It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

I'll prefer the submissive and bear 80% burden.

Why not strive for a woman with great IQ that's submissive? Yes, they are out there.

Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.

It takes a lady with Great IQ to be submissive.

Have you seen a feminist with an IQ above 2 before?

A partner with great IQ

Most nigerian girls are vampires, just that they feed on money instead of blood

Great IQ abeg, I dey already make plans with one, she dey give me peace of mind, she's all I honestly need right now

Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

Interesting!

Why is good character only attached to submisssiveness and low IQ levels in a spouse? Are you of the notion that women with higher IQ levels than yours can't exhibit this good character you speak of?

And I also wonder, what exactly you mean by good character..do you also come with the same or is that only for the low intelligence level women in your life to have?

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They say two heads are better than one when it comes to decision making, and life in general. High IQ or no IQ, it is never a good idea when only one head is making the decision as far as that which concerns the many.

Both

I will prefer both but unfortunately it is very hard to find all over the world

Why not have both? Surely they are not mutually exclusive qualities.

The one that gives peace and helps build a godly home.

I do not care about the rest, what's the purpose of a lady with a high IQ if the home is not peaceful? What's the purpose of a submissive lady if the home is not at peace.

I just want a partner that will bring peace to my home, help build a godly home and raise Godfearing children.


Other traits an additional advantage

It all depends on the man

Some men who are average in intelligence will feel very insecure to be with a lady that has high IQ

A guy with low IQ will feel insulted if he is corrected by his partner and the lady at some point will start getting irritated by the man's low IQ and even vice versa

Guys with high IQ will do better with ladies with high IQ so as to be able maximise her intellectual property

Marry both

Great IQ abeg

I prefer the two in one




Submissive tendency 35%



Great IQ 65%

Any spouse or partner wey do anyhow go see anyhow, no time for nonsense.

Na that IQ she go take colonize you

Truth is to make sure your IQ matched hers unless you have another way of making her loyal/submit

Women don’t respect men that are beneath them in any way…

A submissive wife might probably not b able to tag along n a smart partner will definitely not take some shits.


It's all up to u

High IQ and submissive

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If you die or have job loss/business failure. You and your kids are doomed with the first woman . Submissive women only offer sex most times

A partner with great IQ because dumb women are big turn off to me. A woman with great IQ, can also be submissive depending on the type of man she's married to.

Senomi:
Great IQ abeg, I dey already make plans with one, she dey give me peace of mind, she's all I honestly need right now

She is giving you peace of mind for now,may be.

Blunttruth:


Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.

Iq for me. oo.

Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

A girl with great IQ is always good for marriage.

Submissive girls are cool but she must be able to make her voice heard.

IQ is good but there is EQ too, emotional quotient, it is by far more important than intelligence, EQ is what helps a partner to decide they must make their marriage work. People going into relationships in Nigeria don't even have a clue what EQ is.

Both.

A lady with great IQ doesn’t need any nudging to know she should be submissive in marriage.