The internet can be a dangerous place especially for the women who use it. I asked eight Nigerian women about the worst thing that has happened to them on the internet. Here’s what they had to say:

Tinu
One day, I was scrolling through my explore page on Instagram when I saw a missed video call from a username that I don’t interact with. I went to check my dm and I saw that the guy was saying he wants to do sexual stuff with me. He called again while I was trying to figure out what was going on and I picked. The next thing I saw was his dick. I ended the call immediately. He was still in my dm asking me to show him my ass. I blocked him with the speed of light.

Ayomide
When I was 21, someone sent me a picture of his dick with a message saying he would use it on me. He got my number from a group chat. We had never interacted before that day. I told him I didn’t like it and if he didn’t stop I would report him to the admin. He started insulting me. He said he will deal with me and make sure he destroys my reputation in school. I blocked him but before I did I noticed he used my profile picture at that time as his. I was so scared. I kept waiting to hear someone say they saw someone using my picture to do something bad but I never heard anything. Since then I don’t use my pictures as my profile picture.

Tiffany
Sometime between 2014 and 2015, I was in secondary school and very active on Facebook. One day, my Facebook account started sharing porn links with my friends. I don’t know what happened to it but the links were on my wall for everyone to see.

When school resumed, my schoolmates insulted and laughed at me for watching porn. Luckily, my family members believed I was hacked. After that incident though, I dumped Facebook.

Esi
One day in 2019, one man called me. The first thing he said was, “Is this Dream?” I said, “Who is Dream?” He ended the call and texted me saying he had been talking to me on a dating website. When I said I wasn’t on any dating website, he sent me a screenshot of the profile. Some of the pictures there were pictures I had only sent to my boyfriend. I confronted my boyfriend — I asked him if he was using my pictures to take money from people and he started apologizing. I was distraught. I couldn’t take pictures of myself or post them on the internet for a long time.

Bemigho
I met this hot woman on Twitter sometime in 2017. She was quite interactive on the timeline but not with everyone. I became interested when she started tweeting gay stuff. We started flirting on the timeline and then one day, I slid into her dm. We started texting a lot and somehow that began sexting. She would tell me she was wet and it was so hot I would get off on it. This happened a couple of days before she became inactive. One day, someone else on the timeline exposed the account to be a catfish — it was a man running the account. I was scarred.

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Nairaland single ladies don suffer ooo if they should come out one by one

This is simply the life of an average Nigerian lady. I just wonder when men will grow sense and stop sending this penis to the dm of ladies

Hmmmm if it's that one,i have seen things on the internet, especially facebook.....

The things I see in my inbox....messages ranging from someone telling you to act a porn video with them and they will pay you, like what the hell? No initial interaction o....

Some will tell you their life history, houses they have built,companies they have,how they have Ph.D and no wife,they want to marry immediately that same month like really? No initial interaction o....

Abi is it those ones that will call you via facebook video call non-stop.....you go cut the call and warn them tire,they won't stop o,next thing they will drop nude pictures. No previous interaction o....

The list goes on and on,its not funny sha....

Cindy222:
Hmmmm if it's that one,i have seen things on the internet, especially facebook.....

The things I see in my inbox....messages ranging from someone telling you to act a porn video with them and they will pay you, like what the hell? No initial interaction o....

Some will tell you their life history, houses they have built,companies they have,how they have Ph.D and no wife,they want to marry immediately that same month like really? No initial interaction o....

Abi is it those ones that will call you via facebook video call non-stop.....you go cut the call and warn them tire,they won't stop o,next thing they will drop nude pictures. No previous interaction o....

The list goes on and on,its not funny sha....

Some men are just annoyingly bold, they just want to try out their luck. Their aim is, before they try that out with like 6 women, one would eventually agree to their plans in the end. They think most women are wired to love money without sanity involved and would do anything for it.

abimic:

Some men are just annoyingly bold, they just want to try out their luck. Their aim is, before they try that out with like 6 women, one would eventually agree to their plans in the end. They think most women are wired to love money without sanity involved and would do anything for it.

As in ehn,really annoying....some guys sha....