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Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Ammishaddai: 5:07pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
[s] HRprof:[/s] Another emotional idiòt |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Mbo07: 5:09pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
sonofthunder: I hurriedly deleted her pictures because I feared he would use it to blackmail her. He changed his password the moment he got hold of his phone and I got nothing. Absolutely nothing |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by showboy25(m): 5:11pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Yes, I love your comment. That is why God instructed us to marry a person that we share the same faith, if one marry The same faith as he's/ hers, there would not be a divorce. Many of us don't just know what marriage is, many people think marriage is just to marry a beautiful lady, handsome guy, wealthy spouse and so on. My people, marriage is a convenient between ourselves and that is connected to God. Uprightness100: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Mbo07: 5:12pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Uprightness100: The same God that gave a complete stranger, a prostitute access to touch his feet will help me my dear brother in Christ. 1 Like |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Wuppdex: 5:14pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Blacks and religion, no wonder we remained backward. SAD Mharvis: |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by HRprof: 5:15pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Ammishaddai:Brainwashed F00L 1 Like |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by sonofthunder: 5:21pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: I have no problem with you voicing your opinions from the mountain top........ But always remember its inferior people that usually find it hard to drop their superiority complex even when they are really at the bottom of the ladder..... Cherry on |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 5:22pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
sonofthunder:Simple..then you shouldn't have quoted me.. |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by sonofthunder: 5:25pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Mbo07: The most important thing you need to focus on right now is your healing/recovery. Try and overcome all of that bitterness and anger..... I can tell issues weren't handled properly by appropriate authorities but don't allow that to deter you. You are stronger than you know. 1 Like |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Mbo07: 5:26pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
djon78: Untill it happens to them.... Everyone else doesn't know God as well as they do |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by sonofthunder: 5:26pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by djon78(m): 7:21pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Mbo07: They don't even know God. God's basic law is Love. How many of them work in love, all they know is to condemn and quote out scriptures. I don't even take many of the things they even say. God is in our heart, and through that we know what God wants us to do per time. I have been in situations where I really want to get even with people that did me wrong, but a gentle tapping inside me will gently tell me, no don't. I don't need anyone to tell me it's God. Many of them don't know God. It's more of do s and don't s preached by men they know. They will claim righteous but absolutely no man on this Earth is righteous, irrespective of what they claim to be. Only God is righteous, no human being is righteous on there own 3 Likes |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by thunderbabs: 7:47pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Marriage issues between husbands and wives is a very thick issue that has no definitive answer or solution. Husband and wife who claim to be xtristians have different level of faith and these level of faith would also influence individual decisions when the issues of life strikes them both. Life has become more intense than the days of old. 1 Like |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Lari03r(m): 8:22pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Uprightness100:I want to ask you a totally unrelated question. If a person anointed as a pastor misleads a person, who bears the blame? Secondly, there's a trend in Pentecostal churches where they have marriage committees, is this scriptural? Third question, When an unwanted pregnancy comes into the world is the soul also regarded as unwanted by God? |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by 1forall: 8:33pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Mharvis: I've seen/heard this God-hates-divorce theory countless times . I want to ask, please, where did God say so? In the Bible or a prophecy? Or is it a religious saying that has repeatedly been projected onto God and which has found acceptability among Christians? I'm curious. |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by amuwo1980: 8:39pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Everything have its consequences and u can’t control all the variables, after the divorce what next ? The next marriage might be more difficult than the previous one so it is not a light decision, divorce is not something to be proud of , may God forgive us all our sins and grant us mercy . |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Uprightness100(m): 8:49pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Lari03r:Brother, The Decision of who to marry is in your hands. Irrespective of who gives u Direction, it's solely in your hands. Any true Pastor who tells you about a Partner, will also ask you to Pray about it for Confirmation. Secondly, there's a trend in Pentecostal churches where they have marriage committees, is this scriptural?Marriage Committe is a Department in the Church just like every other Department in the Church. They have their roles and Funxtion.
