers. From that moment, days passed, weeks passed and months...it was an absolute miracle.
It wasn't will power. It wasn't my doing. It wasn't effort. It was God redeeming a broken servant that accepted helplessness.

The next time I'd accidentally see porn flash, it was repulsive and I immediately looked away...I was healed. My default factory setting was restored.

Third thing you must know:
He who the son sets free, is free indeed. But when the son frees you, you must be wise enough to avoid tempting yourself.
Sometime ago, my friend was watching pirate movie full of sex scenes...he urged me to watch...I bluntly told him I'm guiding my sanity. I don't want to tempt the devil because I've realized the powerlessness of my willpower.

God will see your heart and he will heal you. But you have to let him. Stop hurting, it's the devil's way of ensnaring you even deeper.

We are all sinners. Make peace with that. Now ask the son to do heal you because you are helpless...wait for the miracle.

Thanks brother I hope to keep reading y'all comment time to time and I'm sure I'd get just the motivations I need

troublemakea:


I see this as a motivation but please sister as much as it sounds nearly impossible but please always include me in ur daily prayers Jesusjnr2020 you to please. the fact that I'm finding it hard to break free from this act and that I'm almost bout dropping outta Uni is rather killing me slowly. my name is Zion pls bro n sis put me in prayers and I believe when two or three are joined in faith there's nothing God cannot do I want to believe.

It's not just a motivation. It's reality. Someone got healed from addiction through it. Someone close to me too. Even I had another type of addiction and got healed through it. It's not nearly impossible. I pray the Holy Spirit opens yours eyes to see and understand clearly dear.

I have a similar story to this. I just told God one day that I have done everything I can and nothing has worked. That if He likes, He should help me, and if he doesn't like, He should leave me to keep disgracing Him. I told God I was done fighting. After saying that, I carried on with my life as normal. After like two weeks, it just occurred to me that I've not yet had the urge to masturbate. I was actually shocked. That was how the habit died. But I still had to fight to guard what comes into my mind and the things I watch.

justli:


I'll try and tell you exactly how I overcame masturbation. If you pay attention carefully, it will work for you. Pls read carefully.

For close to a decade, 9 years to be precise, I indulged this devastating habit. Nothing I didn't do to overcome it, or more accurately, I did everything but what I should.

The reason we stay with this addiction is because you fight. You fast, you cast and bind, you set calendar, you Mark and celebrate successes of abstinence... These all set you up for failure. Your craving heightens being that you are deprived.

Without dragging this too much, I'll tell you what worked for me and I believed, with little variations, it's the only thing that works.

First, I stopped fighting. I came to the conclusion that I was helpless as far as masturbating was concerned. I didn't blame myself. I accepted this as my fallen and weak nature.

But one thing was still clear: yes, I masturbate because of my weak and sinful nature, by no means my fault, but if I die in this sinful nature, I am doomed.

Second thing I did...
One day I was home and had the urge... I let out a prayer of absolute surrender:

I simply said, " God, you know if you want you can heal me of this sickness". It was that simple

You might not believe, you might never understand the depth of God's powers. From that moment, days passed, weeks passed and months...it was an absolute miracle.
It wasn't will power. It wasn't my doing. It wasn't effort. It was God redeeming a broken servant that accepted helplessness.

The next time I'd accidentally see porn flash, it was repulsive and I immediately looked away...I was healed. My default factory setting was restored.

Third thing you must know:
He who the son sets free, is free indeed. But when the son frees you, you must be wise enough to avoid tempting yourself.
Sometime ago, my friend was watching pirate movie full of sex scenes...he urged me to watch...I bluntly told him I'm guiding my sanity. I don't want to tempt the devil because I've realized the powerlessness of my willpower.

God will see your heart and he will heal you. But you have to let him. Stop hurting, it's the devil's way of ensnaring you even deeper.

