1. What do you do when your best friend's boyfriend likes you?
2. Why is it important to be honest with your boyfriend?

Do you subscribe to the current trend of ''conditional honesty'' or ''honest mistakes'' in relationships?

answer
1: uninterested
2: You should rephrase that question, Honestly sometimes is not the solution

honesty* my bad, Its from experience

nurabela:

1. What do you do when your best friend's boyfriend likes you?

I had that experience somewhere last year where my bf's childhood and best bestest friend falls for me. I learn to be honest with him and my bf by telling the turth. Its gonna hurt but its the best thing to keep your relationship genuine and pure. So my answer is I will tell my bf's best friend that I am not interested in him and that he shouldnt back stab his own best friend by going out with his gf. If he doesnt listens, than I will tell my bf about it.

nurabela:

2. Why is it important to be honest with your boyfriend?

If you are serious about your relationship, than its best to be honest with things or issues like this. Relationships is about commitment, responsibilities, trust and support so honesty is key.

By conditional honesty, I mean that great majority of people are honest as far as is convenient to them: they may be honest or dishonest depending on their interest in the matter at hand or they may say what they feel other partner wants to hear just to please them.

1. if he's finer n have a great personality dan my bf, then i will dump my bf for him.

2. cus dis da person im datin, if we aint honest wit one another then wats da point of being in a relationship in da first place.

You guys are all talking about honesty like say its the best thing in the world, You can be honest to a certain point but for certain people honesty can ruin their lives

nurabela:

1. What do you do when your best friend's boyfriend likes you?
2. Why is it important to be honest with your boyfriend?

1. It doesn't have to be my best friend's boyfriend. Anyone's boyfriend. I tell them to back off and remind them that they have someone waiting for them.

2. Honesty is always best with a boyfriend. No matter how the truth hurts, I will tell him. If it's someone else, like a friend, family member, I can lie to protect them. I've done it before and I won't change that. When a more appropriate opportunity to reveal the truth to them presents itself, then I'll decide whether or not it needs to be taken. To a bf/potential husband, the truth should always be told. If he loves you back like he says he does (hopefully he says he does), then he should understand your point of view.