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The answer to your question is SIMPly that;

Girls often milk guys they don't like. They spend time and other resources on the ones they like.

Skyclub14:
My concern is, if she doesn’t like me why does she want to start collecting my money even when she has so much in finances. I don’t know how this sounds guys but please I need your opinion because I recently moved back to Naija and I’m starting to learn about Naija girls

Learn about naija gals?

So people in other countries never experience similar, ever?

Abeg, learn to move! The gal has her reason for turning down your invitation. You turning this to mean all Nigerian gals do this means she probably dodged a bullet.

Skyclub14:
My concern is, if she doesn’t like me why does she want to start collecting my money even when she has so much in finances.

Maybe it was a test or you're wrong about her finance.

Guy, just move on.

When it comes to women, trying to explain how they think defies logic.

If you want to have a girlfriend. Keep trying. It's like playing lotto.

You will get lucky but even at that don't be so emotional invested or you will be served breakfast.

Why are you catching feelings? If you don’t have anything to say just keep shut and shift.. if I go about distributing money to every girl I say hello to..won’t that make me look creepy and desperate or you no dey think? I posted this to learn because the kind of girls I am use to abroad won’t even give you their number less to talk of leading you on and asking you for money when they truly don’t want anything with you..in my opinion only prostitutes do that but this is coming from someone with a good paying job in abuja Babe

Kobojunkie:
Learn about naija gals?

So people in other countries never experience similar, ever?

Abeg, learn to move! The gal has her reason for turning down your invitation. You turning this to mean all Nigerian gals do this means she probably dodged a bullet.

You need opinion about what again precisely? Is about the way she blocked you off because you refused to give her money or that you felt she is way above other ladies who demand money

Either way you better move on or go back to her and pay up. The choice is yours.

Move on. U dodged a bullet do not go back.

Skyclub14:
I started chatting with my neighbor on WhatsApp Cus she is really beautiful and I thought I like the qualities i saw in her. After 3days of chit chatting she said the 4th was her birthday and I offered to send her a gift if she doesn’t mind but she turned down the gift offer and requested that I send her the money but I refused and I asked to take her out for launch or dinner so that we can atleast have a proper conversation face to face for the first time. She said she was busy and would definitely let me know when she is free(without giving anytime frame). But she now hardly responds to my message and when I asked her over the phone if we could be friends she said we can’t be friends so I said thank you and I dropped the call but discovered that she blocked my number on WhatsApp. I actually like this girl because I feel she is very hard working and very beautiful. She should be in her late 20s or early 30s and I wanted something serious with her but now I’m just suprised that even a girl that has a lot of stuffs going on for her in her business(rich girl). My concern is, if she doesn’t like me why does she want to start collecting my money even when she has so much in finances. I don’t know how this sounds guys but please I need your opinion because I recently moved back to Naija and I’m starting to learn about Naija girls

I think it was a test too but if I have paid that would also show that I’m desperate because I’m 31 and off course my questions to her in the few chit chat we had would tell her what I am coming for .. she knows we are at the stage of our life when we need to get married.. I live in my own house in an expensive estate and she is renting one of the properties in the estate too for her business so she knows I’m not hungry at my age I might not be rich but I can take very good care of myself and support a few people ..we just dey start life lol

SenecaTheYonger:




Maybe it was a test or you're wrong about her finance.

Skyclub14:
Why are you catching feelings? If you don’t have anything to say just keep shut and shift.. if I go about distributing money to every girl I say hello to..won’t that make me look creepy and desperate or you no dey think? I posted this to learn because the kind of girls I am use to abroad won’t even give you their number less to talk of leading you on and asking you for money when they truly don’t want anything with you..in my opinion only prostitutes do that but this is coming from someone with a good paying job in abuja Babe

ROFLMAO


Which abroad you dey yap about abeg? So suddenly all gals abroad no dey give numbers, no dey lead person on and dem no dey ask for money again, na only Naija gals dey do that?

One thing I've come to realize in life is that no matter how financially made a woman may be,she go still like to collect that your one naira....
That's the entitlement mentality we're talking about...But wetin dey burst my brain for the whole matter na be say,how will you be taking money from me when you don't love and don't wanna do anything with me in the first place . Na that thing dey make me dey feel used

Skyclub14:
I think it was a test too but if I have paid that would also show that I’m desperate because I’m 31 and off course my questions to her in the few chit chat we had would tell her what I am coming for .. she knows we are at the stage of our life when we need to get married.. I live in my own house in an expensive estate and she is renting one of the properties in the estate too for her business so she knows I’m not hungry at my age I might not be rich but I can take very good care of myself and support a few people ..we just dey start life lol

Guy, don't sweat.