We are all sinners. Make peace with that. Now ask the son to do heal you because you are helpless...wait for the miracle.

SegFault:
Nigerians ehn, always looking for what to blame their laziness and lack of goals on. If this one wasn't masturbating I'm sure he'll blame it on his enemies.

Slavery of his belief. Finding something not relevant to blame the cause of calamity on. Thou I'm not encouraging 'masturbation'.

troublemakea:


Thanks brother I hope to keep reading y'all comment time to time and I'm sure I'd get just the motivations I need

You don't need motivation. You seem not to have read anything I said. You don't need motivation. You don't need to constantly read comments. When you really want to quite you will do the needful

LordPherule:


Slavery of his belief. Finding something not relevant to blame the cause of calamity on. Thou I'm not encouraging 'masturbation'.

Na so dem de do oh.

troublemakea:


I see this as a motivation but please sister as much as it sounds nearly impossible but please always include me in ur daily prayers Jesusjnr2020 you to please. the fact that I'm finding it hard to break free from this act and that I'm almost bout dropping outta Uni is rather killing me slowly. my name is Zion pls bro n sis put me in prayers and I believe when two or three are joined in faith there's nothing God cannot do I want to believe.

What I told you is very realistic, tried and trusted. I have been where you are before so i understand what you're going through. It wasn't easy for me but i kept at it and never gave up despite the setbacks. Now thank God I have overcome such. I have so much control now that it's just about impossible for me to fall into such ever again. Not that I don't have situations where I bump into such things because they are just about every where you go. But i am able to control myself with so much ease and it's getting better by the day.

So if you keep at it, I believe you'd also testify soon as I'm doing today.

It's not by might nor by power but by the Spirit of God. With God, nothing shall be impossible.

I've started praying for you.

God bless.

Listen bro .....go on Reddit and read more about Nofap/semen retention .you will never bring this kind of issue here again

You have nothing to worry about bro, the relapse is normal. You have to be stubborn about overcoming this spirit. I will advice don't put too much pressure on yourself, take it one day at a time . Are you staying alone or isolate yourself often? If yes, then you have to find a way to be around people always. At least you can't bring your dick out and start masturbating in front of them. Again, you need to shift your focus on something different maybe a goal or something, something that will keep you busy even if you think about masturbation, you will be so tired to bring your dick out and start wanking and alear your browser history, if possible download browser that don't show video . And try to have a cold water shower at night. You can go on youtube and see preaching videos about the spirit of masturbation and ways to overcome it.

Most importantly, Never stop praying , you can fast about it as well

troublemakea:
Please guys help me Bunminikan jesusjnr2020 yada01 thattallgirl justli Nuttella monben (I'm sorry I didn't reply ur comments that day, the mentions I had that day was much couldn't read it all plus I've been off Nairaland for bout a week now I'm sorry) I... really don't know just yesterday Sunday I was happy thanking God and sharing to my youth leader how I clocked 4weeks without masturbation and today, OMG I was browsing and that was how this picture flashed I couldn't help it but keep searching on the pornster picture and I just couldn't controlled myself. at first I stopped n prayed asking God to please help me quench this temptation. my brothers n sisters it didn't relieve me like it just couldn't I masturbated just again my people and I feel really sad right now cuz only me sabi what masturbation take my eyes see. I don't know why or how I could not have controlled my body

I remembered Kingrefreshed and omobaba1759 saying I shouldn't rejoice yet that the masturbation spirit is stubborn and just like they've said it's true and now I feel the urge just again. please guys help save this soul from destruction and devil's manipulation please.

I'm thinking of fasting but again all the fast I've been doing these days looks like it has not worked when I needed it the most today please help me guys

Vivian16:
The only potent antidote against masturbation is fasting and prayer, fasting helps to fight bad habits and addictions by weakening the flesh and strengthening your innerman (spirit )

Girl I don't think so.... To me when I fast all my senses heighten the more both internally and externally

.