Toks2008:
Watch out for this mind blowing article

Beebah2000:
Ahhh! Wetin dey happen na?
I just dey see different thread about virgins.
I no understand again ooo.
Abi, today na Virgins day?
Na only me dey notice am?

MaverickA3:


U aren't replying your messages

Beebah2000:
sorry dear. No data

Biglittlelois:
Toks why is your topic misleading when your thread is about going back to the status quo approved by God? Why not change your topic to "men, go and pay the bride price of any Lady you disvirgined so that the wrath of God will not fall on you"

Your advise according to the scriptures you quoted should be to men not women, cos if all men married women they disvirgined, there will be no promiscuity, everyone, male and female, will marry as virgins.

Toks2008:


Nice one.

You may consider creating a thread in that light.

Just that it will be a wild goose chase cos it will be a mission impossible.

Biglittlelois:



A thread in what light?

How is it a mission impossible when this thread is exactly what i talked about in my previous comment? Or don't you understand the scripture verses you quoted?

Harrykn:
The tinder and codedrunz ones should be given out as scrap

Biglittlelois:
A typical look of an overused community diick's scrotal sac below, virgin brides beware, you deserve your kind.

SankaraSo:



The families should even be doing promo for men to come and carry them.

SIMPS have been spending hard earned money on wasted goods.

Sonnobax15:

Na wa oh

Harrykn:

Season greetings brotherly

Sonnobax15:
Wish you the same my brother . Good morning

Toks2008:
This is not a thread to judge anyone or bring down any gender but it is an eye opener for the world to understand the importance of sexual chastity and perhaps we will start to train the girl child to understand the value of her sexuality, to make them understand that they own the key to a sexually chaste world, to learn how to say NO to guys who are ever willing to snatch their innocence and to teach them that GOD places a very high premium on their sexuality and sex before marriage is nothing to be proud of, to look away from the Satanic norm of having many husbands in the name of boy friends before actually settling down and to teach them how to guide their sexuality tenaciously until their wedding night.

Before i go on, let us take a look at the definition of a bride price and take a journey down into history of how bride price started and the importance of bride price both from the scriptures and from human tradition .

Bride Price :This is basically the money paid to the father of a female for taking her virginity.....By extension, it means if you are not the man who took her virginity, you have no business paying any bride price on her.

Exodus chapter 22 verse 16 to 17
“If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for her and make her his wife. If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equal to the bride-price for virgins.”
Deuteronomy 22:28–29
“If a man meets a virgin who is not betrothed, and seizes her and lies with her, and they are found, then the man who lay with her shall give to the father of the young woman fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he has violated her. He may not divorce her all his days.

As we all can clearly see in these scriptures, you are either a virgin or married and when a man have sex with a woman that is still a virgin, he has violated her and this is dishonest to her virginity and therefore he must pay the virgin price because the man has damaged the future of the lady.

An example about paying bride price from the scriptures was when Abraham bought gifts for Rebecca who happens to be a virgin
Genesis 24:16
The woman was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever slept with her. She went down to the spring, filled her jar and came up again. Then the servant brought out gold and silver jewelry and articles of clothing and gave them to Rebekah; he also gave costly gifts to her brother and to her mother. Genesis 24:53

Even The Quran sees it as Haram for a lady to have any sexual relation outside marriage.


FROM AFRICAN CULTURE AND TRADITION

Paying bride price is an age long practise in many African countries and beyond but it usually goes with what is called “Blood or sheet ceremonies or also called virginity testing,

This is designed to generate proof that a bride's sexual encounter with her new husband is her first sexual experience: blood on the sheets is, apparently, demonstration, that her hymen was ‘broken’ on her wedding night,” and once a lady fails this test. the man must take her back to her family and in some instances, accompany her with drummers singing songs of shame and the bride price he paid is returned to him.

CONCLUSION

As i wrote earlier, i am not judging anyone but this write up has clearly shown that Bride price or dowry as it is called in some places is only for virgin brides but this does not mean that a man can not still pay whatever he is asked just to show how deeply he desires the lady for a wife but be it as it may, it is imperative for any lady who wants to get married as a non virgin to calm down and not ask for too much because in the first instance, she does not deserve any bride price but ought to be given to the man totally free just to cover her shame.

I hope this makes sense.

Vinnie2000:



This my Babe issa Correct Babe! I like ur Style!

All dis Guys with dier suspicious, Kurukere moves!

Tell him to Buy Android Phone for you to Prove his seriousness!

Biglittlelois:
A typical look of an overused community diick's scrotal sac below, virgin brides beware, you deserve your kind.

Biglittlelois:
A typical look of an overused community diick's scrotal sac below, virgin brides beware, you deserve your kind.

Sonnobax15:
Wish you the same my brother . Good morning

Vinnie2000:



Bros..

Sorry dat I didn't reply dat ur Message about collecting Gifts in Agofure Park!

Dat thread was suspended as at dat time! So I couldn't drop a comment!

Don't worry, All of us Together! No Shaking!

Beebah2000:
Ahhh! Wetin dey happen na?
I just dey see different thread about virgins.
I no understand again ooo.
Abi, today na Virgins day?
Na only me dey notice am?