I used to be of the opinion that it should i won't let relatives come and live with us but i changed my mind. Maybe its cos of the kind of family i married into but they are just so welcoming. I love it. No one interferes in our marriage, they just come and stay and we have a lovely time.

My MIL is welcome to my house any day, she even has her own key. When i think of all the sacrifices that lady has gone through on my behalf, i don't mind at all. I believe its how you present yourself that people will take you. If you show urself as united and having a great time, no one will disturb u.

I want my house to be the one that kids (cousins, nieces, nephews) will want to go to for holidays. The only rule is that u inform us before coming and is somehow subject to space constraints.

Live and let live.