I find it to be utterly despicable what a lot of younger women wear out today all in the name of fashion, i am talking about women particularly within the age of 18-28. I very much understand that a lot of women love fashion and like to dress to impress to every occassion, but there is a thin line between being excessive and being modest. I reside here in Lagos, and i see young girls the age of 15 wear skimpy body tight clothes and you being to ask yourself what has society come to.

You see in society, regardless of how crazy, rich, influential a man is there are certain people who will call out his behavior if he decides to step out of line, but watch in the case of a woman, even women are afraid to call out their fellow women who go out of line and would often look the other way, but you know what society as we have today didn't just morph into this liberalized do as you like mentality, society was bond by rules and moral consciousness whenever we err.

Just when you think societal norms is crumbling right at our feet, there is hope afterall. A lot of high end restaurants in Lagos wouldn't let you enter if you wear too revealing clothes or outfits that doesn't differentiate you between an escort or just a city girl. Whilst, it would be unfair of me to completely blame the women, it is imperative the designers of these outfits know that this is not casual dressing that is appropriate for your average teenage girl. Back when we i was growing up in Lagos in the early 2000's a lot of people frowned upon women who wore mini skirts, but the average girl wears it nowadays and because if she doesn't people would look at her as if she is not in vogue.






Would be great to hear the suggestion of other folks chime in on this topic.

zanshi:
I find it to be utterly despicable what a lot of younger women wear out today all in the name of fashion, i am talking about women particularly within the age of 18-28. I very much understand that a lot of women love fashion and like to dress to impress to every occassion, but there is a thin line between being excessive and being modest. I reside here in Lagos, and i see young girls the age of 15 wear skimpy body tight clothes and you being to ask yourself what has society come to.
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Would be great to hear the suggestion of other folks chime in on this topic.

Learn to mind your own wardrobe. No one send you go dey monitor other people wardrobe for them.

Kobojunkie:
Learn to mind your own wardrobe. No one send you go dey monitor other people wardrobe for them.

Of course i mind my own business to the letter

But it's something worth discussing.

Kobojunkie:
Learn to mind your own wardrobe. No one send you go dey monitor other people wardrobe for them.

If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute, it's better you keep quiet.
This is an important discussion. We need to protect the underage. They are innocent. We shouldn't be In a hurry to force them to grow up. It's high time parents and the society come together to bring back our lost morals.
If we are not careful, things will get worse in future.
If you think it won't affect you, then you are a joker.

zanshi:
Of course i mind my own business to the letter
But it's something worth discussing.

Worth discussing why? To what end?

dobnina:

If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute, it's better you keep quiet.
This is an important discussion. We need to protect the underage. They are innocent. We shouldn't be In a hurry to force them to grow up. It's high time parents and the society come together to bring back our lost morals.
If we are not careful, things will get worse in future.
If you think it won't affect you, then you are a joker.

I knew someone was going to come trying to lace this up as an attempt at protecting the underage - a lie typically used by the small-minded to impose their delusions on others.

So, you want here to discuss the wardrobe of adult women, primarily between the ages of 18 and 28, so you can protect the underage, how?

zanshi:
I find it to be utterly despicable what a lot of younger women wear out today all in the name of fashion, i am talking about women particularly within the age of 18-28. I very much understand that a lot of women love fashion and like to dress to impress to every occassion, but there is a thin line between being excessive and being modest. I reside here in Lagos, and i see young girls the age of 15 wear skimpy body tight clothes and you being to ask yourself what has society come to.

You see in society, regardless of how crazy, rich, influential a man is there are certain people who will call out his behavior if he decides to step out of line, but watch in the case of a woman, even women are afraid to call out their fellow women who go out of line and would often look the other way, but you know what society as we have today didn't just morph into this liberalized do as you like mentality, society was bond by rules and moral consciousness whenever we err.

