For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

if the blood stop flowing knackin begins...don't quote me oo

dallasi:


if the blood stop flowing knackin begins...don't quote me oo

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Bad guy, are you serious my senior colleague.

If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

Not for the average Nigerian man.

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking. Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

It depend on how your wife delivered the baby, if it normal delievery, some women body can still take after like 5-6 weeks, their virgina might have healed up..

While some who delieved through CS might have to endure some pain till like 2-4month, it actually depends on individual body...

Despite the fact that my wife delivered normal, I still wait more than 4month self, by that time nah more money I dey use my head to calculate

Vyolet:
Not for the average Nigerian man.

Lol, not all of them, that was actually my role then, but I was just limited to the role because I work in Lagos and wify was in Abk, so I only go home every weekend, leaving her and just her mum to help her, so when I return back home on friday, I resume duty till I leave back to lasgidi on monday....

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Are u saying u can't hold yourself from having sex for just ordinary 4 months considering the fact your wife just gave birth?? Haba! Please give her time to heal! Some of u men love sex way too much! Reason women use it to manipulate u men a lot.

This man you have to rest, don't rape your wife

Two matured people have answered your question.

There is another option.

You can have someone on the side who help you relax.

This is at your own discretion.

The wife needs to heal and the man has needs.

Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time.

Give your wife a break and break into another shagging

6 weeks is okay if it's vaginal delivery.

7 or 8 weeks if it's CS without further complications.

Infact, sex will help the cut heal better

Just allow her heal properly, else the wait period will be longer!!!

Btw there are other ways she can pleasure you without penetration

Lemme sit down here & learn from our married men.

Threads like this dey make me admire marriage more.

For vj with litlle or no cut, three months for Cs, two months

Hummm.... normally three months is advisable after birth for her to recover fully. But if it is because of unforseen pregnancy why not use condom

Get a side babe. poff my Rizzla

If u can't hold yourself, masturbate

If u can't, ashewo plenty for street, use condom.

I beg, no disturb our peace here

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

give her as much time as she needs, channel your desire to have sex into something more productive. Weaning your dependency on sex is a major part of growing as a man. There are a lot of people whose life aspiration is to be a rapist on this site so be mindful of immature advice. She will come to you for sex when she's ready.

There's always pornhub too lol

wunmi590:


It depend on how your wife delivered the baby, if it normal delievery, some women body can still take after like 5-6 weeks, their virgina might have healed up..

While some who delieved through CS might have to endure some pain till like 2-4month, it actually depends on individual body...

Despite the fact that my wife delivered normal, I still wait more than 4month self, by that time nah more money I dey use my head to calculate

Cs no be vj. Cs have even shorter time frame than vj. Especially when a good gynaecologist attended to u

Interesting thread

Well anytime is ok.

So far it's mutual.


But on the condition that you have decided the time for child spacing after birth for another child. For main time use paper.

hmmmm
even though m not married yet, this shit right here has always been something I sometimes think about how to handle; when I eventually get married.

Cos 2 months of no_sex is a No No for me

I'm here to learn from the experts.

Depends on ur wife's service n how fast the place can heal,
my own, before 2month, I don dey enter the place o cos I can't afford to cheat on my wife.. infact those waiting period be like waiting on the Lord, e full reach my neck...I was just only romancing n sucking my baby's milk but e no still do me.

If u wan wait till 4month, u might be tempted to commit adultery which won't be healthy for ur marriage so assist her in ensuring that place heals faster if u really want to dive in soonest..

All d best.

Get a side chick and stop bitching.

If u love her, always do the needful

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Ur wife dey give u right to fornicate, u still dey complain.