Hi guys i've been dating an igbo man for two years, told me he's single back home but has a 6 yr old boy. He went home and phones me with private number. He has not told his parents that im 8months pregnant. Just worried.

Well, all I know is that if he is calling you from Nigeria or any other Country for that matter, the number he is calling from would occassionally come up as private.

Any reason why he's hiding you and the pregnancy frm his family?

That kinda makes sense of the private number, he promised to phone me with his mother, its been two months and i have not spoken to his family. I'm worried my baby girl wont know her nigerian family.

@ OP ibo men only marry their kind --Im sure he has an uzoma in his village.

obowunmi:

@ OP ibo men only marry their kind --Im sure he has an uzoma in his village. 

stop putting everyone inside the same basket

He doesnt want you to trace his call dats y he calls u wit private number. Am sure he has a wife here and mayb he is just using you.
Am sorry to tell you, just forget him and try to take care of ur child since he has been home for a while and u still havenot spoken to his family.

So, what do you want us to do?
Welcome to 'polygamy' jare.
Just collect your own share of the dude and 'waka'!

Why should he tell his parents that you are 8 months pregnant?
Did he tell them when he climed on top of you and YOU decided to get pregnant by him?
He is already married. . . what else do you have to offer him besides your 'puss-puss'?
Please, the pregnacy is YOURS. Keep it and take care of yourself and YOUR child.

IGBO men are the most unreformable when it comes to accepting other cultures or truly the LEAST sociable. . . .LOCAAAL in short! (BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSH-MEATS!)
I am married to one, so I know. 
You have a lot of work ahead of you darling.
It is either you break 'em. . .or they break you!
Choose one.

Goodluck o!

Did you ever speak to any of his family members when he was in SA? If not, maybe you are his SA chick and he has a family in Nigeria.

Were you guys living together? Is he coming back?

Nhanha:

That kinda makes sense of the private number, he promised to phone me with his mother, its been two months and i have not spoken to his family. I'm worried my baby girl wont know her nigerian family.

She would.

Just keep atleast a clear picture,names and state of origin.  

Nhanha:

Hi guys i've been dating an igbo man for two years, told me he's single back home but has a 6 yr old boy. He went home and phones me with private number. He has not told his parents that im 8months pregnant. Just worried.

He might be married.

Hard row u got for urself but u gotta hoe it.Concentrate on pushing out the baby first,every other thing wud fall in place . . .

@op

ur quickly making assumptions, never take seriously what strangers (nairalanders) say concerning your personal bizness.

he may be honest and may have a reasonable reason why he,s no is blocked, at least he has some iota of honesty in him to tell u he has a child back home.

why dont u ask u blankly why his nos hidden?

best advice : keep an open mind





@blazay
ur a he/she goat

Blazay:

So, what do you want us to do?
Welcome to 'polygamy' jare.
Just collect your own share of the dude and 'waka'!

Why should he tell his parents that you are 8 months pregnant?
Did he tell them when he climed on top of you and YOU decided to get pregnant by him?
[b]He is already married. . . what else do you have to offer him besides your 'puss-puss'?
Please, the pregnacy is YOURS. Keep it and take care of yourself and YOUR child.

IGBO men are the most unreformable when it comes to accepting other cultures or truly the LEAST sociable()LOCAAAL in short! BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSH-MEATS!).
I am married to one, so I know.
You have a lot of work ahead of you darling.
It is either you break 'em. . .or the break you!
Choose one.

Goodluck o!

u are married to an ibo man ,abi? he phocks u well,abi? or who was it that just phocked u b4 u took that pic in ur profile? or u dey Bleep around like yoruba women do?[/b]

No need to be nasty blazay, your bitternes shows you've been badly hurt before so don't take it out on me. Anyway i think i'll confront him when he phones. He is from Asaba.

Miss CONDOM is an expert in this area, why not ask her. Good luck

Why did you decide to get pregnant without first meeting or talking to any of his family members? That was a big risk.

Wish you luck.

cescky:
@blazay
your a he/she goat

Your 'daddy' too!

randyorton:


u are married to an ibo man ,abi? he phocks u well,abi? or who was it that just phocked u [b]b4 u took that pic in your profile? or u dey bleep around like yoruba women do?

Hmmmm! Glad you noticed my "morning-after" glow. . . Well well! In fact, I still cannot walk properly. Why do you think I am still there?. . . Better than the 'little' penin-sulars I have encountered around here and[b] there[/b]. . . Too bad he cannot 'sell' with his goodies.


Look at these BUUUUUUUUUUUUSH Igbotic dudes!
The truth is bitter.

You deserve some special attention. You are still making noise on this your thread huh?

Nhanha:

No need to be nasty blazay, your bitternes shows you've been badly hurt before so don't take it out on me. Anyway i think i'll confront him when he phones. He is from Asaba.

