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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by baby124: 4:09am On Mar 13, 2022 |
OP, you are a senseless and frivolous guy. No sane wife will support her husband spending family funds to impress outsiders. These 1 or 2 family members you are trying to bring in, I hope it is you that will stay at home to take care of them. How she married an unreasonable and financially irresponsible struggling guy like you is a mystery. You have yet to find your feet but like to do Father Christmas and think you will ever be successful? The woman has not given birth and you want to load her with responsibility of kids of irresponsible parents. It’s like something is wrong with you mentally. Please listen to your wife so you don’t bring financial shame on your family. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by ceeceeuwa: 5:44am On Mar 13, 2022 |
ElonEmpire:You do not need your wife's consent before you embark on any charitable cause, most especially if it does not affect your family's finance. On the issue of bringing someone to live with you while you train the person in school, you can do that from a distance since your wife disprove with it. This life na sense person they take live am! |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by bepositive11: 6:13am On Mar 13, 2022 |
spydera: Marriage doesn't change people. It reveals who people really are because then, they've gotten what they want and they have nothing to lose |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kayperry: 6:44am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Czarina21: I am not disputing there are no such couples, remember different strokes for different folks, human are diverse in nature what works for me might not work for you, however the most important thing is to identify what works for you then .. just do it. i can tell my woman anything as well, and just like you xpressed xtra marital affairs that Almost happened, buh all the ones that happened nko ... @least we agreed on sumtin kindly note pleasure is a short term feeling while companionship brings long term bonding, its will get to a time in a marriage sex/pleasure no go shark una again, then existing love & companionship is what carries una cross the bridge. now that you agreed there is boundaries, i think crossing boundaries is inevitable. Lastly, i see money as representation of "Forbiden apple" in our present world, restricted access sounds shallow so therefore if i am worth 10 i show my woman i am worth 6, thats my contingency plan for uncertainty/surprises its nothing personal |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Keniwit(m): 6:51am On Mar 13, 2022 |
[quote author=ifex370 post=110967043]Listen to.your wife[/quote What's dat |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by gentlegenius(m): 9:19am On Mar 13, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:This one weak me o... But believe me, a time will come, maybe 3 or 4 years from now, when you'll be more matured, no longer a child at heart, and no longer see the need to play too much on social media. Then, you'll look back at some of your old threads on Nairaland, and wish you never create them. You'll try deleting some of them, but you just can't. It has happened to me. HAPPY SUNDAY TO YOU! |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by cardoctor(m): 9:49am On Mar 13, 2022 |
She probably has the same to say about you, if not worse. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by InsanePsycho(m): 10:10am On Mar 13, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Since she is also against giving to her own family then she is doing that to save your resources. You are a dreamer and she is obviously more realistic. Why do you want to help other people when you are not financially stable yourself. Save your money and invest in yourself and your wife. Start a business for yourself and her. Save money and buy land and own your own property. Invest and save towards your children's upkeep. Focus on yourself. I'm with your wife on this one. Sit her down and listen to her reasons. Be open minded 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 10:18am On Mar 13, 2022 |
kayperry: Like you said, 'different strokes for different folks'. As for the 6 out of 10, she knows you're worth more. He-he, you won't know it but it'll get to 9 out of 10 (based on things we do for love ) But your money is your money, though, I agree. As for the pleasuring, I'd prefer staying shacked even well into the 80s, can't imagine living with someone I can't flirt around the house with... It would be so boring. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by OCHKESTINE(m): 10:22am On Mar 13, 2022 |
My Dad had 18 people in our house before we were born. They were properly brought up and had good education courtesy of my dad. When it was our time for school, there no longer money. All these 18 guys have their families and majority are comfortable but guess what? They won't even pick ur call let alone offer to help with a fraction of our fees. I had to do menial jobs and write exams for people to pay my way and siblings through school. Dad is aged now and has stroke. Na only me still dey pay him bills. Listen to ur wife and begin to build your family. Sometimes, what people call philanthropy is stupidity. Give but remember to save for your kids, if u don't they will curse u when reality sets in and heaven won't blame them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Goldbw122(m): 10:53am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Do something for me pretend that you are poor I'd anyone will raise a finger to help you, and those that help you remember to pay them back if they will accept the money when you are on your feet, and do something for me ask your wife why the sudden change and that is what he told you that you don't have enough so listen to your wife, yeah because when you fall tomorrow no one will help you trust me they will always laugh at you that, you are not strong enough and you are helping others, that is when the problem starts.. so learn to do a little good and develop yourself very important I like that kind of wife, nice one.. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by CoolVoice(m): 11:23am On Mar 13, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Bro.. I know you're good at heart. But your wife and your own family should be your priority. And I'm sure that's what she's trying to tell you but you are taking it the other way. I'm a Man and I Believe so much in giving, infact I've giving so much in my life and even out of nothing. But people are not that worth it.. Your Family should be your priority... Do everything that makes her happy.. Let her know you can listen to her when it's needed... Instead of thinking she changed. As a man you must know your priority. This is Africa and Nigeria.. don't use your own hand to bring problem into your life and Family. My Two Kobo 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Nobody: 1:50pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
chronique:”Strangers”
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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by chronique(m): 2:02pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Bobmarie: Doesn't matter. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kayperry: 2:07pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Czarina21: A wise chinese man once said, all women are witches, so i'll give in to that probability You are only admitting cos i am not your BF, if i say your man's money is his money now,in all honesty would you have agreed Have you ever walk into your old folks kissing or romancing, that is most horrific and gross experience to share in life, sex @ 80yrs i feel like puking already, pls give ur life to christ |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by zexy2030(m): 2:24pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:This girl would have been thought to be an angel until I read her profile. You are to be dreaded.
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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:22pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
zexy2030: Yes o. Avoid me! |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 6:22pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
kayperry: Lol... He's puking. There's a reason why conjugation exists so even @ 90, I'll get it going. As for the money, if I had a boyfriend, he can keep his money but somehow people in love have this transparency in them. My becomes our before you can say jack. Also both sides want to please reach other with gifts and affection. Unless you're in a contract relationship like many couples today. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Czarina21(f): 6:26pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
kayperry: Lol... He's puking. There's a reason why conjugation exists so even @ 90, I'll get it going. As for the money, if I had a boyfriend, he can keep his money but somehow people in love have this transparency in them. My becomes our before you can say jack. Also both sides want to please reach other with gifts and affection. Unless you're in a contract relationship like many couples today. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by zexy2030(m): 9:10pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Demonic |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:50pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
zexy2030: Thank you. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by TheCongo2: 11:56pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
madridguy: Please elaborate |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by TheCongo2: 1:25am On Mar 14, 2022 |
airsaylongcome: Be careful with the people you intend to bring in your house. They may be wolves. Should be wise to help them from a distance |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by madridguy(m): 4:37am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by TheCongo2: 9:49pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
madridguy: Please translate |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Exceed15: 10:40am On Mar 16, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:. Only God can save this generation of couples killing each other because of marriage palava . Before it gets that point.. divorce is the best. |
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