zanshi:



Before you divert the conversation in focus or make it about whataboutism

I am not taking about rape or about men who can't keep their sexuality in check, i am talking about women who go out and don't dress well even in social gatherings and wear clothes that are too revealing.

Let me ask: Do you think young women can do better when it comes to wearing decent clothes out there?

Are there not ladies that are "decently dressed"? Why are you not focused on them? Are all women dressed that way? How does it affect your existence?

Biglittlelois:



Are there not ladies that are "decently dressed"? Why are you not focused on them? Are all women dressed that way? How does it affect your existence?

I am not down for the back and forth with you.

zanshi:



I am down for the back and forth with you.

Whatever.

zanshi:
Let me ask: Do you think young women can do better when it comes to wearing decent clothes out there?

Do better as in try to meet up with your standard as far as what you call decent dressing,
obviously not theirs, right?

Kobojunkiee:
Do better as in try to meet up with your standard as far as what you call decent dressing,
obviously not theirs, right?

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Kobojunkiee:
Do better as in try to meet up with your standard as far as what you call decent dressing,
obviously not theirs, right?

Why are you trying to twist his words to fit your narrative.
Argue constructively or leave the discussion, let those who can be objective see space to talk

MrLucifer:
Why are you trying to twist his words to fit your narrative.
Argue constructively or leave the discussion, let those who can be objective see space to talk

Did you not see the question mark at the end of that post you responded to?

Are you certain you understand the meaning of the word 'objective' here?

My duty is to keep my own sane and chase every form of bad influence away from my domain.

If pesin mama or pesin daughter wants to walk naked or pose like a walking corpse at a T-junction, na their headache be that o!

What I see don't move me. I'm moved by what I choose to see.

zanshi:
I find it to be utterly despicable what a lot of younger women wear out today all in the name of fashion, i am talking about women particularly within the age of 18-28. I very much understand that a lot of women love fashion and like to dress to impress to every occassion, but there is a thin line between being excessive and being modest. I reside here in Lagos, and i see young girls the age of 15 wear skimpy body tight clothes and you being to ask yourself what has society come to.

You see in society, regardless of how crazy, rich, influential a man is there are certain people who will call out his behavior if he decides to step out of line, but watch in the case of a woman, even women are afraid to call out their fellow women who go out of line and would often look the other way, but you know what society as we have today didn't just morph into this liberalized do as you like mentality, society was bond by rules and moral consciousness whenever we err.

Just when you think societal norms is crumbling right at our feet, there is hope afterall. A lot of high end restaurants in Lagos wouldn't let you enter if you wear too revealing clothes or outfits that doesn't differentiate you between an escort or just a city girl. Whilst, it would be unfair of me to completely blame the women, it is imperative the designers of these outfits know that this is not casual dressing that is appropriate for your average teenage girl. Back when we i was growing up in Lagos in the early 2000's a lot of people frowned upon women who wore mini skirts, but the average girl wears it nowadays and because if she doesn't people would look at her as if she is not in vogue.


Would be great to hear the suggestion of other folks chime in on this topic.

Is this a joke?

Women have been told since times immemorial what to wear and what not to wear.

Magnoliaa:
Lmaooooo. Haaa. Members of the Committee for the Preservation of Humanity's Morals would start arriving now. Lol. They are landing small small to come and feast on this.

Waiting for the big madams them. This'll be interesting.

Na the people wey get time to dey advice them.

Let's encourage them to be indecent since we no longer have any codes of conduct, as they say the dance of a mad man is interesting to watch but we'll never wish it on ourselves.

Can't you see how cheap women are lately? , their daughters will suffer the fate of what they encouraged.

Legendoo:
Can't you see how cheap women are lately? , their daughters will suffer the fate of what they encouraged.

How so?

Kobojunkiee:
How so?

The new mantra is thotery under the guise of liberty.

Nudity, sexual liberation, recklessness.

This behaviour is the unintended consequence of what is being encouraged.


There's has never been a time Nigerian women were so cheap, easy and just deliberately making anti woman choices which objectifies them and gives men more access to cheap sex.

