Greetings to the Elders and grandpas of this forum, this will be the first time posting here. I will try as much as possible to go straight to the point because I need your advice.

My girlfriend broke up with me some months back which she came up with some flimsy reason for her actions.
After waiting for her hoping she would come back to her sense and apologize for her actions she did not, this makes me move on with my life.
Some months later I met a girl who suddenly developed strong feelings for me, my intention was only to be her friend (normal friendship) and never to rush into any relationship now. Fast word to this time she had shown much commitment more than me even when I haven't asked her out.
She had shared factually all her past stories with me and also screenshots of her discussion with men that want to ask her out. She callings every time and never complains about me not showing much interest.
My problem is that despite her shows of concern towards me still don't have feelings yet for her, she wants us to talk everytime and also share her dealings with me.
Elders and wise men on this forum please I need your advice on what to do to develop this feeling. What exactly is the cause of my heart not having that peace and joy of mind towards her? Thank you.

Don't force it. If you don't feel love towards her just keep her as a friend, never ever force feelings towards her since you love her as a friend and that's enough.

falcon01:
Don't force it. If you don't feel love towards her just keep her as a friend, never ever force feelings towards her since you love her as a friend and that's enough.

Okay, thank u.

falcon01:
Don't force it. If you don't feel love towards her just keep her as a friend, never ever force feelings towards her since you love her as a friend and that's enough.

I agree, don't give her any green light until you are ready. Don't force yourself, don't rush things.

This girl might be love bombing him. I don't understand the rationale behind treating guys like your boyfriend without any feedback from him

Dmes:
Greetings to the Elders and grandpas of this forum, this will be the first time posting here. I will try as much as possible to go straight to the point because I need your advice.

My girlfriend broke up with me some months back which she came up with some flimsy reason for her actions.
After waiting for her hoping she would come back to her sense and apologize for her actions she did not, this makes me move on with my life.
Some months later I met a girl who suddenly developed strong feelings for me, my intention was only to be her friend (normal friendship) and never to rush into any relationship now. Fast word to this time she had shown much commitment more than me even when I haven't asked her out.
She had shared factually all her past stories with me and also screenshots of her discussion with men that want to ask her out. She callings every time and never complains about me not showing much interest.
My problem is that despite her shows of concern towards me still don't have feelings yet for her, she wants us to talk everytime and also share her dealings with me.
Elders and wise men on this forum please I need your advice on what to do to develop this feeling. What exactly is the cause of my heart not having that peace and joy of mind towards her? Thank you.

Don't put yourself under any pressure. Be natural. Water will find its level.