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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by spadar4u(m): 2:53pm On Feb 28, 2021

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by spadar4u(m): 3:03pm On Feb 28, 2021
darealbabe:


Truth is relative. Facts require provable references. And Assumptions are unfounded statements. But only an immature mind assumes Assumptions to be Facts when they makes a post without any provable reference.

The females in your life don't need to know I exist. As long as you know your female folks (particularly your mother) are part of the women you described in your posts, that's sufficient for me. wink grin tongue I hope she doesn't know you hold such deranged views about her.

If I'm a loser, a fool, and idiotic, for standing up for your mother and the rest of the women around you, so be it.
U ain't got no mum.u are a product of prostitution

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by yellowpepper: 4:11pm On Feb 28, 2021
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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Dybala11(m): 4:44pm On Feb 28, 2021
budaatum:


Who wants equity or equality with a man when a womans rightful place is Superiority?

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#Feminisuperiorwomen!
Right there in your comment is the exact definition of "delusions of grandeur", that sense of superiority is just a concept of your imaginations with no objective reality. The superiority you've been shouting about even only ends with you typing the word on Nairaland and nowhere else. grin
Anyway, whatever makes you feel good and sleep at night. grin

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Coinbased: 4:48pm On Feb 28, 2021
They will not read this I bet

Most of them are still running after me up and down just like David o all because

I am getting cash I am attracting bitchesss
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by magicbrain007: 7:30pm On Feb 28, 2021
Nonso92:
#word
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by unmask: 7:46pm On Feb 28, 2021
Mikester:
This is a sequel to my previous thread @ https://www.nairaland.com/6427941/things-every-guy-should-know for the ladies in the house.

Disclaimer : This isn't to bash women neither is it meant to surface gender war. I'm no expert on women affairs but quite well-informed. Thanks. Love from Mikester. cool

10 things ladies should know before 30.

1. Set your priorities straight

Women are more likely to view things from an emotional perspective than a logical one which in most cases make them to stick to some wrong choices consistently.

That's why every sensible and wise lady should know how to chase her needs before her wants and to ensure to stick to that decision. Know thy needs young woman. The woman who knows how to set her priorities straight gets her heart desires.

2. Don't be materialistic

Especially when you're broke. A materialistic broke lady will not be able to prioritise wisely thus she's bound to fall.

If you're a materialistic lady, you will always want to have a lot which you don't really need. You won't think twice before buying expensive things (bone straight hair, 60k dress, e.t.c.) but will find it very difficult to invest in yourself.

It is only a while before you eventually turn your head towards prostitution or other illegal means to sustain your extravagant lifestyle. If you want to be materialistic, then be rich.

3. Don't put your looks forward and your hygiene behind

Though some women prioritise their looks and hygiene, we still have some who do not really care because they somehow tend to believe that they will get admirers no matter what. They are the "take me as I am" crew but they fail to realise that for a lady, her body shape, quality and looks equates her self worth and will also determine the kind of men that will approach and cherish her.

Women, your body is your money, high value men prefer better looking and clean women. Don't neglect that.

4. Be busy with something

Though you're beautiful and have an attractive shape, you still need to engage in something. Don't be idle. Don't be a queen waiting on a king. Be a queen busy with her kingdom until her king arrives. Work and earn money and quit prostitution and idle living.

5. Do not depend on your man for everything

It's disgusting when a woman tends to rely on her man for everything even her basic needs. Women like this won't be kept around for long.

6. Shun feminism

Don't be a feminist in your home if you want to have a healthy marriage, that will be lying to yourself and anyone who wants to be happy and successful shouldn't lie to his or herself.

If you yearn for a successful and peaceful marriage, shun feminism as it is against it. Let feminism be for women who choose to be single.

Hate feminism till your last blood drops and you will enjoy a better marriage.

7. Hug feminity

Feminity is the power a woman have to get what she wants. Women who imitate men tend to be unhappy and ridiculed by society. Feminity aids a woman far beyond marriage as well.

A feminine woman is nice, humble and caring. The traits men love most in women. A man would rather fall for a feminine woman than a masculine woman because she makes him feel like a man the most and he'll be eager to give in to her desires more than the other.

Moreover, a woman can't change a man to favour her but her feminity can be a reason for him to change. Thus, she becomes happy and other women will see her as an inspiration.

8. Close your legs

Your body value determines the class of men that will approach you, the more you lose your value through sex, the more serious high value men will despise you. Men study women. Men are watching you and most men will rather choose a virgin whether primary or secondary over a slut. You know that. Deal with it.

Besides the fastest way for men to loose interest in you is by sleeping with you. When you give it to me today, Xenry tommorow, Slawormiir the day after and BadRadio the next week, you're just giving the impression that you have less or no value which lowers your chance of getting or keeping better men.

9. Stop chasing bad boys and scornful men

For God sake, chasing people will always put you at a loss. Consider a man who sells yam at the road and sees Uncle Lalasticlala driving by and chases after him with a tuber of yam, begging him on arrival to purchase the yam.

If the yam's original price was #1, 200, Uncle Lalasticlala will be at power to reduce the price to his own choice, perhaps as low as #500 which will make the man out of desperation to tender it to him leading to his sad loss BUT peradventure the man had opened a nice yam shop with an attractive display that lures people to it, he would sell at a much better price and may even find a better buyer.

Therefore my point is this, chasing people especially bad people will put you at a huge loss. You'll have to follow their own terms to be accepted and what do most guys require from ladies? You'll answer that yourself.

Besides studies have shown that being a bad boy is no longer perceived as cool. Chase a bad boy if you love to be taken advantage of.

As I said to the guys in my previous thread, so I'll say, Don't chase people man or woman, rather be yourself and invest in yourself more and the right people would come around you.

