Raalsalghul:


It is not even a matter of Nigeria. It's worldwide.

Given the choice, most people will rather be oblivious of reality than being born.

I mean, how do you tell a sickle cell patient, victim of Parkinson's disease or Siamese twins that they should be grateful to be given birth to.

No be madness be that.

As for the issue of Nigeria, so many are still making the same mistakes of our parents even with the stark reality staring at us. In the future, they'll probably say Nigeria of today was good. You know how the story goes...

tensazangetsu20:

I am far from struggling. If anything my income puts me at the top 1 percent of Nigerians but I can never have a relationship in Nigeria talk less of marriage. Anyone giving birth in Nigeria is a spawn of the devil more wicked than lucifer. This shithole country mtscheww.

Mariangeles:


Where are all these bitterness coming from?
The other time, you referred to those having children in Africa as demons or whatever, now this? Are you sure you’re ok?
I know say una new plan na to push agenda wey go depopulate Africa but e no go work!
You all can keep wailing!

Evolutionlove:


So you are this myopic and uncivilized. I use to hold you In high esteem gosh. Never knew you have such traits embedded In you......

tensazangetsu20:

I am far from struggling. If anything my income puts me at the top 1 percent of Nigerians but I can never have a relationship in Nigeria talk less of marriage. Anyone giving birth in Nigeria is a spawn of the devil more wicked than lucifer. This shithole country mtscheww.

ogunboy:


U no know before? She is an agbaya local champion with a bigoted narrow mind and very stupid ignorant reasoning. I am surprised you hold am for high esteem, e be like u no know the agbaya.

ogunboy:


Common shut up your gutter mouth there. Didn't u miss me Maria.anus? How is your frend klass or is it your enemy. She use u scrub floor come bury u again on my behalf, De match totori me for body dat time I no fit shout I go just call am for u or make I call ikillbrokehoes instead? Make e epp me kill broke hoe like u

ogunboy:


Werey dey disguise, agbaya toto person. How is your puccy doing today? U don wash am? Make e no smell like the last time when u come around 2nite. U don dey use your other monikers like your own post, lol

Raalsalghul:


Now that you mentioned this, I remember a thread last week where the wife was pestering her husband for a child.

The said young man was struggling, writing some certifications to improve his finances.

I told the lady to leave the marriage if she can't wait for the man and if she so desired children and someone called me irresponsible. In their own words, "I hate women and children."

See ehn, at a point one has to realize the life of a man is a matrix made worse if said male is from a poor family.

You are being broke shamed in your youth, teased at, rated down, invisible, unrecognized and the moment you see the light, make some headway then gbam, the marriage chants comes in.

It paints a picture of a society that doesn't want you to rest: they take great satisfaction in the idea that you'll always carry burdens till you hit the dust.

It's the same reason why this society hate seeing a young unmarried man doing well. That figure pisses them off, makes them scornful, it makes them bitter, itchy. Your resources sha must be expended on someone/something: wife and kids being the perfect description.

And basis above I discourage young men from struggling backgrounds to delve into marriage or at best weigh their options carefully if they are ready for a life of double struggle or maybe even a marriage with no kids if they can manage it.

mk3jax:

Been married for 10 years. Have 2 maid in the house that do almost everything yet wife still complains like we all came into this world to perpetually enjoy. By the way 100% of my friends and colleagues have this same problem with their wife. What women say in the public is not what they do. Even when they work, their money belong to them 100% and they will still disrespect the man that is providing for the family.
A man is valued strictly on his ability to provide. They are never loved unconditionally.

Saicrumam:


Guy wetin u talk de game
Some niggars don't have it rough like others.
They will broke shame you. It pains more when it's coming from your family or neighbors. Because my senior brothers were blessed to make it very early in their life, I was a forgotten story

You will be totally ignored when hustling to be somebody. They will tell you to be a man is not a day job, they want to carry your burden alone
But once they see a little light in the tunnel they change and start noticing you.

I dey wait the day my parents will tell me to get married.
Wetin I go answer dem dey my mind
I started paying my school fees at JSS 2,
I began hawking gala and minerals, sleeping in the cold streets of Oil Mill, PH when I was 16.

If marriage and having children is like that of my parents, I prefer to sell everything and go to Tibet to live the rest of my years in the monastery

ogunboy:


Maria.anus my luv the likes no pain me. Cos I know say I dey torment ya soul. I surprise say u neva report me to MODS. Be.calming down it is a new year no dey over react to comments way no consign u I follow u talk? I ansa person u come jump enter my mentions.

Anyways u never ansa the puccy kwesion, u don wash am well? Make we use am for your nite trade and runz. I like as I dey make u para and foam for mouth like the rabid bitchh u are. Speak english i no understand dat language u write so e no pain me. Maria anus with smelly puccy

Raalsalghul:


Now that you mentioned this, I remember a thread last week where the wife was pestering her husband for a child.

The said young man was struggling, writing some certifications to improve his finances.

I told the lady to leave the marriage if she can't wait for the man and if she so desired children and someone called me irresponsible. In their own words, "I hate women and children."

See ehn, at a point one has to realize the life of a man is a matrix made worse if said male is from a poor family.

You are being broke shamed in your youth, teased at, rated down, invisible, unrecognized and the moment you see the light, make some headway then gbam, the marriage chants comes in.

It paints a picture of a society that doesn't want you to rest: they take great satisfaction in the idea that you'll always carry burdens till you hit the dust.

It's the same reason why this society hate seeing a young unmarried man doing well. That figure pisses them off, makes them scornful, it makes them bitter, itchy. Your resources sha must be expended on someone/something: wife and kids being the perfect description.

And basis above I discourage young men from struggling backgrounds to delve into marriage or at best weigh their options carefully if they are ready for a life of double struggle or maybe even a marriage with no kids if they can manage it.

ogunboy:


I like tormenting her because she is an easy target and a very stupid one too who is easy

ogunboy:


Ehn ehn? But dis one dey always like to foam macho, gangsta, strong tough woman with her agbaya, yeye and stupid character. She deserves every insult she gets from me as she no dey like mind her business. I fit pity am small today becos of u

Evolutionlove:


I actually understand you bruh. But the thing Is you will be marveled that most of these Ladies are not emotionally strong as they seem to portray themselves. Things get to them easily. As for me, I hardly have Issues with most of them ever since I understand how they were programmed......

ogunboy:


Macho cunt, laslas my clients go still use u for area anyhow. Pity de kpekus before dem destroy am for u.

Mariangeles:


Trust me! That is not a bruh!
That is just a territorial demon who hovers over family section stalking people like the restless demon that it is!
It comes out once in a while from the abyss. I guess this is its season.

Evolutionlove:


It's okay dearie. Just let go and forget about the matter okay.....

ogunboy:


I no be bruh who I come be? U dey fear to call me one female user like dat, after the last time way she use u like toilet brush scrub floor and toilet join . Dat tread was da bomb. Na your chuchuchu dirty mouth dey cause u problem

cococandy:


This does not represent reality.