Mynd_44:

You should be more bothered with getting another Job

swintec:

Yes, I know.  I am not comfortable with this at all.  I am constantly scanning for new opportunities.  In fact, when we started dating she was a student. When she got her first job, I was making more money than her. She change her job and was earning more than me. I also changed my job and started earning a little more than her again. Now she got a Federal govt job where she is now.  I am hoping to get on top again. I have undergone some training, I believe God, it will come to pass.

swintec:

[size=14pt]My wife earns N152,000 monthly, while I make barely N 65,000 a month. At my request my wife handed me her ATM card and kept her Cheque book. I do all the withdrawing from my own account and hers, for the up keep of the family. Iam financially prudent. She understands. She depends on me for everything she needs. She can withdraw with her cheque but rarely does so.

I was wandering, if there are other women out there that are as humble as my wife. If you are a lady, can you do this?
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swintec:

[size=14pt]My wife earns N152,000 monthly, while I make barely N 65,000 a month.  At my request my wife handed me her ATM card  and kept her Cheque book. I do all the withdrawing from my own account and hers, for the up keep of the family. Iam financially prudent. She understands. She depends on me for everything she needs. She can withdraw with her cheque but rarely does so.

I was wandering, if there are other women out there that are as humble as my wife.  If you are a lady, can you do this?
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Bro. can i love her?

tpia@:

you are indeed wandering @ poster.

what's the reason for this d.aft thread.

mission08:

@ Poster.
That your wife gave you her ATM card in itself does not mean she is humble. Rather, she trusts your financial decisions. To me her action is based on trust. There are humble wives whose husbands are not that good with finances, sometimes such husband entrust the wife with issues  concerning finances.

A wife who knows her husband will gamble, drink, womanize with her hard earned money and goes ahead to hand it over to him to lavish in the name of humility is only being foolish. There are different ways of handling issues and decisions depending on the peculiarities of each family/home, that a wife doesnt hand over her salary does not mean she is not humble.

mission08:

@ Poster.
That your wife gave you her ATM card in itself does not mean she is humble. Rather, she trusts your financial decisions. To me her action is based on trust. There are humble wives whose husbands are not that good with finances, sometimes such husband entrust the wife with issues  concerning finances.

A wife who knows her husband will gamble, drink, womanize with her hard earned money and goes ahead to hand it over to him to lavish in the name of humility is only being foolish. There are different ways of handling issues and decisions depending on the peculiarities of each family/home, that a wife doesnt hand over her salary does not mean she is not humble.