Just when you think societal norms is crumbling right at our feet, there is hope afterall. A lot of high end restaurants in Lagos wouldn't let you enter if you wear too revealing clothes or outfits that doesn't differentiate you between an escort or just a city girl. Whilst, it would be unfair of me to completely blame the women, it is imperative the designers of these outfits know that this is not casual dressing that is appropriate for your average teenage girl. Back when we i was growing up in Lagos in the early 2000's a lot of people frowned upon women who wore mini skirts, but the average girl wears it nowadays and because if she doesn't people would look at her as if she is not in vogue.






Would be great to hear the suggestion of other folks chime in on this topic.

It's painful that the society have lost its morals.
The people who suffer the consequences of these are the innocent ones. The underage children that are sexually abused.
Men are moved by what they see. They get easily aroused by the sight of a half naked woman.
Since they can't have anything with the lady who seduced them, they will rather have sex with one innocent young girl thereby destroying the life of the innocent child.
The government should put laws in place for indecent dressings and also castrate Rapist.

Kobojunkie:
I knew someone was going to come trying to lace this up as an attempt at protecting the underage - a lie typically used by the small-minded to impose their delusions on others.

So, you want here to discuss the wardrobe of adult women, primarily between the ages of 18 and 28, so you can protect the underage, how?

I am not talking about Adults here.

Much as I agree with valid points stated in your write up, I am sorry to say but it will keep getting worse.

The much one can do is try as much as possible to inculcate good moral values and training to your child/children and pray they don't derail. Society as it is now won't do that job for anyone and everything's gone these days mahn

Mryacks:
Much as I agree with valid points stated in your write up, I am sorry to say but it will keep getting worse.

The much one can do is try as much as possible to inculcate good moral values and training to your child/children and pray they don't derail. Society as it is now won't do that job for anyone and everything's gone these days mahn

I understand you.
It's very very sad.

dobnina:

I am not talking about Adults here.

Did you bother reading the Op before responding at all?

Kobojunkie:
Did you bother reading the Op before responding at all?

Oga, leave me alone.
If you have problem with comprehension, it's not my fault.
Op brought up a discussion, I buttressed the point further by talking about the people that will suffer the consequences if something is not done about it.
You decided to read my comment upside down, it's not my fault you don't understand my point.
So, Oga, avoid me.

dobnina:

Oga, leave me alone.
If you have problem with comprehension, it's not my fault.
Op brought up a discussion, I buttressed the point further by talking about the people that will suffer the consequences if something is not done about it.
You decided to read my comment upside down, it's not my fault you don't understand my point.
So, Oga, avoid me.

Buttress is far from what you have done in this.

The OP created this thread as an attack of sorts on the wardrobe of adult women , particularly those between the ages of 18 and 28. He made this known from his very first paragraph.

Kobojunkie:
Learn to mind your own wardrobe. No one send you go dey monitor other people wardrobe for them.

You are talking rubbish, get out

Lmaooooo. Haaa. Members of the Committee for the Preservation of Humanity's Morals would start arriving now. Lol. They are landing small small to come and feast on this.

Waiting for the big madams them. This'll be interesting.

21lucky:
You are talking rubbish, get out

Ofcourse it is rubbish to you since you are probably of the mind that you were somehow installed as guardian and monitor over women and their affairs.

dobnina:

It's painful that the society have lost its morals.
The people who suffer the consequences of these are the innocent ones. The underage children that are sexually abused.
Men are moved by what they see. They get easily aroused by the sight of a half naked woman.
Since they can't have anything with the lady who seduced them, they will rather have sex with one innocent young girl thereby destroying the life of the innocent child.
The government should put laws in place for indecent dressings and also castrate Rapist.

So are you saying that, the reason pedophiles are pedophiles is cos of the seduction of indecently dressed adults they can't forcefully rape?

Are you sure you're ok in the head

Kobojunkiee:
Ofcourse it is rubbish to you since you are probably of the mind that you were somehow installed as guardian and monitor over women and their affairs.

