Juliearth:
This is not a counter thread to the thread created earlier by a nairalander, but my aim here is to create a balanced perception on the matter at hand and so, no gender is left unattended to.

So.....
Questions for the ladies

If possible, personalize the questions.

1. Why do women cheat on their partners?


2. Why do women cheat even when their partner is faithful?


3. Is a man's inadequacy a good enough reason to cheat?

UDUJ:


Nice one Julie. It's always good to have a balanced view when addressing issues.

Juliearth:




Thank you, my brother. What's your take on the topic? Mind sharing your thoughts and insights on the topic?

UDUJ:


Well I feel women should be in the best position to honestly answer this question as it pertains to the topic.

That notwithstanding, from my own point of view I feel some or few ( notice the use of the words some or few and not referring to All ) cheat when they are in a relationship for anyone of the following reasons:

1. Finance - they might be feeling their boyfriend or spouse does not give them enough money to take care of their needs. So they augment their finances by going out with men in exchange for money et Al

2. They might not be sexually attracted to their partners or feel their partners are not up to par with them sexually ( they might be nymphos ), so they cheat with someone very good in bedmatics or start the endless quest for big d*****ks to satisfy their urges.

3. They might feel their partners are too soft ( or as our nairaland brothers call them: SIMPS ). So they are not sexually attracted to them and instead look for rough bad boys instead.

There are other reasons I can't recall right now, but my good friend Ishilove should be able to add more. Cheers

UDUJ:


Well I feel women should be in the best position to honestly answer this question as it pertains to the topic.

That notwithstanding, from my own point of view I feel some or few ( notice the use of the words some or few and not referring to All ) cheat when they are in a relationship for anyone of the following reasons:

1. Finance - they might be feeling their boyfriend or spouse does not give them enough money to take care of their needs. So they augment their finances by going out with men in exchange for money et Al

2. They might not be sexually attracted to their partners or feel their partners are not up to par with them sexually ( they might be nymphos ), so they cheat with someone very good in bedmatics or start the endless quest for big d*****ks to satisfy their urges.

3. They might feel their partners are too soft ( or as our nairaland brothers call them: SIMPS ). So they are not sexually attracted to them and instead look for rough bad boys instead.

Riverville:
I pray the women reply you..... That gender is filled of hypocrites and pretenders..

Juliearth:
This is not a counter thread to the thread created earlier by a nairalander, but my aim here is to create a balanced perception on the matter at hand and so, no gender is left unattended to.

So.....
Questions for the ladies

If possible, personalize the questions.

1. Why do women cheat on their partners?


2. Why do women cheat even when their partner is faithful?


3. Is a man's inadequacy a good enough reason to cheat?

Riverville:
I pray the women reply you..... That gender is filled of hypocrites and pretenders..

debbydams:
I don't cheat.. but the only thing that might make me cheat is the distance..money, attention,bla bla is not really an issue to Me tho..

Thought you said you don't cheat just now, where is those reasons coming from?

If you can consider the monetary aspect, distance, attention and those bla bla bla you stated then I put it to you that you are a cheat ( I dey my house, coman beat me )

Anyone who's faithful wouldn't give room for any probability or reasons to cheat to waltz in

Michelle55:

Thought you said you don't cheat just now, where is those reasons coming from?

If you can consider the monetary aspect, distance, attention and those bla bla bla you stated then I put it to you that you are a cheat ( I dey my house, coman beat me )

Anyone who's faithful wouldn't give room for any probability or reasons to cheat to waltz in

Ishilove:

True, although money should not be an excuse for cheating. I am all for financial independence in marital and non-marital relationships.


This is a fallacy. Big dicks do not equal sexual satisfaction. They are more instruments of torture than anything else, but it's all about preference. Some like it big, some like it sizeable. However in my own opinion I feel that it is a sexually loose person who will cheat because of sex. When you have many body counts and have sampled different dicks and pussies, your become greedy.


I don't want to believe this. I feel it is more about interest and excitement. The dramatic people like drama, and if their partner is unable to provide that drama, they look outwards.

Another reason is lack of attention. When you don't give your partner the right amount of attention and TLC, the temptation to cheat is there especially if they meet someone who gives them that attention they crave for. While you are busy having your mood swings, there is someone out there chewing your bae like biscuit bone.

All in all, a cheat is a cheat and they look for even the flimsiest excuses to cheat on their partners, no matter how faithful the other person may be.

debbydams:
I have no reason to lie nd I owe nobody any explanation..when I said I don't cheat, I don't cheat nd I gave the only factor which can make me cheat,nd Iv not done that before..before u quote me,read and digest what I said before coming into conclusion pls..

Spicylate:
1. Why do women cheat: In my opinion, some women cheat when they cant get what they want from their partners and an outsider is offering it to them be it time, money, care, love etc.
2. Why do women cheat even when their partners are faithful: Well, sometimes faithfulness is not all that matters for some women. He can be faithful and not be loving or caring or affectionate or communicating or supportive or responsible or sensible etc. I feel once there's a disconnect in an area, it can lead to that.
3. Is a man's inadequacy a good reason to cheat: No. To be honest, everyone has flaws. No one is perfect. There are things one can tolerate but i believe that there's nothing communication and understanding cannot solve except one just wants to be difficult. If it turns out that communication and understanding isn't working, just save the poor man and yourself stress and jejely leave. I feel its torture to be in a "committed" relationship and then having an affair outside. It doesn't end smoothly.

DenreleDave:


You can cheat.... Bcox of money.. Stp the pretence

DenreleDave:


You can cheat.... Bcox of money.. Stp the pretence

Biglittlelois:



Be a man, act mature, and stop derailing a female only thread with inconsequential baseless accusations and assumptions.

debbydams:
lol pretend to who? Funny I v neva tho and if I'll Neva,,money is not everythin,I will Neva do what my conscience will hate me for...a man has bn disturbing me for sex since 2019 till now last week he was begging me with 20k I said no even tho I'm broke I still reject 20k for sex,,nobody will want to offer that amount for sex when its everywhere he offered me nd I said no,I told my friend nd she said the money is much that I should I told her..I'll Neva do that..Neva In my life will i have sex for money,,she said she has someone that can do it because she is married I told her the guy said no thats if not me den nobody, and I'm not interested even if he want to pay 100k I swear I won't..I don't pretend,I do what I want and I'm not scared of anybody..I Neva pretend for my papa na nairaland I go pretend for? Taar even person wey I dey date I Neva open leg for him