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Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 1:31am On Apr 02, 2021
I seriously want to know the answer to my question because i don't seem to understand the creature called ''Ladies'' anymore

There's this girl I have been asking out for over a year now but she always turn my proposal down for no just cause
She always do tell me "i am the kind of guy any lady would want to be with, that i do posses all the qualities a lady want in a man, I will make a perfect husband, bla bla bla and she even told me she is not in a relationship, so i still don't understand why she always turn me down

So Yesterday been April 1st, i sent her a 'PDF April Fool prank message' on whatsap inviting her for my wedding. After she opened the message, this was what she sent ��

"Wow. I almost fainted"

My brothers and sisters in the house, please let me know if this is not WITCHCRAFT? because i do not understand why you won't let me date you, yet you don't want me to find love with another lady

So my question still stand
"Why are ladies like this?"

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Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by profilemessages: 1:57am On Apr 02, 2021
sometimes its not at all how they ladies are, the way you dress is the way you are addressed


it depends on the way you package yourself


ladies dont care where you got your money, but they will help you to spend it, na you go dey debate am with baba GOD when you reach heaven



and dont think you can satisfy them, the moment she sees another rich dude, she don jakpa be that



before an able bodied man like mosdii woke up early in the morning and started ringing bell all over nigeria on NAIRALAND that NIGERIAN GRILS ARE USELESS ALL OF THEM

OMO E GET AS E BE (OKI SI BE)

Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by Nobody: 2:26am On Apr 02, 2021
Don't get too carried away mate.
She was shocked and almost fainted when she first saw that PDF because she thought her plans had been shattered.
She knows you love her and will wait for her so she intends to hoe around (albeit secretly) for some time/years and then settle with you at last (the simp).
She has hoe'd around for a year plus now, she needs some more time, and when she's done, she'll finally accept your proposal. Just be a tad more patient smiley

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Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by inumidun2010(m): 3:07am On Apr 02, 2021
VERY COMPLEX CREATURES... Say something, thinking otherwise...
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 7:20am On Apr 02, 2021
profilemessages:
sometimes its not at all how they ladies are, the way you dress is the way you are addressed


it depends on the way you package yourself


ladies dont care where you got your money, but they will help you to spend it, na you go dey debate am with baba GOD when you reach heaven



and dont think you can satisfy them, the moment she sees another rich dude, she don jakpa be that



before an able bodied man like mosdii woke up early in the morning and started ringing bell all over nigeria on NAIRALAND that NIGERIAN GRILS ARE USELESS ALL OF THEM

OMO E GET AS E BE (OKI SI BE)

I do agree with you when you said "ladies dont care where you got your money, but they will help you to spend it" but what i don't get is the dressing part. Am i supposed to wear Agbada or Baba riga before i approach a lady?

As for the packaging part, she has been to my crib before and all she was screaming was wow! wow!! wow!!! till she left, telling me i am doing better for my age that no lady will come here and want to leave.

Ladies are very confusing i must say and as for Mosdii, He is gradually becoming a mentor to some of us

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Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 7:32am On Apr 02, 2021
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Don't get too carried away mate.
She was shocked and almost fainted when she first saw that PDF because she thought her plans had been shattered.
She knows you love her and will wait for her so she intends to hoe around (albeit secretly) for some time/years and then settle with you at last (the simp).
She has hoe'd around for a year plus now, she needs some more time, and when she's done, she'll finally accept your proposal. Just be a tad more patient smiley
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 7:39am On Apr 02, 2021
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Don't get too carried away mate.
She was shocked and almost fainted when she first saw that PDF because she thought her plans had been shattered.
She knows you love her and will wait for her so she intends to hoe around (albeit secretly) for some time/years and then settle with you at last (the simp).
She has hoe'd around for a year plus now, she needs some more time, and when she's done, she'll finally accept your proposal. Just be a tad more patient smiley

You can call me anything in this life bros but please don't call me a simp. With this present generation of girls, SIMPism is a curse to any man
I do agree with your statement about her intentions to hoe around, cus i noticed she do not want to be committed to one person and she is fully aware i will not tolerate a cheating partner.
However, my intention towards her at first was genuine but her attitude has changed my motives. I can not be the one to settle for chaffs when other men have taken all the ingredients in her

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Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by chatinent: 7:40am On Apr 02, 2021
I think some ladies are like that. Numerous ladies like to keep many guys on reserve in case.
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by OscarJaden(m): 7:49am On Apr 02, 2021
I fall on this Table too she don't want to date me but she still don't want to see me with any girl around


she get so jealous and angry


Emily why

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Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 8:05am On Apr 02, 2021
inumidun2010:
VERY COMPLEX CREATURES... Say something, thinking otherwise...
And doing something different from their words or thought, what a COMPLEXITY
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 8:15am On Apr 02, 2021
chatinent:
I think some ladies are like that. Numerous ladies like to keep many guys on reserve in case.

For what gain? that's the reason you hardly see them post pictures of their partners except the ones who are not cheats which they are very rare

Guys, if your woman don't post your picture on her status just consider yourself one among many others, forget whatever she tells you is her reason and please don't persuade her to because if she obliged to your pressure, you will be the only one seeing your pictures on her status

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Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by paulolee(m): 8:15am On Apr 02, 2021
free dt shakara tin n get anoda bea ..she gat start taking u serious n not like a reserved option.
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by Boss13: 8:33am On Apr 02, 2021
ksam:


I do agree with you when you said "ladies dont care where you got your money, but they will help you to spend it" but what i don't get is the dressing part. Am i supposed to wear Agbada or Baba riga before i approach a lady?

As for the packaging part, she has been to my crib before and all she was screaming was wow! wow!! wow!!! till she left, telling me i am doing better for my age that no lady will come here and want to leave.

Ladies are very confusing i must say and as for Mosdii, He is gradually becoming a mentor to some of us

You have to be assertive with your dating choices. If she is turning you down, go get someone else. You are a man, act like one please.

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Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by habsydiamond(m): 9:12am On Apr 02, 2021
She's playing hard to get... Just tell her hard to get kill u there... Na hard to get dem make dem dey dem papa house at 40 still dey find guy to just use dem decorate house... If she no show face soon u better move on.. Na dem type dey end up having their husband as boyfriend and endup with boyfriend as husband if u know u know
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by Ayo2004: 10:05am On Apr 02, 2021
A year?if I ask her out and she says no,I am over it in ten minutes

There are tens of millions of beautiful,sexy Nigerian woman for me too be wasting my life on one woman and I hope u do the same grin
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by SeekerofTruth1: 10:47am On Apr 02, 2021
Short Answer,You are PLAN B
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 1:09pm On Apr 02, 2021
SeekerofTruth1:
Short Answer,You are PLAN B
This one pain me, but i too have decided to make her PLAN Z that is for her to fall in to my trap, you know what they do with bush meat caught in a trap, you don't put them in a cage, you eat, clean your mouth and set another trap for other Bush meat
Re: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(m): 1:29pm On Apr 02, 2021
Boss13:


You have to be assertive with your dating choices. If she is turning you down, go get someone else. You are a man, act like one please.
Real men don't take NO for an answer till they get what they want, but most times at that time what they wanted may be a piece of rag to them because they had gotten something bigger and better but they still wanted to satisfy that craving desire of what they once wanted

I hope you get it..

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