You are talking out of point. You don't have sense, can you see your reasoning.
Get out

Op and others devoid of properly making use of their thinking faculty, how is it that the problem you have is with ladies that dress as they see fit instead of educating the sick-in-the-head nomenclatures that let their manhood think for them? I'm assuming you are a man, learn to face front and control your libido when you see what blinds your eye, or better yet, go live in Pluto where no female exists, no one is going to adjust their way of life to suit you.

21lucky:
You are talking out of point. You don't have sense, can you see your reasoning.
Get out

Look whose talking...

Kobojunkiee:
Look whose talking...

Who are you
Get out, you talk rubbish

Mryacks:
Much as I agree with valid points stated in your write up, I am sorry to say but it will keep getting worse.

The much one can do is try as much as possible to inculcate good moral values and training to your child/children and pray they don't derail. Society as it is now won't do that job for anyone and everything's gone these days mahn

This is the long and short of everything.

If you like shout from now till tomorrow, it won't change the minds of those who have decided to stoop so low as to make themselves appear as sexual objects.
If dem no want get sense at least you still get for head.

You as a guy should know better, use your head, be the bigger person and control yourself. Orientate the young ones around you.

Biglittlelois:
Op and others devoid of properly making use of their thinking faculty, how is it that the problem you have is with ladies that dress as they see fit instead of educating the sick-in-the-head nomenclatures that let their manhood think for them? I'm assuming you are a man, learn to face front and control your libido when you see what blinds your eye, or better yet, go live in Pluto where no female exists, no one is going to adjust their way of life to suit you.

As a man i who is aware and enlighted i have my libido in check. But that won't stop me from addressing woman who put on things that are too revealing.

Like i said modern day women like you would rather look the other way than give your 2cents regarding ills in the society. The crux of my argument is centered on women doing better when it comes to dressing better out.

Worst still when you see them dress with short skimpy dresses and they have to continually drag it down so it can cover sacred areas.

zanshi:
Like i said modern day women like you would rather look the other way than give your 2cents regarding ills in the society. The crux of my argument is centered on women doing better when it comes to dressing better out.

doing better for whose sake?

zanshi:
Worst still when you see them dress with short skimpy dresses and they have to continually drag it down so it can cover sacred areas.

So you think the dragging is an opening for you to make their business yours?

zanshi:



As a man i who is aware and enlighted i have my libido in check. But that won't stop me from addressing woman who put on things that are too revealing.

Like i said modern day women like you would rather look the other way than give your 2cents regarding ills in the society. The crux of my argument is centered on women doing better when it comes to dressing better out.

You've still not stated the crux of your problem, are you saying indecent dressing is the cause of ills in the society? If yes, if you mean rape, something is wrong with your head, are decently dressed ladies not being raped? Are males not being raped? But I'll give you the benefit of doubt, give examples of the ills you mean first let's know where your head is at?

Mryacks:
Much as I agree with valid points stated in your write up, I am sorry to say but it will keep getting worse.

The much one can do is try as much as possible to inculcate good moral values and training to your child/children and pray they don't derail. Society as it is now won't do that job for anyone and everything's gone these days mahn

@bold:

Very correct.

@Society: Those days are gone. To find a decent Jean skirt is now an extreme sport.

The length of 'decent' skirts and dresses gets shorter.

Modified:
There are nice decent designers if you search for.

zanshi:
The crux of my argument is centered on women doing better when it comes to dressing better out.

At bolded, doing better for whose sake? Men? So that they won't rape people?

Biglittlelois:


You've still not stated the crux of your problem, are you saying indecent dressing is the cause of ills in the society? If yes, if you mean rape, something is wrong with your head, are decently dressing ladies not being raped? Are males not being raped? But I'll give you the benefit of doubt, give examples of the ills you mean first let's know where your head is at?

Before you divert the conversation in focus or make it about whataboutism

I am not taking about rape or about men who can't keep their sexuality in check, i am talking about women who go out and don't dress well even in social gatherings and wear clothes that are too revealing.

Let me ask: Do you think young women can do better when it comes to wearing decent clothes out there?