dre11:
Nigerian couple clash over ‘side chick’, property
Katherine Daramola says her husband and his mistress are conniving to deprive her of the property, an allegation Mr Daramola denies.




https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/441071-nigerian-couple-clash-over-side-chick-property.html

you can't take that away from a yoruba man. Adultery is their birthrights .

The part she said Nigerian men abandon their wife abroad interest me a lot.

Men pls don't take this our fake black girl's abroad after marriage, they will turn ur life into miserable trash bin.
You know how our black sisters fake their lifestyle, like bleaching, fake hair, fake love, fame grammar, fake age, fake lifestyle, that how they will fake u their husband abroad.

Justkatty:
I can't still fathom the reason or reasons while some people who aren't ready to leave the single life, just rush into marriage and start misbehaving....
It kind of irritating seeing some married men and women not being committed.
God let your will alone be done in our lives.

Who is not ready to leave a single life, did you see there ages and could tell how long they have been married?
Something happened in there marriage, they have marital challenges that they could n’t handle well does not mean they are not ready to leave single life.

UKBobo:
The side chick photo has 'Gold-nigger' written all over.

You are very stupid cracker for coming here to call black people Nigger.

Yoruba demon

brandsoncharlie:

Leave that thing divorce dey everywhere, even the enlightened one's are getting divorced. It has nothing to do with gender and it's imperative.

In the west, high rate of divorce is due mainly to the fact that law of marriage contract is skewed in favour of the female gender, so people take advantage of it to cash out. But here in Nigeria, most marital problems are caused by the reason I gave earlier. However, in no distant future, and as more people begin to adapt to changes, we may have more stable marriages.

2mch:

He’s 61. He retired at 51 and they just completed this house not too long ago. The man is useless. He wants to steal that woman’s hard work. Even the furnishing of the house, the woman is still paying for that in the US. Yes some women lie, but this woman is saying the truth. They called police for the woman and the police ended up chasing the side chick and man out as she had proof. There are many useless men out there bro. More painful when a man is a fool in old age. This side chick is married and dumped her own kids to pursue this man thinking he has money. Who is he that she won’t dump when she convinces him to sell the house? Even the car he’s driving the wife bought.
This baba will die in shame and disgrace at this rate if he does not retrace his footsteps. After 45 you suppose don gather sense and leave side chick matter. For him his children are his future yet trying to steal from them. When he has squandered their inheritance on pussy he will now be blackmailing them.

Have you heard the man's side of the story?

Ishilove:

I should say thank you for the rubbish he wrote? So you don't know that 'hate' can be used as a noun, verb and adjective in a sentence?

You people should learn to use the internet for education, not just profitless social media surfing.

it doesn't take anything from you to say thanks first,then you can make your observation.

Deepthoughts:
Did you read the part were the husband said the wife was big trouble,that should give you a clue to why the man left her in the US n returned to Nigeria, always check the both sides of every argument before jumping to conclusions.

Should that be the reason the man wants to destroy what he’s children would inherit with a gold digger. If the man was doing what he’s doing with some respect and dignity I would have reasoned with him.

Mindlog:
“We built two duplexes and the Certificate of Occupancy (C of O) has my name (on it).”.....Very smart of her, at least she and their 4 children are legally protected against any greedy mind.

With the ending of the 25 years of marriage in view, the woman will not leave the union empty- handed.

Think for a moment. Her name is on the C of O. They even left the house yet she is shouting on Facebook and contacting premium times that they wanted to take her house from her and yet she is a lawyer. It appears she knows she is losing otherwise she won't need to be shouting on social media. With her name on it and a case in court, she should automatically get her share but she is still saying they want to take her house. Is that not enough to tell you she is playing a psychological game? The man said they have been to court severally and she has been losing.....THAT MAY BE THE KEY TO HER RANTS. Don't just believe one sided story. Women can play emotional games. As a lawyer, she should leave the courts to do their job rather than shouting on Facebook and Calling premium times

Asadujames202:



Her vajina don wide



No man finds wide vajina pleasurable




Having Mistress is the way to go

but the mistress is married and may have wide pussy too.