Yes ..even if they will lead you on abroad they won’t start with give me money( a rich beautiful girl will never do that),she would ignore you and refuse to respond to your first message if she is not interested. Because she is beautiful and has her own money,even her line of toasters would be very wealthy me. But in Naija she would still want to collect the small one the guy has even though she is richer and does not like the guy .. for y

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO


Which abroad you dey yap about abeg? So suddenly all gals abroad no dey give numbers, no dey lead person on and dem no dey ask for money again, na only Naija gals dey do that?

Skyclub14:
Yes ..even if they will lead you on abroad they won’t start with give me money( a rich beautiful girl will never do that),she would ignore you and refuse to respond to your first message if she is not interested. Because she is beautiful and has her own money,even her line of toasters would be very wealthy me. But in Naija she would still want to collect the small one the guy has even though she is richer and does not like the guy .. for y

The same abroad wey I dey so abi na another abroad you dey mean so?

You are starting to learn about naija girls? Lmao

guess you werent born in "naija"
anyways kabiru our security man that just got back from togo too is forming "janded".

and it is spelt "lunch" nat "launch" mr "getting to learn bout naija gals"

Oga I say rich girl and guy wey dey try.. which rich oyinbo get time to dey lead you on when she get money pass you and she no dey interested? Guy they will clear you from the moment that they can’t be your friend and even if you get their number they will ask you not to call them again but they will never ask you for money because they are even way richer than you are but for Naija everybody is trying to run the next man down with love,scams and lies

Kobojunkie:
The same abroad wey I dey so abi na another abroad you dey mean so?

Skyclub14:
Why are you catching feelings? If you don’t have anything to say just keep shut and shift.. if I go about distributing money to every girl I say hello to..won’t that make me look creepy and desperate or you no dey think? I posted this to learn because the kind of girls I am use to abroad won’t even give you their number less to talk of leading you on and asking you for money when they truly don’t want anything with you..in my opinion only prostitutes do that but this is coming from someone with a good paying job in abuja Babe

Don't waste your time on this one. He/she talks like someone that is at war against the male gender. I have observed the moniker for a while. Just ignore

Thanks man .. very accurate answer .. I’d rather not smell what I won’t eat than smelling and tasting it when you know you won’t eat it.. might be hard for women like that to have a stable marriage.. because since they are beautiful they will still be getting toasters when they are married and will want to be milking the toasters financially and spoil their husbands with the gifts and money from their toasters

yomi007k:
The answer to your question is SIMPly that;

Girls often milk guys they don't like. They spend time and other resources on the ones they like.

From your posts and your comments no need to advice you to RUN or JAPA cos you already know what's up

The good thing about me is ..you can serve me breakfast as many times as you want but my shi shi . No dey ever drop if I no see you pant .. if you no show me pant meself no go give you shishi…if you break my heart I will go and withdraw the money and use it to give myself a good treatment and forget about you asap lol..na when guys loose money join that is breakfast lol

Godada:


Guy, just move on.

When it comes to women, trying to explain how they think defies logic.

If you want to have a girlfriend. Keep trying. It's like playing lotto.

You will get lucky but even at that don't be so emotional invested or you will be served breakfast.

Skyclub14:
I started chatting with my neighbor on WhatsApp Cus she is really beautiful and I thought I like the qualities i saw in her. After 3days of chit chatting she said the 4th was her birthday and I offered to send her a gift if she doesn’t mind but she turned down the gift offer and requested that I send her the money but I refused and I asked to take her out for launch or dinner so that we can atleast have a proper conversation face to face for the first time. She said she was busy and would definitely let me know when she is free(without giving anytime frame). But she now hardly responds to my message and when I asked her over the phone if we could be friends she said we can’t be friends so I said thank you and I dropped the call but discovered that she blocked my number on WhatsApp. I actually like this girl because I feel she is very hard working and very beautiful. She should be in her late 20s or early 30s and I wanted something serious with her but now I’m just suprised that even a girl that has a lot of stuffs going on for her in her business(rich girl). My concern is, if she doesn’t like me why does she want to start collecting my money even when she has so much in finances. I don’t know how this sounds guys but please I need your opinion because I recently moved back to Naija and I’m starting to learn about Naija girls

Why you dey do neighbor relationship?
Over familiarity and see finish go fit make the gal no wan reason you..
Imagine that Kain thing say your gal friend go dey see you everyday..
Don't allow her take control over you emotionally..na so most gals dey do them go want make you beg or something..
The best thing is block her and delete her number..move on..ignore her.. bullshit her swears man na she fit come dey reason you later..