I've joined the bad guys, let's encourage them to be sluts.

Legendoo:
The new mantra is thotery under the guise of liberty.
Nudity, sexual liberation, recklessness.
This behaviour is the unintended consequence of what is being encouraged..

Unintended consequence of what exactly?

If sexual liberation is the choice instead and a women chooses behaviors that exhibit this, how then is that an unintended consequence on her part?

Kobojunkiee:
Unintended consequence of what exactly?

You don't know what's going on dear.

Nigerian women are bleeped. Anyways, we're on the same page now, let it burn, no one gives a shit anymore.

Legendoo:
You don't know what's going on dear.

Nigerian women are bleeped. Anyways, we're on the same page now, let it burn, no one gives a shit anymore.

I don't see the world the way you do. And I certainly don't believe Nigerian women are fked.

I see Nigerian women breaking free of shackles imposed on them by society and trying to find life and meaning on their own terms. It will take them sometime to get there, and there will be bumps in the road but they are certainly moving in the right direction which is away from societally imposed control.

Kobojunkiee:
I don't see the world the way you do. And I certainly don't believe Nigerian women are fked.

I see Nigerian women breaking free of shackles imposed on them by society and trying to find life and meaning on their own terms. It will take them sometime to get there, and there will be bumps in the road but they are certainly moving in the right direction which is away from societally imposed control.

Lol, Nigerian women were never in bondage.

They have been free to do whatever for decades but now the unlimited freedom is turning them into an inferior version of themselves.

Just wait, you'll understand what I'm talking about soon.

na the foolishness of wearing big polo and tight,them go now fold the polo for back so that thier nyansh will be displaying...tight wey thier mama wear those days and still wear skirt,,na him person go wear from mainland to island .. spits ssssss

Legendoo:
Lol, Nigerian women were never in bondage.

If you truly believe the statement in bold, then this discussion is meaningless... and this meaning the OP is just another bigot attempting to impose his views on women who don't dress like he wants.

Kobojunkiee:
If you truly believe the statement in bold, then this discussion is meaningless... and this meaning the OP is just another bigot attempting to impose his views on women who don't dress like he wants.

Lol, as if I don't have women in my life.

My mother for example did everything a woman could do even without feminism.

She traveled, bought properties,employed staff, raised children and stayed married without feminism.

So what restrictions are you on about.

Feminism did it's job , what's left anti woman.

Legendoo:
Lol, as if I don't have women in my life.
My mother for example did everything a woman could do even feminism.
She traveled, bought properties,employed staff, raised children and stayed married without feminism.
So what restrictions are you on about.
Feminism did it's job , what's left anti woman.

Whose arguing anything with you? Since you are of the mind that women have absolutely nothing to agitate for then there is nothing to report. The OP is nothing but a bigot seeking attention pretending there is such a part of society that cares for such things as he concerns himself with.

Buy them clothes then.

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Blood of Jesus Christ!!!!

What type of comment is this!

Jesus! Jesus!

Really so women are now responsible for rape committed by men?

Jesus! Jesus!

So if I see a jewelry I can't buy then I go ahead to destroy my neighbors house to steal her jewelry because of my greed, so the blame is on the store right!

Phew I am in shock!!!!!
WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey! Hey!

Lemme just leave nairaland for a year please. I am DONE!

dobnina:

It's painful that the society have lost its morals.
The people who suffer the consequences of these are the innocent ones. The underage children that are sexually abused.
Men are moved by what they see. They get easily aroused by the sight of a half naked woman.
Since they can't have anything with the lady who seduced them, they will rather have sex with one innocent young girl thereby destroying the life of the innocent child.
The government should put laws in place for indecent dressings and also castrate Rapist.

Mstick:
Blood of Jesus Christ!!!!

What type of comment is this!

Jesus! Jesus!

Really so women are now responsible for rape committed by men?

Jesus! Jesus!

So if I see a jewelry I can't buy then I go ahead to destroy my neighbors house to steal her jewelry because of my greed, so the blame is on the store right!

Phew I am in shock!!!!!
WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey! Hey!

Lemme just leave nairaland for a year please. I am DONE!