Silly men and women make me extremely bitter ON or OFF the cyber airways . . .It takes a lot for another human being to 'hurt' me baby. Not that weak. . .and I have NEVER given and will NEVER give anyone. . .a man for that matter. . .   such satisfaction huh? The farthest people can go is irritate me. Or, did you see me crying on NL or any other Nigerian messageboard with one of these 'love' stories. . .or here and there with unserious human beings only meant for 'scratching' nyansh/easing boredom?

Thank God you are not 8 months pregnant with HIV! You for don born AIDS by now.
Maybe your baby-daddy is helping to build Asaba airport and he does not want you to know. . .who knows?
Take care. Women like you have no game and love to play 'the victim' after eating the 'bacon' without buying the pig.
I hope you can teach your child better, if a GIRL especially. . . or SHE might repeat your tale on NL, by following in your footsteps.
That would be a damn shame.

Ko mesia o. . . 

randyorton:

@blazay,

for your info,i am not an ibo guy o but i hate people who condemn other tribes.dont know where u are from but i can tell u dat ibos guys are better than yoruba guys.hands down.i know dat as a yoruba babe u must be promiscous.mumu

You hate people who condemn other ethnics, and what have you just done to Yoruba women? praise them? pot calling kettle black!

And what made you think Blazay is a Yoruba babe. See how you just made a foool of yourself.

randyorton:

@blazay,

for your info,i am not an ibo guy o but i hate people who condemn other tribes.dont know where u are from but i can tell u dat ibos guys are better than yoruba guys.hands down.i know dat as a yoruba babe u must be promiscous.mumu

Makes no sense,

Please check the meaning of "CONTRADICTION" in a dictionary.

@ Blazay,

She only asked for a public opinion. There really was no need to be harsh, not all women possess your emotional strenght. As for the ethnic bigotry, you are free to make your own opinions on it, but remember it helps nobody and only leads to more hate.

Hate only generates more hatred.

dare2think:

@ Blazay,

She only asked for a public opinion. There really was no need to be harsh, not all women possess your emotional strenght. As for the ethnic bigotry, you are free to make your own opinions on it, but remember it helps nobody and only leads to more hate.

Hate only generates more hatred.

DITTO

erm, erm, what is 'one chance'?

OAMJ

Does not know one chance, Spikey baby, Can we show him the practicals of one chance?

dayokanu:

OAMJ

Does not know one chance, Spikey baby, Can we show him the practicals of one chance?

Agbaya!

^^ Ok you then, Lets show them what One chance means

Ooooooooooooooooh God!
Look at these posters!
One more "Blazay", and I will gun y'aaaaawl down 'spiritually'!

randyorton:

@blazay,

for your info,i am not an ibo guy o but i hate people who condemn other tribes.dont know where u are from but i can tell u dat ibos guys are better than yoruba guys.hands down.i know dat as a yoruba babe u must be promiscous.mumu

Who is condemning other tribes? Igbo guys are bush period! I had to reform mine. Am I not still married to him?
Shiooooooooooor.

OAM4J:

You hate people who condemn other ethnics, and what have you just done to Yoruba women? praise them? pot calling kettle black!

And what made you think Blazay is a Yoruba babe. See how you just made a foool of yourself.

I wonder o!
What an insult! Like I look like a widow or something. Yoruba women always kill their husbands with witchcraft!
Not my portion in the name of MY lord!
Only in "Yoruba" land is it fashionable to answer 'widow'. . .
Everywhere widow-widow. God forbid!

dare2think:

@ Blazay,

She only asked for a public opinion. There really was no need to be harsh, not all women possess your emotional strenght. As for the ethnic bigotry, you are free to make your own opinions on it, but remember it helps nobody and only leads to more hate.

Hate only generates more hatred.

Is my opinion not a 'public' one?
If you do not have 'emotional' strength as a woman. . . DON'T HAVE SEX OR GET PREGNANT BY A TRIFLING DUDE!
Please, stop being unnecessarily sentimental with these 'rude' and  nasty posters who come to the www to whine about one problem or the other. If I were craaaaaaaaazy enough to come and solicit for advice on a public forum. . . I would be gracious to 'accept' all in good fate. Who is breeding hatred around here?
Please, y'all can hate all you want. . . . .as long as I don't catch any of you in my bed or front porch. . . all is well with us and the world at large.

Wetin consain "Lou Dobbs" and im big head witi CNN?

Thank you sir!

Blazay, wow! i just love this babe, straight talk no mag mago. I give it up to Blazay and chaircover for the best postings on family sections 5 gbosa for them.

Blazay, wow! i just love this babe, straight talk no mag mago. I give it up to Blazay and chaircover for the best postings on family sections 5 gbosa for them.