It still baffles me why northern men hardly or almost never marry ladies who are more than 25 years old. Is a 25 yr old lady already getting too old for marriage or what exactly is the problem? Or are they afraid that such kind of ladies may have been sexually corrupted, had abortions, carrying STDs, too wise, untrainable or just want exactly is the issue?
Some times, u even come across Hausa or Fulani widows and divorcees who are so young, some even less than 25 ,and no fellow northern man is trying to propose marriage to them again. The question begging for answer is " who do these northern guys want to marry these ladies or are they leaving them so they can become part time prostitutes ?
These northern guys need to stop being selfish. They really have got to think of the future of their societies and the welfare of their female folks. I know many of these men would not be happy seeing their women folks, whom they refuse to marry dating other tribal groupings from other regions or worst still sleeping around with all manners of men far and wide

Every aboki with em own kettle

thats their way of life

Aboks:
Every aboki with em own kettle


thats their way of life

of course, but I really do think that they need to modify some aspects in accordance with the exigencies of the time we are in. We are no more in olden times when girls hardly school, these days girls school up to university level and would have been older than 25 when through. Also these ladies have feelings, so there is no way a widowed or divorced lady who is still young won't want sex or good food. So if care isn't taken by these men, I am sorry to say, very soon these women may soon be exploited by men from other tribes, religions and regions- right now what is preventing that happening is because of societal attitude and shyness/culture n religion

Southernigbo:
of course, but I really do think that they need to modify some aspects in accordance with the exigencies of the time we are in. We are no more in olden times when girls hardly school, these days girls school up to university level and would have been older than 25 when through. Also these ladies have feelings, so there is no way a widowed or divorced lady who is still young won't want sex or good food. So if care isn't taken by these men, I am sorry to say, very soon these women may soon be exploited by men from other tribes, religions and regions- right now what is preventing that happening is because of societal attitude and shyness/culture n religion

It is happening already

Aboks:


It is happening already

if that happens its gonna be very bad and awkward

Well north and south are far apart