i got a dream job with fantastic package and suddenly, most of my 9ja female friends , even those i barely talk 2 is showing me love. asking me strange questions like, ' have you eaten', 'how are your folks doing', ' have you heard from your mum', etc.
I have honestly told very few people about the job, just 5 close friends. how they know is beyond me. so if i lose my job, i will b back 2 square 1. lol.
chics. God will help guys o .

Lol. Good! Good! Thank goodness you r seeing it too. When i was seeking, ladies never even ja me face n treated me lik trash. Now man don dey wack small money, come see as dem come dey rush dey come. One even use vex tell me say make i giv am engagement ring. See nonsense o.
My guys poster, now you are comfortable, they hav seen a prospectiv husband in you. You r now hotcake, so take your time and choose cos na ur time be this.

Eya--who doesn't like good tin--

Owo epo l'omo araye nba ni la--won kin nba ni la t'eje-----

drnonye:

i got a dream job with fantastic package and suddenly, most of my 9ja female friends , even those i barely talk 2 is showing me love. asking me strange questions like, ' have you eaten', 'how are your folks doing', ' have you heard from your mum', etc. I have honestly told very few people about the job, just 5 close friends. how they know is beyond me. so if i lose my job, i will b back 2 square 1. lol.
chics. God will help guys o .

Osama10:

Osama,!? aint you supposed to be at the bottom of arabian sea?

@poster, it's a normal thing. Don't get too excited.

orbaxy:

Osama,!? aint you supposed to be at the bottom of arabian sea?

u have been run shows (girls) with liability.

drnonye:

i got a dream job with fantastic package and suddenly, most of my 9ja female friends , even those i barely talk 2 is showing me love. asking me strange questions like, ' have you eaten', 'how are your folks doing', ' have you heard from your mum', etc.
I have honestly told very few people about the job, just 5 close friends. how they know is beyond me. so if i lose my job, i will b back 2 square 1. lol.
chics. God will help guys o .

Would you be suprised to learn that some of those girls don't even know about the job or the fantastic package?

It could be that (like most people) attaining your dream job has given you a burst of confidence that makes you hold your head higher, throw your shoulders back, face shine, and speak in a more confident tone. Confidence is sexy. Dream job or not.

You ever wonder why trouble seems to follow people wherever they go when they are in a bad mood? People pick up on the subconscious signals that are thrown off.

Nekai:

Would you be suprised to learn that some of those girls don't even know about the job or the fantastic package?

It could be that (like most people) attaining your dream job has given you a burst of confidence that makes you hold your head higher, throw your shoulders back, face shine, and speak in a more confident tone. Confidence is sexy. Dream job or not.

You ever wonder why trouble seems to follow people wherever they go when they are in a bad mood? People pick up on the subconscious signals that are thrown off.

well spoken Nekai. sound like a very smart lady. now i wish u were in Scotland , would have loved 2 take u go c a movie.

now, back 2 the topic. true, a good job, nice crip, car etc can definitely burst anyone's confidence. but the time frame to get so much attention  is 2 short.  and y is it just 9ja girls. i have female friends from other part of the world but my new status appears irrelevant 2 them . we still talk and hang out the same way .
i still believe majority of 9ja girls are so materialistic. as they say , there is nothing any1 can do about it.  we all have 2 accept it .

drnonye link=topic=659398.msg8253394#msg8253394very few date=1304446726:

i got a dream job with fantastic package and suddenly, most of my 9ja female friends , even those i barely talk 2 is showing me love. asking me strange questions like, ' have you eaten', 'how are your folks doing', ' have you heard from your mum', etc. I have honestly told people about the job, just 5 close friends. how they know is beyond me. so if i lose my job, i will b back 2 square 1. lol.
chics. God will help guys o .

So you mean there was no one in your life before to ask you such questions?


Dude, you better thank you stars that you got this job

drnonye:

well spoken Nekai. sound like a very smart lady. now i wish u were in Scotland , would have loved 2 take u go c a movie.

now, back 2 the topic. true, a good job, nice crip, car etc can definitely burst anyone's confidence. but the time frame to get so much attention  is 2 short.  and y is it just 9ja girls. i have female friends from other part of the world but my new status appears irrelevant 2 them . we still talk and hang out the same way .
i still believe majority of 9ja girls are so materialistic. as they say , there is nothing any1 can do about it.  we all have 2 accept it .

Scotland?   With all that bagpipe screetching going on?
Even still, I wish I was there too. I would absolutely love to see a movie with you!
By the way, have u eaten? How are your folks doing? Have you heard from your mum?  

Nekai:

Scotland?   With all that bagpipe screetching going on?
Even still, I wish I was there too. I would absolutely love to see a movie with you!
By the way, have u eaten? How are your folks doing? Have you heard from your mum?  

^ Classic!

Nekai:

Scotland?   With all that bagpipe screetching going on?
Even still, I wish I was there too. I would absolutely love to see a movie with you!
By the way, have u eaten? How are your folks doing? Have you heard from your mum?  

loool

POSTER

ARE YOU JUST KNOWING?

@op
very funny

even your old friends will start getting closer,

its not entirely a female thingy.
its a normal reaction.
and like nekia said your boost in confidence has more to do with it than the Job.

just relax it will soon pass.
and your life will get back to normal.

@ op Lol, thats no news

@Poster
Guys keep coming up with this same old same old, change your circle of girl friends, girls would continue to remain the same as long as you continue hanging around the same poverty stricken,2 naira worth-cheap chewing gum eating ones, I can hardly imagine friends from the upper crust of society buzzing you because of some new pay package.CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS!

1one:

@Poster
Guys keep coming up with this same old same old, change your circle of girl friends, girls would continue to remain the same as long as you continue hanging around the same poverty stricken,2 naira worth-cheap chewing gum eating ones, I can hardly imagine friends from the upper crust of society buzzing you because of some new pay package.CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS!

hhmmmm-- Interesting advice.

Nekai:

Would you be suprised to learn that some of those girls don't even know about the job or the fantastic package?

It could be that (like most people) attaining your dream job has given you a burst of confidence that makes you hold your head higher, throw your shoulders back, face shine, and speak in a more confident tone. Confidence is sexy. Dream job or not.

You ever wonder why trouble seems to follow people wherever they go when they are in a bad mood? People pick up on the subconscious signals that are thrown off.

Great post! Or could it be like the saying goes: Good news travel fast.  Maybe that's how they know.  But regardless, that's just the way it is.  When everything is going good and you are on top of the world, people come running.  That goes for both sexes.  Don't have to always be about "women".  I'm sure many of us have experience relatives and old friends coming out the wood work if they can sense "money" in the air.  That's just the way life is.  Don't mean you have to conform to the world.  That is why the good Lord blessed us with wisdom and common sense.

Thats a normal thing these days

Girls are not the same, Stop kidding!

^^^They are all the same, the only difference is the tightness of their punnies, cos their punnies have different mileages

High_Chief:

^^^They are all the same, the only difference is the tightness of their punnies, cos their punnies have different mileages

So how do you read the mileage then?

OP.

Better relocate before they start opening legs for you

Osama10:

So how do you read the mileage then?

Look for the droopiness of the punny and if the punny looks like your great, great, great grandmother's toothless mouth then that means punny has exhausted the given mileage.

Mrs.Chima:

Look for the droopiness of the punny and if the punny looks like your great, great, great grandmother's toothless mouth then that means punny has exhausted the given mileage.

Exact description of yours, waoh clap for yourself.