Kellzzyy:

Op take this advice. And send that girl out of your house as soon as possible. Two weeks is far. Don't let anyone leech on you without you getting anything in return.
Act fast
Send that bitch away.

This world is now very corrupt o. Na wa o

This post is offensive.

It should be taken down immediately.

Seun please your forum is a community, you should have a standard that guides and guards it.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Ogun kee you bro

I wish i could track your location and further report you to the police with this your stupid post as a proof. You're a RAPIST

First of all, if this is a fake post by one of the mods to generate traffic, then thunder fire you.

Okay. Now down to business...

First of all, please make sure you never discuss this rape on WhatsApp or call as it can be used against you in future. You acted foolishly but you you might just save what is left of your life.


2. You are coming to Nairaland to ask people who didn't live with you for 1 year 8 months for solution.

Why?

Nobody knows your relationship like you do. Don't listen to redpiller nonsense. You have something lovely going on. All this talk of your girlfriend feeling independent because of work is trash, na 2 month's rent person go take rent and furnish house?

See my guy, this is even the time for you be spoilt by the girl if she really love you, which I think she is.

Sexual urge is not a switch you can flip. Sometimes women don't just want to have sex especially when they are stressed. No Biggie..

You need to remember your own self worth and remember that even if she go, you still be the main guy. With that mindset you won't be entitled for sex.

Try and be a nice guy to your babe and show understanding. Ask after her day, try dey understand her day to day, who are here colleagues, who she hate for here office etc...

But don't pressure her got sex...it will only make her go far away from you.

Take her out for relaxation etc.

Guy, I promise you, you must reach the promise land ...

And once you enter make sure you and do a good job (she must cum before you cum - very important).

Woman wey go stay go stay but that one no mean so make you treat the one wey dey badly.

Leave all this red Piller nonsense and work on your relationship.

You are in a normal stage of your relationship...

Okay??

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

You rape woman and you still dey ask question?. Only in Nigeria. If you were in a sane country, at least you will be typing this question from a cell.

Don't bring a lie that you didn't penetrate her. You declared you tore her panties, tried to force your way through, and when she tried to resist, you physically assault her.

This is a case of sexual harassment and molestation, with physical assault plus or minus penetrative sex/rape. In an ideal world at least 7 yrs in jail.

Read the handwriting on the wall, that lady is no longer romantically attached to you.

I don’t know what Nairaland had turned to .. this post clearly supports violence against women how can you hit a woman and tear off her cloths just for sex [color=#990000][/color][b][/b]

cococandy:
Tomorrow this idiot will be on nairaland making xtupid posts about virginity and body count. At the same time, the lot of you don’t even take no for an answer yet somehow you want women are have never had sex. Because how?
I wish your girlfriend had the impetus to arrest you for attempted rape and sexual assault.
Disgusting low grade animal

Stop ranting. They are both to blame. No one forced her into the relationship. Neither was she forced to move in with the guy. Many girls move in with guys in order to leech off of the guys as much as possible while offering only sex in return. The girl here stopped holding up to her own end of the deal, so what were you expecting?

rosechika1994:
If you normally had sex with her before, like you said and it's 3 weeks now, bros forget it, something is wrong, she has gotten a back up, check out the boldness of wanting to leave in just 2 weeks, bros, she is done with you, know when something is dead.

Rosechika as you no get work, you think everyone is like you

Find another girlfriend. That's how it starts. Women denying men sex is manipulation. She feels she's the only one giving you sex. So she can hold you to ransom.
Get another girlfriend simple

Mtcheww. Na una type dey beg woman for sex or just the tip.

Readability:

Bro, honestly you did all this just to have sex with a woman? I'm disappointed at the act of a fellow man like me. I mean, this is uncalled for to say the least. You have your hand and if you can't fap, you give her time. You don't have a choice, it's her body not yours. Why don't you understand that it doesn't have to do with you, she could be going through stress like she said and this is the best you can do to comfort her?
I get it, I'm in the same situation as you mine has been more than 2 months now, with no explanation from her. All she said is, she needs a break. Bro, no allow this kind thing do you again, nah person pikin she be too ooo. And you can't take it if such is done to your sister or your daughter. So, be careful and pull her close, apologise to her and promise her never to do such again. No be everything be gragra for this life ooo. Thank goodness she no use something hard hit your head,maybe nah your story go dey fp tomorrow morning.