Sex outside Marriage is Fornication . It is Immorality and it is a Sin. Having Said that, the Product that comes from it is not responsible for the act, so he/she cannot be unwanted by GOD. |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Lari03r(m): 9:52pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Uprightness100: In response to your first answer, I will say the same Peter who confessed Jesus as the son of God cautioned Jesus, when Jesus said he was going to die. Jesus had to clear him by rebuking Satan and saying he does not know the work of God. The key is hearing from God about difficult situations because the world is deeper and the Bible says "Man shall not Live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God". Psalm 90 further states that "We live our lives like tales that are told... So teach us to number our days that we may apply our hearts to wisdom". The reason for quoting Psalm 90 is that every person has a story written by God. If you don't download the story for a particular person, and you apply a one size fits all solution, the consequences may be disastrous. As for the 2nd question I asked, marriage committees and church disciplinary committees are often Pharisaic- in nature. Obsessed with dogma but lacking in the spirit of God. Individual situations need individual solutions. No child is unwanted because men were meant to populate the earth. Man is higher than the animals and that is why he is called to abstain from fornication. Fornicating reduces man to an animal like state and subjects him to manipulations but when the law of procreation is engaged, a new soul comes into the world with a story to fulfill irrespective of his/her Genesis. I close my argument with Jeremiah 33:3; "Call unto me and I will show you great and mighty things which thou knowest not." This is the path of life. Asking the heavenly Father for revelation. Not all things are black & white. 1 Like |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by 2buffagain(m): 11:12pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Uprightness100: Not only is this inaccurate and wrong, it's also self-righteous drivel. Infidelity is also a reason to split. What is infidelity? It means unfaithfulness. Does the word unfaithfulness ONLY pertain to sexual infidelity? No. It simply includes it. The Bible also says he that refuses to provide for his household is WORSE than an infidel. We can interprete how we want, but this is why people are getting killed in their homes instead of seeking help and leaving toxicity. If a man is a fool who refuses to contribute financially to his family, but instead continues to happily eat and spend his wife's money anyhow, to the point of even convincing HER to go into debt so he can continue to feed and gallivant... a fool such as that has every right to be divorced. He already does not love or respect his wife. It is not until he has fvcked one small girl outside that he has been unfaithful. He is already unfaithful to her in spirit. Otherwise you would be arguing that an impotent man is incapable of being unfaithful. infidelity i.e unfaithfulness is a thing of the heart, not the penis. What I will say is that the natural first stage of the processing is a separation so that both parties have the space to make up their minds about what they want to do with their union. If there is no repentance even in separation, let everybody kuku go their way. |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by charlyblondy: 11:35pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: You are the biggest fool I know |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Talk2nanro(m): 12:26am On Mar 28, 2022 |
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Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Talk2nanro(m): 12:33am On Mar 28, 2022 |
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Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Talk2nanro(m): 1:47am On Mar 28, 2022 |
komekn:man you speak wisdom, for anyone seeking for real direction, this right here is true teaching, every other thing written here is junk contributions by ignoramus and vain people. |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by newmoney133: 11:55am On Mar 28, 2022 |
1forall:Malachi 2 vs 16 |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 12:08pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Breadandpeppers:Do you folks consider the meaning of the claims you make at all? |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Janosky: 12:45pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
komekn: Your quote is valid when a man/woman is not properly, legally divorced from a previous marriage. Like a football player who signed a contract with 2 different clubs. He has broken the law. Matthew 19:9 "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” New Living Translation And I tell you this, whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery—unless his wife has been unfaithful" Oga, do you see now that Jesus Christ says divorce and remarriage is lawful when a spouse is sexually immoral? |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Pacesetter123(m): 10:35pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
SwissMass:But the scripture he quoted says, "wife" not girlfriend or intending wife,but wife.Meaning they have already married. Where did u get ur own idea of "before marriage" from? |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 11:13pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
SwissMass:You are wrong! The Old Covenant Law of Moses was given by God to only those who have the blood of Jacob coursing through their veins - Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20. You as a Gentile have no business pretending you can or should live according to a standard God did not set for you. God only calls you to His New Covenant, Jesus Christ and in the Kingdom of God, the concept of virginity is meaningless, and divorce is allowed in the case of fornication- Matthew 19 vs 1 - 12 |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by SwissMass: 11:22pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Pacesetter123:Are you talking about Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. if yes, notice there is fornication there, which happens before marriage, that means a woman that have committed fornication (not a virgin) can be divorce but immediately after marriage nothing like divorce, you also see adultery there, that married people sleeping around. it is a simple verse |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 11:30pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
SwissMass:That is false! Fornication instead means sexual intercourse with a one who one is not married to. So when a married man engages in sexual intercourse with a woman that is not his wife, he is said to be guilty of fornication. And as Jesus Christ clearly explained to you in Matthew 19 vs 1 - 11, divorce is allowed for those married, in the New Covenant, in the case of fornication and fornication alone. |
Re: God Hates Divorce But What Do You Do When One Party Walks Out Of A Marriage? by SwissMass: 11:30pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:when is fornication? in marriage or before marriage |
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