10. Invest in yourself

It will do you good and no evil. People who invest in themselves increase their value and are revered by society. Read more books than people's statuses. Look more attractive, engage in something, add to your cooking skills, be hygienic as though no one has ever be hygiene before. Invest in yourself today.

Hope I'm making sense


Courtsey - Mikester
in one vein you are saying they should get priorities straight.....while in another, you are talking about marriage like it's the all in all......

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Melaninprincess(f): 7:56pm On Feb 28, 2021
They should also be aware of opportunities that are available for women. Like the SheVentures from FCMB. Their 2nd year anniversary is coming up this week. Register via the link in my signature

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by scarycuteface(m): 8:00pm On Feb 28, 2021
Every lady below 30 or even above 30 should be part of this amazing opportunity. Everyone is a winner with FCMB in the anniversary of SheVentures coming soon

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by bluefilm: 8:13pm On Feb 28, 2021
Mikester:


5. Do not depend on your man for everything

It's disgusting when a woman tends to rely on her man for everything even her basic needs. Women like this won't be kept around for long.


I think this one right here needs to be repeated over and over and over so that it can enter their sense very well.
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Atolu01: 8:18pm On Feb 28, 2021
Dumb post; and dumber poster.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by Corroro: 8:34pm On Feb 28, 2021
Nice list, I love the part of setting your priorities straight and in doing that I'll advice every woman out there to visit the SheVentures, it is a platform that supports women owned SMEs through access to finance, training and mentoring (All sponsored by FCMB), just check it out at https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_wFHOVrVoSnq8z9EapqweFA
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by doxijaw: 8:40pm On Feb 28, 2021
awulio:
Western women are happy. We prefer prefer animals to humans in general. Western men are better than Nigerian men. They not scared of successful women. When I say western men I mean white men and asian men. You black men are scared of successful women. I’m happy not being with a Nigerian man.

Stats or this is just fairy tales.

You must have missed the thousands of YouTube videos, Reddit pages where white males complain about western women.

Where do you think the redpill originated from?

It's no wonder that white males are looking towards the east for Asian partners, some even as far as Africa , little do they know you've all swallowed the poison called feminism .

Statically feminism has done more harm to black communities, a quick glance at the children of single parents and their ill equipped kids stabbing each other says it all.

Before you reply, if you do, ensure you check out everything stated.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 8:58pm On Feb 28, 2021
spadar4u:

Bitch how did u got pregnant?

Who told you I got pregnant? Did someone tell you I born you?
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 11:01am On Mar 01, 2021
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 6:44pm On Mar 01, 2021
banmee:


The Ashanti in Ghana is matriarchy and they are about the largest tribe

That's tribalism nahhh

And Wat influence do they have in Ghana
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 6:45pm On Mar 01, 2021
okedoyinolabisi:
you're harsh oo. speaking from experience? I don't agree with you tho

I'm not harsh nah

Just saying from my observations
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 6:46pm On Mar 01, 2021
CHoccolaTE:


That's why all of you dont have sense, because all you think about is sex.

So women that their pussy is their agency and their power have sense ahbi

Men are sexual beings and we have testerones.... Deal with it!!!
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 6:50pm On Mar 01, 2021
awulio:
Western women are happy. We prefer prefer animals to humans in general. Western men are better than Nigerian men. They not scared of successful women. When I say western men I mean white men and asian men. You black men are scared of successful women. I’m happy not being with a Nigerian man.

U are delusional

Western women are the most loneliest, miserable and resentful kind of women in the world. To the extent that marriage has declined in the west, all they do is Bleep around and have one night stands and flings.
All in the name of equality which scientifically, biologically and evolutionary have debunked profusely

Just look at the USA house speaker who passed a bill that makes biological sex recognition illegal!!!

Women are just useless in politics!

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 6:51pm On Mar 01, 2021
CHoccolaTE:


See why you men dont have sense?

Everything has to be about sex for you males, always thinking sex and sexual thoughts.

Foolish perverts.

We have testerones for goodness sake

Sex is a must for us Men

Sex for commitment, that's the relationship equation between men and women
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 6:52pm On Mar 01, 2021
HottieCoach:

SAD

HARDCORE FACT!
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 6:55pm On Mar 01, 2021
unmask:
in one vein you are saying they should get priorities straight.....while in another, you are talking about marriage like it's the all in all......


Marriage, motherhood are the most important thing in a feminine woman's life not being a career slut to her boss or having her own business.

Being a career slut or having her business makes her masculine and unattractive to Real Men, betas, simps and weak men are attracted to masculine ladies
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 7:19pm On Mar 01, 2021
DEMZEE:


That's tribalism nahhh

And Wat influence do they have in Ghana

Again, they are the largest tribe and has produced more presidents than any other tribe.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 8:16pm On Mar 01, 2021
banmee:


Again, they are the largest tribe and has produced more presidents than any other tribe.


How do they influence the sexual mating strategy of Ghana as a whole. And how come they are not producing female presidents??
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by budaatum: 12:10am On Mar 02, 2021

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by CHoccolaTE: 2:10pm On Mar 02, 2021
DEMZEE:


So women that their pussy is their agency and their power have sense ahbi

Men are sexual beings and we have testerones.... Deal with it!!!

I can't deal with you Male people perverted nature, sorry not sorry.

All of you are perverts, it's not testosterone, its mental illness.

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Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by DEMZEE(m): 3:13pm On Mar 02, 2021
CHoccolaTE:


I can't deal with you Male people perverted nature, sorry not sorry.

All of you are perverts, it's not testosterone, its mental illness.


E peele o

Kuku goan transgender nah

Oponu
Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by CHoccolaTE: 3:52pm On Mar 02, 2021
DEMZEE:



[s]E peele o

Kuku goan transgender nah

Oponu[/s]

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