Some men are just too daft. Why forcing a girl to have sex with u to the extent of rapping her because she refused. Back then when I was in the dating game, I once had a girlfriend that she was not that sex freak. Not that we were not having sex. This girl do show me baby pictures then on her phone indirectly telling me we should get married and have all the best sex live together. Mr Man marry her, she will sexually satisfy u to the fullest. U want to drill her to stupor for another man to inherit borehole

Choi nothing Musa no go see for gate. My dude she’s probably sleeping with someone else and she doesn’t find you attractive anymore and who can blame her you said you have only her as a girlfriend which means you are giving her signals that you maybe undesirable and weak And the Fact that you tried to rape her over her refusal to give you sex shows how weak you are, that’s some simpish Wimpish behavior see how you almost landed yourself in Prison.
Bro you have to Work on your mind you are really a wimp . Omo just move on and get a few new girlfriends if she’s not giving you sex she’s getting it from somewhere else.
Better Dump her now .

greenie77:


Which devil?

The devil na kevv420 twin. And e dey do fvckanizer work ..along

I see a responsible, and hardworking man, eventually snatching that girl from you.

Olori buruku!

You camp babe for your house for almost 2yrs, with no intentions of settling down with her, but just to have her at your beck and call, to fvck her at will.

Then she decides to get serious with her time by getting a job and getting busy, and here you are whining about she not giving you sex...

You dey craze guy!!

Waka!!!

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

simple and short both of you are committing fucknication, and secondly ur babe have seen touch, and felt big agbola, so oga if you no get big agbola hide ur face

Story for the gods.

Mmadu2:


Imagine the level of entitlement. Someone you haven't paid her dowry and you feel she must give you sex or die. You see your life.

Even when you are fully married to a woman sex is not do or die. If she says she doesn't want you have no right to force her whether wife or girlfriend.

Junnior:

Stop ranting. They are both to blame. No one forced her into the relationship. Neither was she forced to move in with the guy. Many girls move in with guys in order to leech off of the guys as much as possible while offering only sex in return. The girl here stopped holding up to her own end of the deal, so what were you expecting?

pls how do u reason oga,do u tink if all was well wit dat gal she will HV time to stay wit dis idiot,ppl are going through a lot,mayb she just de manage mk she com up wit somtin nd better her life,who knows de gal plans...do u tink as de gal dey if ask her y she de wit dis mumu,she go tell u say na her clear eye or tin good fr am she com stay wit am

You have a rapist kind of mind.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

OP you are a beast. Why best a woman over refusal of sex. I fear you ooo

rosechika1994:
If you normally had sex with her before, like you said and it's 3 weeks now, bros forget it, something is wrong, she has gotten a back up, check out the boldness of wanting to leave in just 2 weeks, bros, she is done with you, know when something is dead.

Facts

Its your type that beg women for sex.

Ofadaman:
Someone you aren't married to.
Aren't you even working?, I'm not sure you are, she comes back from work and the only thing in your mind is sex.

She could have managed but some things may be at play here.
1) she's worn out at work and needs her rest
2) She's no longer in love with you,
3) Someone else is doing the work wella

Truth is , at this stage, you will not be getting her back, she's gone for good and you used your hands to do it.

If you've taken a different approach, would it have played differently ?. E.g.

You run her bath before she gets home, do your bit to tidy the place , get some wine , chill music and, you give her a massage?..

Don't know why everything with some guys na fight fight, at your age you dey drag pant with your own babe, even if you come enter the place and she dey dry how u wan take enjoy am or after the 3mins sex what next?. .. how una dey even enjoy unconsensual sex self, abeg get small sense na..

Amanee:
The kind of men some females date sha

A lot of Nigerian women have low self esteem that is why they put up with all manners of abuse at the hands of men they date and/or marry. Na dem sabi.

Real definition of a psychopath.

I really feel like beating you to stupor. Idiot

Mtcheww
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sundaygray:
If that girl get sense make she leave you. A man like you cannot control your urge abi? You think say by her living with you na steady sex. Ask married men how many times they sleep with their wives in a year. ;DYou almost raped her, in fact you rape am! Shoo... you came to nairaland to even type this rubbish. You get mind well well sha, dey tear woman pant like say she owe you money

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So after slapping her and tearing her pant and banging her without her consent you are saying you love her..

You are just a psychotic, aggressive simp...

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Why should u live with a woman you are not married to? The best thing is for both of u to live separately ...that fornication is not healthy

Why are nairaland ladies always bitter with men?
Can someone explain.

Pant tearing award goes too.........

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

My guess is that she has gotten what she wanted from you and has perfected plans to move on, that's their lifestyle. They use a man to get what they want and dump him. On the other hand, I hope you created this thread from police cell because that's where rapists like you should be. I see rapists as weak men and I hate you people with passion.

Better go and read the rationale male positive masculinity by Rollo Tomassi. If not you would one day find yourself doing incredible things so that your girlfriend or wife would be happy enough for her to spread her legs for you.

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komanderz:
Bro,
Better do what ever she needs to make her happy. You said when was not working you always have it so why don't you believe her if she said she's tired etc..

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Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Do you want to marry her. Or you just want her to be your fvck doll