Ranoscky:

RE: Can I Find Any? = Ya! why not? I found Nekai, and we have been good all thru.

Ranoscky:

RE: Can I Find Any? = Ya! why not? I found Nekai, and we have been good all thru.

story -- nekai belongs to me

Try to be just friends with girls. That way u get to know them well.

toyemz:

^^^
wonderfully true words

however

i for one,know i will never ever date anyone i have taken as friend
friends/lover 2 separate categories
he might just lose out on the one he really loves because of this oh

^{Well , it seem to me you're on hard lady . . . . alright if you say so let's leave em at that .}

iice:

Ogaga, you usually don't understand me. Lets leave it at that.
Has nothing to do with confidence.

Wislet:

Lol. See them advertizing themselves. . NAIRALAND.
@OP, these days, QUALITY is not seen/determined by the way a lady dresses, hairdo, church going, make-up or lack of it, prayer warrior, etc. Remember: Man looks @ de outward appearance, GOD looks @ de heart. Involve Him in your search & let Him direct you. Cos so many things hav gone wrong- an innocent look no longer means innocence, where teenagers can sleep wit old men & LOOK innocent. So be not deceived. Take time to study anyone dat catches your interest-do not be carried away by physical beauty. Never let your feelings show. Hide it at first. Also interact wit the person. DO NOT come off at first as searching-everyone wil start pretending around you. Try to be just friends with girls. That way u get to know them well.

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]<sup>@ Poster

190 have been speechless because he doesn't know what exactly to contribute to this your issue . . . Well , let's just wait to hear from him</sup> [/size]

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]<sup>@ Poster

190 have been speechless because he doesn't know what exactly to contribute to this your issue . . .  Well , let's just wait to hear from him</sup>  [/size]

intelligen:

Abeg 190,wat's your candid opinion on ds.

Well since u personally asked for my opinion, I think you should go out and look for her
You said u have been single for a while, which is understood
And now u feel you are ready to date -- outstanding, now in your search so far, you havent found any girl who's worth the effort
and now my candid advice is you are not looking hard enough, ( there used to be a saying that true love would come when u dont expect it )

Here's what i'll advice u to do -- how about u try and be nice to 5 girls in the next one month ( be nice to them, talk to them like boys and see them like boys, take off all emotional feelings bout love off you and see them as friends ) then come back here and lemme know the results of your hypothesis.

Note-- please dont try and fall in love with any one of em, else it wud affect your relationship with the rest 4, Just be very close friends wit em.
If you can get their numbers (nice) sms them in d morning, ask dem how their day went, ask em for a drink with u and dont even try kissing em when u go for a drink, go for walk in the parks, or a movie, some light shopping would be splendid and make sure none of em has a boyfriend and if the issue of money comes up, simple tell em that u're a friend and not their boyfriend

the reason for this is to make u close to em ( then u get to judge who u enjoy your time with and within the next one month, she shud be really close to you and might have started fallin in love with you, then you make your move)

Gud luck 

Ogaga4Luv:

Wislet:

Lol. See them advertizing themselves. . NAIRALAND.
@OP, these days, QUALITY is not seen/determined by the way a lady dresses, hairdo, church going, make-up or lack of it, prayer warrior, etc. Remember: Man looks @ de outward appearance, GOD looks @ de heart. Involve Him in your search & let Him direct you. Cos so many things hav gone wrong- an innocent look no longer means innocence, where teenagers can sleep wit old men & LOOK innocent. So be not deceived. Take time to study anyone dat catches your interest-do not be carried away by physical beauty. Never let your feelings show. Hide it at first. Also interact wit the person. DO NOT come off at first as searching-everyone wil start pretending around you. Try to be just friends with girls. That way u get to know them well.

190:

story -- nekai belongs to me

rokiatu:

Best advice I have seen on NL this year. Truly well said.

intelligen:

i love this,tnx.