In my first year at the university I was poised for a first class @ 100 level, as my CPGA was very very good and encouraging, but it all went haywire when I met Melody, after our first sex, I couldn't spell my name again... it was as if something formatted my brain after I released for the first time.

I was doing badly with studying and terrible at the exams... I had to end the relationship at the end of my second year second semester after checking the results, I did badly.


Melody finished me



What's your take on this guys?

what is wrong is wrong! You can't do the two together to avoid distractions

It's possible but difficult


Possible when you both are smart and know what you can to school to get.

Difficult if one person doesn't care as much

Relationship doesn't necessarily affect your academics, na you no no book. Lol, on a serious note, it depends on the individuals involved, some people are vulnerable when it comes to relationship. For me, I have lot of ladies around me and I am doing great academically, although I am in my final semester, not writing first class yet but hopeful.

When I was asking a junior student out, she benefitted from me academically, her assignments, tutorials and materials were from me. Although she turned down my proposal and ended up dating one regular guy in my class, she brought her assignment yesterday for me to help but I told her that her boyfriend is my coursemate, so he can do it.

The only thing that can affect my academics is lack of money, health related issue, but girls are just an addendum.

Depends on who you dating. I dated a brilliant girl in my department. We came out with good grades.

Never date an olodo

Person way day intelligent go remain intelligent weda e date or not. if you no know book weda you date or not you no go still know book.

I'm not dating but I'm doing badly because I've not been serious. But now for my finals I want to start dating aggressively and still improve in my study. And datubg should even help you sef if anything because highly sexed people will have energy to study. The only thing is as I'm dating I wouldn't be having sex frequently.

You are what you think.
I think it's possible