Its not by force to comment, you know.
I never tagged you for a response.
If you have a hard time comprehending my response, I think it's better you ignore and make your own comment.
You don't have to like my opinion.

Your opinion is very very very stupid and dangerous, both you and the people that liked your comments are the lowest of the low.

1)You're blaming an adult woman's key word adult woman's fashion choice as the cause of rape and pedophilia.
2) You're the type of woman that would blame a lady for her rape because you feel a man shouldn't have self control.
3)You're talking about morals as if women are the only ones that make up society, in countries and states where women cover up fully they're still being raped.

Oh you don't have to tag me for a response, your evil opinion was made public.

dobnina:

Its not by force to comment, you know.
I never tagged you for a response.
If you have a hard time comprehending my response, I think it's better you ignore and make your own comment.
You don't have to like my opinion.

Mstick:
Your opinion is very very very stupid and dangerous, both you and the people that liked your comments are the lowest of the low.

1)You're blaming an adult woman's key word adult woman's fashion choice as the cause of rape and pedophilia.
2) You're the type of woman that would blame a lady for her rape because you feel a man shouldn't have self control.
3)You're talking about morals as if women are the only ones that make up society, in countries and states where women cover up fully they're still being raped.

Oh you don't have to tag me for a response, your evil opinion was made public.

I am not going to stoop so low to your level to trade words with you.
People like you result to insult when you can no longer have a meaningful discussion.
I was raised better than that.
Nobody is stopping you from going out naked.
It's a free world so stop mentioning me.
I guess your hatred for my opinion blinded you from reading my comment where i said rapists should be castrated.
I have given you the 2minutes of fame you are desperately looking for.
Now, run along baby, beacuse I won't be replying your comments anymore.
Continue shouting.....
Good luck.

Mstick:
Your opinion is very very very stupid and dangerous, both you and the people that liked your comments are the lowest of the low.

1)You're blaming an adult woman's key word adult woman's fashion choice as the cause of rape and pedophilia.
2) You're the type of woman that would blame a lady for her rape because you feel a man shouldn't have self control.
3)You're talking about morals as if women are the only ones that make up society, in countries and states where women cover up fully they're still being raped.

Oh you don't have to tag me for a response, your evil opinion was made public.

I can't believe I was arguing with someone who reason like this.
No more reply from me. It's plain clear the kind of person you are.

OMG! So the "woman" that thinks a child should be raped because of an adult woman's dress choice thinks she's better and have more morals than me.

Lol! The clown is anti abortion but pro pedophilia, you just can't make this joke up.

Who gives a flying f**k about your reply?

dobnina:

I can't believe I was arguing with someone who reason like this.
No more reply from me. It's plain clear the kind of person you are.

See this senseless gnat, you come online blaming the dressing of women for child rape, what about the men that rape boys? Who do you blame then? Do you also blame the guys walking around with their asss crack showing or you still blame women?!

I don't even have the time to go through your posts because I Know it's all going to be a pile of hot rubbish, I won't even click on your user name because I don't find you important enough but what I wouldn't do is stand back and watch you say such nonsense.


Dobnina I hope one day when you've a child you will agree wholeheartedly when someone like you makes such comment oh and if you're already a mother i hope you agree wholeheartedly with your comment.

Mstick:
OMG! So the "woman" that thinks a child should be raped because of an adult woman's dress choice thinks she's better and have more morals than me.

Lol! The clown is anti abortion but pro pedophilia, you just can't make this joke up.

Who gives a flying f**k about your reply?

Classic. Evergreen. It's always their mode. Na their way. Having every form of godliness but denying its power.

Say nonsense, gets called out, then run back in into a shell of 'I'm not responsible for your lack of comprehension, you're this kind of person and I won't waste my time on you.' Of course, you can't stand to defend bullshit.

As long as they've said things like- 'I don't support rape, but women's dressing can...', 'I gave her an advice, but sleeping around is...'

You know, they throw in those few 'objective' talking points to mask the victim-blaming and judgmental crux of their comments and claim: 'can't you see where I said this?'

Lol. Just give a few years for the unravelling... you'll see.