Guys what do you do or will do if lady you are asking out says 'we can be friends'? What does that mean to you?

1 it means she is seeing someone but likes you as a person so she wants to be friends
2 it means she is kind enough not to yell NO when you asked her out and she came up with the lets just be friends excuse
3 she is with someone and interested but she wants to see what the person she is with will do so she will keep you as reserve
4 she just wants to be friends and not in the mood to date or be in a relationship

now pick one

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omega25red:

1 it means she is seeing someone but likes you as a person so she wants to be friends
2 it means she is kind enough not to yell NO when you asked her out and she came up with the lets just be friends excuse
3 she is with someone and interested but she wants to see what the person she is with will do so she will keep you as reserve
4 she just wants to be friends and not in the mood to date or be in a relationship

now pick one

@OP It could be any of these^^^and many more!

It's really up to you poster how you want to see it, and how much you really like or even know the girL!

Mrs, Chima:

[size=44pt]SHE DO NOT WANT YOU.[/size]

[size=45pt]Dry sense of humour [/size]

Wat else cld dat mean?
Gosh
sm ppl jst cm ere n ask wat dey already know
abi u no no wetin frnds mean? *in wafi accent*

Means , Keep trying dude!

I really like this girl. Despite all dis, she always pick up my call. She is really a nice lady. Should push it or give her more time?

Dude, that's a great reply, Afterall, all great relationship don't just start off like that, It starts with dat particular phrase 'let's b friends',

Remember don't push it, Let nature takes it effect, What ll b,ll b,

Poster when u ask any gal out these days and she says no, she said no not bcoz she doesnt like u but just bcoz u dont have money 2 take care of her needs.

omega25red:

1 it means she is seeing someone but likes you as a person so she wants to be friends
2 it means she is kind enough not to yell NO when you asked her out and she came up with the lets just be friends excuse
3 she is with someone and interested but she wants to see what the person she is with will do so she will keep you as reserve
4 she just wants to be friends and not in the mood to date or be in a relationship

now pick one

likes u as a person? whats that? so if someone "loves" u she/he likes u as a GOD? what do u guys actually think love is?

frank3.16:

likes u as a person? whats that? so if someone "loves" u she/he likes u as a GOD? what do u guys actually think love is?

i know english is your second language so i wont argue with you because you are over thinking it

Several ladies have said that to me . .and i still ended up laying those pipes.

I'll take it over a slap or spit

omega25red:

i know english is your second language so i wont argue with you because you are over thinking it

oga! i no talk say your english wrong. a lot of people say this all the time and i just does not make sense to me.

"like me for who i am" who are u? people must like u for being either rich, tall, funny, caring, busty, beautiful, kind, intelligent etc and that is who u are. but most times if people love u for either of all these people call it infatuation.

"like me as a person" before will somebody like u as an animal?

this love self, they talk as if its one magic thing; it is formed from the physical things we see.

@poster
it could simply mean that she wants to get to know you as a friend before jumping into romance.
the sad truth is that many 9ja men, get to know a women and suddenly expect her to jump into a r!ship with them FOR NO DAMN REASON.
so i suggest you discover this woman, find out if you even have anything in common or can enjoy anything together, laugh and have fun together before going into such a dangerous place as DATING.

you HAVE to be friends before thinking that you could be lovers or more.

op
it means she will give u Womanliness when she feels like.

It means she is 'doween' someone else and you are not 'attractive' enough. . .YET!
There might be hope.
Things change you know.

I spoke to her yesterday and she that she thougth i was initially playing pranks but seeing my level of seriousness in her,she does not know what to do. She has just broke up with her guy and she does not want to rush into any relationship. So my reply to her was that i will wait for her to make up her mind. Actually, I have been eyeing this lady since 2007/08. I believe this the right time.

Congrats
Happy 4 u