Theoutsider:


He is a US lawyer DOPE!

You know nothing about the wife...

Women want to date rich men.. well this is the risk. Whats your point? 30% of children in Nigeria are not the fathers and he doesn't know. So shut your trap

The woman is the one who is the United States-based lawyer.

Hangulsaram:

Who is not ready to leave a single life, did you see there ages and could tell how long they have been married?
Something happened in there marriage, they have marital challenges that they could n’t handle well does not mean they are not ready to leave single life.

C'mon!!! Don't be too myopic to see that, it just started at this old age.
There are things that are left unsaid.

emmyclassic:
Should that be the reason the man wants to destroy what he’s children would inherit with a gold digger. If the man was doing what he’s doing with some respect and dignity I woul
d have reasoned with him.

No dey act based on wetin the us woman Tok. E get y.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Including your sisters, nieces and mom

Justkatty:
C'mon!!! Don't be too myopic to see that, it just started at this old age.
There are things that are left unsaid.

I’m not being myopic my dear, you said it just started at the old age which they have good all those years living together and committed to their marriage until something happened. So it’s not a matter of them no ready to leave single life as you said.

I dont see any problem here. I wonder why it made social media.
She is interested in her property where she spent 53k to furnish. The man is willing to leave the entire property for her and file for divorce (as he has other properties,even before they met). No issues here. They should quietly divorce or make up. I suspect the woman here! Blackmail.

Only God know what trouble the wife has shown him in America. You can see he said she is a trouble maker. And she is a lawyer in the US. The man simply escaped to Nigeria to avoid her legal troubles. Imagine seeking a divorce from a lawyer.

Jman06:
The reason why marriages among modern day Nigerian couples don't last is that we have not learnt to change with civilization. We want to still hold on to some archaic cultural mindsets about marriage while at the same time we also want to enjoy the benefits of modernization.

Simply put, we train our female children and empower them economically without training their minds to accept the fact that it won't be a taboo to make financial contributions in their homes nor marry a good man who is not financially well off.

Also, we fail to train the minds of our sons to accept the fact that things have to change as regards what was traditionally considered as roles of the two gender in marriages. So, our men want working class ladies who will at the same time be subservient to them and also do all the house chores even after exhausting herself at her work place. It won't work that way!

The above reasons contribute largely to why people don't derive satisfaction in their marriages beyond the few weeks of honeymoon when the love is still 'shacking' them.

In summary, let's learn to change our mindsets about what was initially considered gender roles prior to modernization and girl-child empowerment. That way, we'll derive satisfaction from our marriages.

God bless you .

If the woman is trouble maker, why not divorce her and leave ? She is trouble maker, you left her with your four children and still accepted the stuff she sent for upgrading the home...you can see that -

ajl:
Only God know what trouble the wife has shown him in America. You can see he said she is a trouble maker. And she is a lawyer in the US. The man simply escaped to Nigeria to avoid her legal troubles. Imagine seeking a divorce from a lawyer.

The man is not saying the truth.

Bola146:
Most married men are inside bondage (juju) That is why I don't pity any married man having side chick, na the lady go render him useless materially and financially. Look at his beautiful wife old papa is still having side chick . All these side chicks destroying peaceful home knowingly, na motor go jam you very soon, you shall never know peace

Amennnn

Jman06:
The reason why marriages among modern day Nigerian couples don't last is that we have not learnt to change with civilization. We want to still hold on to some archaic cultural mindsets about marriage while at the same time we also want to enjoy the benefits of modernization.

Simply put, we train our female children and empower them economically without training their minds to accept the fact that it won't be a taboo to make financial contributions in their homes nor marry a good man who is not financially well off.

Also, we fail to train the minds of our sons to accept the fact that things have to change as regards what was traditionally considered as roles of the two gender in marriages. So, our men want working class ladies who will at the same time be subservient to them and also do all the house chores even after exhausting herself at her work place. It won't work that way!

The above reasons contribute largely to why people don't derive satisfaction in their marriages beyond the few weeks of honeymoon when the love is still 'shacking' them.

In summary, let's learn to change our mindsets about what was initially considered gender roles prior to modernization and girl-child empowerment. That way, we'll derive satisfaction from our marriages.

