I am visiting this Sunday... Guys pls i need your advise on wat to buy 4 her and how to prepare, because i am nervous,

Note:mature minds only pls... Don't come here and display your stupidity

Kids and the unserious ones... Pls i use God to beg u.. Stay out of this

Don't buy shi shi. Just be be yourself since it's your first time. You can get her something on your second visit. Just dress simple and smart

I think it depends on the mother's personality. Someone like my mom would appreciate a cake, or anything edible that she can serve while you're around at that moment for the future talks. Nothing of real value would be accepted.

Sir, maybe you should ask your fiancee too... She should be the one to answer your question. Afterall she knows her mother more than you and US.

Just buy fruits and bread and be nice to everyone .



Anyway, Agriculture is life.

Trust me, women love wrappers, thick ones they can use to sow one fine style they saw in church..
Got that expo from my beloved mom...
Try it and see her welcome you with open arms...
She will even overfeed you till you beg her to stop giving you food....

Buy fruits, just fruits...

Oranges, bananas, apples, watermelon, etc.

Either fruits, a very nice fabri or both. Ask your babe, she should know better.

SmellySperm:
Don't buy shi shi. Just be be yourself since it's your first time. You can get her something on your second visit. Just dress simple and smart

Thanks bro

Doradorwa:
I think it depends on the mother's personality. Someone like my mom would appreciate a cake, or anything edible that she can serve while you're around at that moment for the future talks. Nothing of real value would be accepted.

Sir, maybe you should ask your fiancee too... She should be the one to answer your question. Afterall she knows her mother more than you and US.

Thanks bro... I won't be meeting her at home but at her shop, she has a mini mart, she wants to have some discussion with me before meeting my Fiancee's dad

FahBuLous:
Trust me, women love wrappers, thick ones they can use to sow one fine style they saw in church..
Got that expo from my beloved mom...
Try it and see her welcome you with open arms...
She will even overfeed you till you beg her to stop giving you food....

I will meet her at her shop, she has a mini mart. .. Leeme get some agbo jedi ready because she will offer me different type of drinks and chololates I don't think is necessary to accept what eva she offers me

Wayne4uall:



I will meet her at her shop, she has a mini mart. .. Leeme get some agbo jedi ready because she will offer me different type of drinks and chololates I don't think is necessary to accept what eva she offers me

It's very necessary o... Collect Everything, it's ur first time meeting her , don't reject anything she offers you, it will show you love and accept her as your mother in law...
Person like my mother eh, if you meet her for house, you go chop begin beg mama to stop

FahBuLous:
It's very necessary o... Collect Everything, it's ur first time meeting her , don't reject anything she offers you, it will show you love and accept her as your mother in law...
Person like my mother eh, if you meet her for house, you go chop begin beg mama to stop

Ok i will

buy them frozen chicken bro...

You don't have to buy anything for the mom. Let her know you for who you are.

This one wor start wetin go hard am to continue now

Must you buy her Something?

Can't you just go and come back the same way you visited?

Mumu, you won just present yourself for billing

A bottle of wine at least?

Why will you go to visit your mother-in-law to be for the first time in your life and go empty handed. Does that sound normal to you?

GboyegaD:
You don't have to buy anything for the mom. Let her know you for who you are.

Una go open mouth abi keyboard waaaa commit rubbish..

Do you know who he is? Abi English just dey sweet you to type??

Abi you think everyone is senseless like you lots on Nl??

With 1k, he can buy something. What do you now mean by knowing him for who he is? Knowing him as a stingy and alainironu like you??

simplepee:



Una go open mouth abi keyboard waaaa commit rubbish..

Do you know who he is? Abi English just dey sweet you to type??

Abi you think everyone is senseless like you lots on Nl??

With 1k, he can buy something. What do you now mean by knowing him for who he is? Knowing him as a stingy and alainironu like you??

Why get high blood pressure over my post and why read it with a negative mind? I'm not the cause of your frustration so please, don't vent your frustration on me. How does the gift depict his personality?

Op if I were you, I'd listen to the women here o. Your fiancee's mom is a woman not a man. Maybe when you're going to visit her dad follow their advice and go empty-handed. Them no dey teach simple courtesy for school sha.

simplepee:



Una go open mouth abi keyboard waaaa commit rubbish..

Do you know who he is? Abi English just dey sweet you to type??

Abi you think everyone is senseless like you lots on Nl??

With 1k, he can buy something. What do you now mean by knowing him for who he is? Knowing him as a stingy and alainironu like you??

Gbayi!

KiNg0G:
Mumu, you won just present yourself for billing

Lol.. Wat type of billing are u talking about o..... She has more than enough

GboyegaD:
You don't have to buy anything for the mom. Let her know you for who you are.

Dude are u for real? , if i should let her know me for who i am, i am capable of buying her a gift of 30k.... U don't know me bro

AoifeNightfall:
A bottle of wine at least?

Why will you go to visit your mother-in-law to be for the first time in your life and go empty handed. Does that sound normal to you?

May Ur days b long

GboyegaD:


Why get high blood pressure over my post and why read it with a negative mind? I'm not the cause of your frustration so please, don't vent your frustration on me. How does the gift depict his personality?

As an African man, gifts are very important if u are visiting ur in laws 4 d first time

Wayne4uall:


As an African man, gifts are very important if u are visiting ur in laws 4 d first time

I guess we all are wired differently and I'm not sure any of my sibling's husband brought gifts for my mom whenever they met her the first time as normally, they would have discouraged such and same with me.

The first day I met my wife's parents, I went empty handed and ate the pounded yam I was offered. It doesn't mean I don't regard them, it is just me following my style of trying not to buy people over to me as I believe in earned loyalty for both parties.

Envelope money and give her when leaving

GboyegaD:


I guess we all are wired differently and I'm not sure any of my sibling's husband brought gifts for my mom whenever they met her the first time as normally, they would have discouraged such and same with me.

The first day I met my wife's parents, I went empty handed and ate the pounded yam I was offered. It doesn't mean I don't regard them, it is just me following my style of trying not to buy people over to me as I believe in earned loyalty for both parties.

This one weak me o

GboyegaD:


I guess we all are wired differently and I'm not sure any of my sibling's husband brought gifts for my mom whenever they met her the first time as normally, they would have discouraged such and same with me.

The first day I met my wife's parents, I went empty handed and ate the pounded yam I was offered. It doesn't mean I don't regard them, it is just me following my style of trying not to buy people over to me as I believe in earned loyalty for both parties.

which state are u from

merieam16:
Envelope money and give her when leaving

Whatever you do, don't try this. She may find it insulting as you're not yet in the family. Instead use the money to buy hampers.

Wayne4uall:
which state are u from

Lagos.

Just volunteer to help her refill her 12.5kg gas cylinder

But op
Anything you have in mind

Don’t go empty handed o