Pls, married people in the house should look onto this matter. My wife always want us to be eating together in one Plate even though if I come home late from work in the night,she will wait for me before we eating except if i travel out of city.

Bro, you have a good thing going for you so don't kill it with your selfishness. Just eat with your wife , or are you suspecting her of poisoning?

It depends on your personality and understanding betwen you and your woman.

Hashabiah:
Bro, you have a good thing going for you so don't kill it with your selfishness. Just eat with your wife , or are you suspecting her of poisoning?

It's not about selfishness most times, everyone can't be comfortable eating together in the same plate. I'm not married and I like eating alone.

You people keep complaining about everything so as to scare people from getting married but sorry to disappoint you all,I'm rushing into it with no fears.

Hashabiah:
Bro, you have a good thing going for you so don't kill it with your selfishness. Just eat with your wife , or are you suspecting her of poisoning?

Nooo. I just feel like am not comfortable for her to be waiting for me always. I spoke to her several times and she said that's what she want.

This isn't an issue op, na true love

but

No qualms we move

Iyaebe:
You people keep complaining about everything so as to scare people from getting married but sorry to disappoint you all,I'm rushing into it with no fears.

Don't be scared oo
You will enjoy your marriage if you marry a right person like mine

I love my wife because she's quiet and caring with the fear of God in her.

NarcissistKing:
It depends on your personality and understanding betwen you and your woman.

Yes. We understand each very well to the extent that when we have misunderstanding she will bodily tell me to come and eat.

NarcissistKing:


It's not about selfishness most times, everyone can't be comfortable eating together in the same plate. I'm not married and I like eating alone.

You can't understand oga. Get married first then come back and comment

Olarewaju89:


Nooo. I just feel like am not comfortable for her to be waiting for me always. I spoke to her several times and she said that's what she want.

If that's what she wants then do it. At least for the sake of peace and her happiness

Hashabiah:
You can't understand oga. Get married first then come back and comment

You are right.

When you get marry, many things will change in your life.

Hashabiah:
If that's what she wants then do it. At least for the sake of peace and her happiness

OK oh. Thanks

Hashabiah:
You can't understand oga. Get married first then come back and comment

It's not until I get married that will understand. Is it not about sacrifice? More reason I said it depends on both parties. At least they dated before marrying. This issue would have been there but they didn't see it as a big deal until they are both married now.

Most people don't count little things when they are dating. It becomes bigger issue during marriage and they can't just back out of marriage like dating.

NarcissistKing:


It's not until I get married that will understand. Is it not about sacrifice? More reason I said it depends on both parties. At least they dated before marrying. This issue would have been there but they didn't see it as a big deal until they are both married now.

Most people don't count little things when they are dating. It becomes bigger issue during marriage and they can't just back out of marriage like dating.

Some experiences are best understood when you actually engage in it. Secondly, marriage is not about yourself ; it is about bending to suit the other person's imperfections. And this can only happen when you see beyond self

Olarewaju89:
Pls, married people in the house should look onto this matter. My wife always want us to be eating together in one Plate even though if I come home late from work in the night,she will wait for me before we eating except if i travel out of city.

if you are not comfortable with it, don't worry urself bcuz it's just a question of time...... when kids start coming, every thing is going to change.
I was once like ur wife, hubby also complained not to wait for him, I didn't listen. My kids finally changed everything.

Hashabiah:
Some experiences are best understood when you actually engage in it. Secondly, marriage is not about yourself ; it is about bending to suit the other person's imperfections. And this can only happen when you see beyond self

You still don't get the point! Most issues that people face in marriages (financial excluded) have always been there during courtship but most people ignore it all because it wasn't a marriage.

I'm a blunt person, and if I don't want something, or can't do something, I speak out. If you ain't cool with it, then you're free to walk away.

There is truly someone for everyone. I see a lot of silly questions being asked by married men on this forum and I wonder. Indeed it is very hard for smart women to find a spouse....hian. May God help us.

[s]

NarcissistKing:


You still don't get the point! Most issues that people face in marriages (financial excluded) have always been there during courtship but most people ignore it all because it wasn't a marriage.

I'm a blunt person, and if I don't want something, or can't do something, I speak out. If you ain't cool with it, then you're free to walk away.

[/s] That where you ain't getting it : you need to bend and stop being a narcissist who only considers himself above others .

Life is more than you and your selfishness

Oizee:
if you are not comfortable with it, don't worry urself bcuz it's just a question of time...... when kids start coming, every thing is going to change.
I was once like ur wife, hubby also complained not to wait for him, I didn't listen. My kids finally changed everything.

I thought as much also.
Thank you for sharing your own experience.

Hashabiah:
[s][/s] That where you ain't getting it : you need to bend and stop being a narcissist who only considers himself above others .

Life is more than you and your selfishness

Lol

Is that why you mad? You don't know me like that.

sisisioge:


There is truly someone for everyone. I see a lot of silly questions being asked by married men on this forum and I wonder. Indeed it is very hard for smart women to find a spouse....hian. May God help us.

You wanna trust every thread on Nairaland Becareful not to let them get to You

You not right.When you going marry, many stuff will new in your lifestyle.

You are not hungry.

Mennnnnnnn, somethings aren't fit to be causing wahala in a home........For peace to reign,why not let sleeping dogs lie

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Olarewaju89:
Pls, married people in the house should look onto this matter. My wife always want us to be eating together in one Plate even though if I come home late from work in the night,she will wait for me before we eating except if i travel out of city.

I don't think it's wrong...
My dad and mum ate together...
Unless when Dad came back home really late,bonly then did he eat alone...

NarcissistKing:


It's not until I get married that will understand. Is it not about sacrifice? More reason I said it depends on both parties. At least they dated before marrying. This issue would have been there but they didn't see it as a big deal until they are both married now.

Most people don't count little things when they are dating. It becomes bigger issue during marriage and they can't just back out of marriage like dating.

Yen yen yen yen...
Marry first ehn
Then you'll know that, what you have been watching on telemundo only happens in the movies....

"Is it not about sacrifice?"
"Were they not dating before the got married?"

When you marry...
You wee know that people change and all those stuff they do during dating is just a front...


Lastly...
You have a point Sha buh keep an open mind

Iyaebe:
You people keep complaining about everything so as to scare people from getting married but sorry to disappoint you all,I'm rushing into it with no fears.

Your comment got me laughing

Hashabiah:
Some experiences are best understood when you actually engage in it. Secondly, marriage is not about yourself ; it is about bending to suit the other person's imperfections. And this can only happen when you see beyond self

I love ur comment bro

Favfables1:


Yen yen yen yen...
Marry first ehn
Then you'll know that, what you have been watching on telemundo only happens in the movies....

"Is it not about sacrifice?"
"Were they not dating before the got married?"

When you marry...
You wee know that people change and all those stuff they do during dating is just a front...


Lastly...
You have a point Sha buh keep an open mind

I'm not even interested in marriage, but if I should be in one and it becomes unbearable, I'm gonna back out! I don't believe in enduring all because of saving a bullshit.