So how come the divorce rate in the US is 50% (ie, 1 out of every 2 marriages in the US fail)...
Does this means that Americans also cling to “archaic cultural mindsets” and fail to change with modernization?!

Kobo kobo pop psychologists just full Nairaland!
>

This should be made into a movie to teach those in diaspora an eye opening lesson.

Let ur property come in ur name no matter how sweet ur marriage may seem then..

9jaRealist:


So how come the divorce rate in the US is 50% (ie, 1 out of every 2 marriages in the US fail)...
Does this means that Americans also cling to “archaic cultural mindsets” and fail to change with modernization?!

Kobo kobo pop psychologists just full Nairaland!
>

The high divorce rate in the US is due to the fact that the law governing marriage contract is in favour of the female gender, hence ladies cash in on it to enrich themselves. If the law wasn't that favourable, less women would opt for divorce.

2mch:

He’s 61. He retired at 51 and they just completed this house not too long ago. The man is useless. He wants to steal that woman’s hard work. Even the furnishing of the house, the woman is still paying for that in the US. Yes some women lie, but this woman is saying the truth. They called police for the woman and the police ended up chasing the side chick and man out as she had proof. There are many useless men out there bro. More painful when a man is a fool in old age. This side chick is married and dumped her own kids to pursue this man thinking he has money. Who is he that she won’t dump when she convinces him to sell the house? Even the car he’s driving the wife bought.
This baba will die in shame and disgrace at this rate if he does not retrace his footsteps. After 45 you suppose don gather sense and leave side chick matter. For him his children are his future yet trying to steal from them. When he has squandered their inheritance on pussy he will now be blackmailing them.

Bro... please don't believe the story of the wife just yet...these women can give concocted tales.

Did you read the story of the woman who swore and insisted her employer assaulted her, only for a CCTV footage to show that she was the one who slapped her boss twice; the boss sued her afterwards.

Again, please always listen to the other side of the story before reaching a conclusion.

Wetin man de do with 2 women sef? Women wey their wahala fit give person hbp. Some men no de try at all. Just using hand to drag problems to themselves.

shameless woman the facts still remain the man is not divorced so why claiming the property of a woman like you � some men are so useless they will be rubbishing their wife and gullible side chick abi side woman � will naw be acting upon the information she's hearing from the irresponsible man.

Deepthoughts:
Did you read the part were the husband said the wife was big trouble,that should give you a clue to why the man left her in the US n returned to Nigeria, always check the both sides of every argument before jumping to conclusions.

Everyone will try to defend his own side and probably lie.
The issue here is that the woman from the story has a contribution to the building that the man is trying to claim ownership of.
Whether she was troublesome or not,she shouldn't be denied her rights.

Adetokunbo Daramola and his alleged mistress, Abisoye Shitta-Bey
Fear Shitta Girls...


I’m from surulere Incase you no know

dre11:
Nigerian couple clash over ‘side chick’, property
Katherine Daramola says her husband and his mistress are conniving to deprive her of the property, an allegation Mr Daramola denies.




https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/441071-nigerian-couple-clash-over-side-chick-property.html

Marriage no easy Sha, why would the man leave him wife for united state to have a side chick in Nigeria it means the marriage has issues, people should know when to file a divorce, marriage is not a do or die affair, infact the man insulted not only the wife but the holy matrimony called marriage why would he bring a side chick to the couples house it's totally wrong, if the man must get a side chick do the needful file a divorce legally.

thorpido:
Everyone will try to defend his own side and probably lie.
The issue here is that the woman from the story has a contribution to the building that the man is trying to claim ownership of.
Whether she was troublesome or not,she shouldn't be denied her rights.

But the man said he had other houses n was willing to leave so what's the fuss all about,let everyone enjoy his/her peace shikena.

emmyclassic:
Should that be the reason the man wants to destroy what he’s children would inherit with a gold digger. If the man was doing what he’s doing with some respect and dignity I would have reasoned with him.

If the side chick is a gold digger then the wife that sent the man running from the US is gold destroyer,you don't what pains the woman might have put the man through.