My Ex, while we were still dating flaunted her fiancé’s marriage proposal pictures on this platform years ago. We had just a little misunderstanding when she did. I was shocked.

So I realized all those while, she was cheating on the guy with me, while I was thinking I was the real boyfriend.

I was emotionally traumatized. It was unthinkable. I literally gave her my all. These makes it very difficult for me to move on.

My brother Akeju John knows this story.

I was greatly hurt. And even after seeing the reality. I still begged her. Like my life was already shattered.

Love is not cruel. It is people that are cruel. I did loved her. It is true that when you love someone so much, you will be hurt so much.

Going forward...

I got married 7 years ago to my Best Choice. And I stay married.

That my Ex is still very much single. This is not in anyway a jest making.

Saw the guy sometime ago. He is married to another.

Life sometimes bring to you a taste of what you give.

Whenever I remember now, I do have flashes of all I went through: The pains, the fear and my life as a whole.

I thought I'd lost all. Smiles.

Time truly heals...

I share this for those experiencing heart break or disappointment in their relationship. You will be fine!

And If your tears can't hold them back... Let them go!

If prayers can't stop them either... Let them go!

It's okay to weep for a while because it's not easy to let go of people you gave your all to.

But i can assure you, It will only make you stronger...Wiser...Braver...and Happier in the end.

Author:
Oluwanishola Akeju

Greater words have never been said.
Thanks for the encouraging words.
But las las this life no balance at all.

some people do not deserved to be loved,
me don dey low key laidiz.
Your story is so inspiring.

You're welcome.

Anijay1212:


Greater words have never been said.
Thanks for the encouraging words.
But las las this life no balance at all.

This is my situation currently, I am just being hopeful of someone positive in the end and trying to move on at the moment.

Time heal all wounds. The best is always yet to come

Aizenosa:
This is my situation currently, I am just being hopeful of someone positive in the end and trying to move on at the moment.

You will be fine. Sometimes, when I am faced with heartbreak it seems like the world should just come to an end. But after few years, I see myself happy again.
What works for me is, if a girl i dated with a score of 6/10 leaves me..I never return to finding a 5/10. I go for a 7/10. An upgraded breed.
With that, I never have regrets or miss my ex's.
For me, heartbreaks are beautiful experience.
It really make me understood a lot.

I think I have mastered the art. Right now, I just let things go!!!
And say sorry..no matter how provoked I am.
Time makes us fine.

kunlesehan:


Time truly heals...

I share this for those experiencing heart break or disappointment in their relationship. You will be fine!

And If your tears can't hold them back... Let them go!

If prayers can't stop them either... Let them go!

It's okay to weep for a while because it's not easy to let go of people you gave your all to.

But i can assure you, It will only make you stronger...Wiser...Braver...and Happier in the end.

Very true. Don't kill or hurt yourself over anyone, you will ALWAYS find someone better if you are a good person.