In this generation, I've noticed that relationships most times is a nightmare due to the fact that women are trying to take over the man's position as the head and men on the other hand are trying to either let them do so or force them into submitting. I was talking with a young lady in my office sometime ago whom i considered gentle and meek judging by her demeanor. We talked and talked until we started discussing relationships & family and then i mentioned casually when trying to contribute to the discussion "that a man being the head of the house and the woman the support,...." She blurted out, cut in sharply and said she disagrees with the statement i made. I became curious and asked why. She said "the man is not the head of the house neither is the woman his support. Rather, they're co-heads." That really got me thinking and confused. When did we get to this point of contention and disrespect for boundaries in relationships?

So guys and ladies in the house what do you think should be your own boundary? At what point do you think you might be interfering in the "legal" space of your partner?

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