Holly Gram if u spend any money on dat girl, if u spend any rubberz on dat girl, I go make sure sey I blast ur left leg wit my old kala. MUMU MAN. WTF MAN

You are 101% right bro.. before she talk finish I don’t cut the call na why she block me.. about neighbor to neighbor ..bro when you truly need a wife and you see a girl that you think she fits into the spec you are looking for ,trust me worrying about her being your neighbor would be the least thing in your mind..after all them they change house lol but I don’t advise hit and run with a neighbor except you want 100% seriousness..me i don’t plan to go back to the nacking different babes because e be like say as the babe never see babes for my house or with me for sometime she dey feel say I no get game but she no understand say na me decide to cool down make i chase a girl I truly want to love and not just changing babes ..

Rydermaverick:

Why you dey do neighbor relationship?
Over familiarity and see finish go fit make the gal no wan reason you..
Imagine that Kain thing say your gal friend go dey see you everyday..
Don't allow her take control over you emotionally..na so most gals dey do them go want make you beg or something..
The best thing is block her and delete her number..move on..ignore her.. bullshit her swears man na she fit come dey reason you later..

Skyclub14:
You are 101% right bro.. before she talk finish I don’t cut the call na why she block me.. about neighbor to neighbor ..bro when you truly need a wife and you see a girl that you think she fits into the spec you are looking for ,trust me worrying about her being your neighbor would be the least thing in your mind..after all them they change house lol but I don’t advise hit and run with a neighbor except you want 100% seriousness..me i don’t plan to go back to the nacking different babes because e be like say as the babe never see babes for my house or with me for sometime she dey feel say I no get game but she no understand say na me decide to cool down make i chase a girl I truly want to love and not just changing babes ..

If you dey serious about the relationship and you wan marry am fine e clear..but if na gf/bf I go advise forget...
Forget am just do like say she no dey exist abeg.. woman matter na the least thing wey suppose dey give guy man problem..

SenecaTheYonger:




Maybe it was a test or you're wrong about her finance.

deffo wrong about her finance

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Sonnobax15:

One thing I've come to realize in life is that no how financially made a woman may be,she go still like to collect that your one naira....
That's the entitlement mentality we're talking about...But wetin dey burst my brain for the whole matter na be say,how will you be taking money from me when you don't love and don't wanna do anything with me in the first place . Na that thing dey make me dey feel used

no b all girls bro

If I hear say na problem? Baba as long as say I not give her my money …I am very okay..if she say she no do make she dey go after all some girls don give me green light before in the past and i tell dem say I no do ..lol ..woman don toast me not be 1 or 2 times but several times so maybe I no be her taste.. because my taste fit no like me and her taste fit no like her too ..so we mueeeev

Rydermaverick:

If you dey serious about the relationship and you wan marry am fine e clear..but if na gf/bf I go advise forget...
Forget am just do like say she no dey exist abeg.. woman matter na the least thing wey suppose dey give guy man problem..

Skyclub14:
Thanks man .. very accurate answer .. I’d rather not smell what I won’t eat than smelling and tasting it when you know you won’t eat it.. might be hard for women like that to have a stable marriage.. because since they are beautiful they will still be getting toasters when they are married and will want to be milking the toasters financially and spoil their husbands with the gifts and money from their toasters

You are blessed.

Skyclub14:
If I hear say na problem? Baba as long as say I not give her my money …I am very okay..if she say she no do make she dey go after all some girls don give me green light before in the past and i tell dem say I no do ..lol ..woman don toast me not be 1 or 2 times but several times so maybe I no be her taste.. because my taste fit no like me and her taste fit no like her too ..so we mueeeev

Exactly man..

OP be SIMP!

Most naija gals just bado the Idea that a man is giving them money.

Skyclub14:
Why are you catching feelings? If you don’t have anything to say just keep shut and shift.. if I go about distributing money to every girl I say hello to..won’t that make me look creepy and desperate or you no dey think? I posted this to learn because the kind of girls I am use to abroad won’t even give you their number less to talk of leading you on and asking you for money when they truly don’t want anything with you..in my opinion only prostitutes do that but this is coming from someone with a good paying job in abuja Babe

Op don't b deceived about her job,many of them here are working and still doing prostitution..That is Naija babes for u