goodman41:
Since my mother inlaw came to my house my wife no longer eats with me but her mother. Please it's normal? or I should confront her about it?

Thats how lack of love and interest starts in marriage

Confront her aggressively because its not supposed to be so

frozen70:


Thats how lack of love and interest starts in marriage

Confront her aggressively because its not supposed to be so

I want to ask you some questions...since you're encouraging the op to "confront her aggressively"

Is a wife obligated to eat with her husband everytime? Is it part of her duty as a wife?
Must they eat together everytime?
Is it by force?

OK. Let's flip this around and assume that the op is a female who's complaining that her husband now prefers to eat with his mother, instead of her...
What do you think would've happened to the op? FIRE AND BRIMSTONE THAT'S WHAT! for daring complain and "come between mother and son"

Now, women be gushing like "awwwwwwwwn! He loves his wife so much, he wants her all to himself" abeg! abeg!

Truth is, the op is irrationally jealous and possessive, and shouldn't be encouraged.

mariahAngel:


I want to ask you some questions...since you're encouraging the op to "confront her aggressively"

Is a wife obligated to eat with her husband everytime? Is it part of her duty as a wife?
Must they eat together everytime?
Is it by force?

OK. Let's flip this around and assume that the op is a female who's complaining that her husband now prefers to eat with his mother, instead of her...
What do you think would've happened to the op? FIRE AND BRIMSTONE FROM THAT'S WHAT! for daring complain and "come between mother and son"

Now, women be gushing like "awwwwwwwwn! He loves his wife so much, he wants her all to himself" abeg! abeg!

Truth is, the op is irrationally jealous and possessive, and shouldn't be encouraged.

I am not speaking for the Op, but he has more to say

For such things to be going on, there are more to it

cococandy:
Or all of you can eat together at mealtimes. I guess

Please what happened to i am not spoilt, my husband just love me.
In your profile?
Are you single now? If yes then i will be happy to take over.
Biko no insult o, it's just a friendly question.

Ndi monitoring spirit! It's a really friendly question to project marriage break up from personal text? Dont come for me, I've removed my hearing aids

CuteMercury:
Please what happened to i am not spoilt, my husband just love me.
In your profile?
Are you single now? If yes then i will be happy to take over.
Biko no insult o, it's just a friendly question.

Gloriagee:
Ndi monitoring spirit! It's a really friendly question to project marriage break up from personal text? Dont come for me, I've removed my hearing aids

It's not as you are thinking it to be.
I am a very nice guy and a friendly one.
I meant no harm trust me.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Open your eyes bro. The serpent is about to enter your home.
Be wise.

Which type of serpent biko? Is mother in law come to stay with them permanently? That's more reason you guys crash marriages with minor issue

If a man is not mature enof and possesses big heart to reach compromise in marriage, it would difficult for them to sustain it

punisha:
Buy a cardboard and attach it to a stick, write "we no go gree" then stand in ur living room and protest all day.

Since u can't just eat alone for some days.
Abi she needs to feed u?
Bros kindly allow her and her mom be. When ur in law goes...u can tell her u found it awkward not eating with her the past few days. That should send home ur point against next time

Ma nigga!

Gloriagee:
Ndi monitoring spirit! It's a really friendly question to project marriage break up from personal text? Dont come for me, I've removed my hearing aids

CuteMercury:
Please what happened to i am not spoilt, my husband just love me.
In your profile?
Are you single now? If yes then i will be happy to take over.
Biko no insult o, it's just a friendly question.

I’m an evening newspaper. A depleted after two.
You really don’t want me.

cococandy:


I’m an evening newspaper. A depleted after two.
You really don’t want me.

It is you in particular i want.
What you are or who you are don't matter to me, even if you are midnight newspaper, it doesn't matter. All i want is cococandy.

mariahAngel:




I doubt op would want that...He doesn't seem like the sharing type

A very possessive human being if you ask me

LadySarah:

Aww,he misses his wife.Some couple hardly eat without each other.I guess Op is one of them.

Just tell her you miss eating with her.She can rotate,morning with mom night with you.She's just trying to bond with her mom .Who knows when next she'll come?
If hers is like mine that visits only for Omugwo every 3 yrs only to stay for 3 weeksthen endure.

It feels strange.

Like why can’t they eat at the same time on the same dining table?
Does the wife sneak off with her mom to go eat somewhere where the man is not allowed to come?

So many questions.

It’s cute though that this is the only problem they are having (I hope). I’m now used to reading worse and weirder marriage stuff on here. These ones no get problem at all.

cococandy:




It feels strange.

Like why can’t they eat at the same time on the same dining table?
Does the wife sneak off with her mom to go eat somewhere where the man is not allowed to come?

So many questions.

It’s cute though that this is the only problem they are having (I hope). I’m now used to reading worse and weirder marriage stuff on here. These ones no get problem at all.

The Dining table for an average Nigerian is first for aesthetics,to occupy the dining room,packing homework/mini studytable even some for Ironing.My Friend's boys use theirs as a tennis table.Utilised only on special occasions or when an important Visitor is around.

Eating is done in front of a Tv most times or as couples on the sitting room centre table and from the same plate where small love talk and feeding each other is simpler.
He misses that!