Have you ever been pounced on in the middle of your sleep this has always been going on for me and i always just allowed it. The other night I just flipped out and made it clear I was not denying him it. But to wake me up from my sleep and expect me to perform ladies what is the naija position on this

maybe I shuda re phrased in to abruplty awoken as opposed to being pounced on. But really can you suddenly wake up tp be p*** star at 2.00 am

Leliah,
You again?

Yes me again, who are you that I should not be on this forum? Is there a problem with me is there? Ayeshah, we are all children of adam. If I want some help and advise I am comfortable on this forum so what do you mean you again?

any man that do that is maybe drunk or something.

Yes, this normally occurs when he had been drinking! thank you.

Hmm Hmm

@Leliah
Am sorry did not mean to sound like that, it is just that you always seem to have something to complain about your husband.
Please no relationship is easy, you just have to learn some tolerance and try to communicate more with him. Try to concentrate on his good sides because everyone has bad sides but when he does something you deem as inappropirate, try to talk to him nicely dont nag him.
Then Concentrate more on the things that led you to fall in love with him.
I believe marriage is sacred and a lifetime commitement you should make the best out of it.
Once again am sorry

Leilah:

Yes, this normally occurs when he had been drinking! thank you.

You should be glad he still has eyes for you even after he has been drinking. What you should worry about now, is the night he fails to pounce on you after a binge.

ladies sha

i wnt use d wrd pounced bt i tell u it cld b fun at dat time 2.

@Topic

Mine is a perfect gentleman. He is only aroused when he sees I am a willing partner. When I say no---he does not even bother!!! We both work and he is considerate enough not do disturb my beauty sleep and I try not to disturb his. So try to set your alarm for 5AM in the morning and everyone will be happy since you both can agree at a particular "timing of events"!!! Goodluck!!!!

I feel like now because I got annoyed when he woke me up from my sleep that I made a blunder

Well it doesnt have to be a bad thing, it depends on how it is done. I know i sometimes wake my man up like that (arousal) and he absolutely loves it

this reminds me of a film we watched a while back, the dude kept mounting his wife late at night. Pounce mount same thing. Anyway he shouldnt be disturbing you late at night like that expecially if you are already in bed asleep. Talk to him about it and see what he has to say, maybe you guys can come to a comprise, but since you say he is drunk the majority of the time he "pounces" on you you may want to talk to him about his drinking.

Lol @ 'Pounce' - Ah! ah! He be predator? Na only predator dey 'pounce' on top prey. You dey for wildlife documentary?

Am wondering what your were going to feel . . . . waking up in the middle of the night and you find a 9 inch fat D**ick inside of you. to me it's scary!

which one be naija position? u still lucky say yah hubby still dey wan oil and grease yah pus sy na im yin no dey happy, even if it is 24 -7

silly thread,

hoping all goes well, lets say 10 years from now, u'll be begging for that 2am "pouncing", and there you are complaining, you should be jumping up every morning for joy that he still has a very strong sexual attraction to you,

aisha2:

@Leliah
Am sorry did not mean to sound like that, it is just that you always seem to have something to complain about your husband.
Please no relationship is easy, you just have to learn some tolerance and try to communicate more with him. Try to concentrate on his good sides because everyone has bad sides but when he does something you deem as inappropirate, try to talk to him nicely don't nag him.
Then Concentrate more on the things that led you to fall in love with him.
I believe marriage is sacred and a lifetime commitement you should make the best out of it.
Once again am sorry

I concur!


@poster,
Please, find it a thing of joy that ur hubby still finds you sexually attractive to pounce on you in the middle of your sleep. Some hubby will prefer to try it on hookers after getting drunk.

If you dont find it enjoyable, talk to him (lovingly) about it when he becomes sober.

Goodluck!

Leilah:

Yes, this normally occurs when he had been drinking! thank you.

it happens in some part of Naija.

If he 'jejely' wakes you. . . ehn ehn. . . not juzz 'pounce' on you anyhow

Even if he "jejely" wakes u up,

you would always have something to complain of* ^{full stop}

This poster again

Nawa o!is he not your husband?why must he follow a timetable to fulfil his marital obligations to his wife.having sex at odd hours is very romantic,its a mark of respect,and it gives married women high degrees of confidence of how sexually attractive/appealing they are to their husbands,having sex with  one woman continuously is a difficult task most men cant cope with,so u should be happy u have a wonderfull huby who is faithfull and willing to go an extra mile to make you happy by thinking about u while u are fast asleep.hope u wont mind if he takes a break for one month?, lol

I think it's romantic

Ben20001:


it happens in some part of Naija.

What part of Nigeria is that?

Im quite sure men of all colours and races like to wake their partners in the middle of the night for some action!

What I want to know Leila is why you dont like it.

Is it because it interupts your sleep?

Is it because he is rough and aggressive?

Does it happen everyday?

Does he have a drinking problem?

Is he forcing you to perform acts you dont want to e.g anal sex like last time?

What is the exact problem?

This topic is from 2007

Who says no to a bit of pouncing?

and u have to come out here to publicly humiliate ur husband?
tell the whole world that u married a sex freak?
that he has no human sympathy, and respect for ur body?
and dat above all, he is a drunk?

i shame for u.