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Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Rotji(m): 7:13pm On Apr 05, 2022
seyz91:
I've always said it

Wetin you no won chop no close am to nose to smell

Which kind play dog dey play with lion, no such thing as male bestie, i only see a shoulder to lie on is a dick to ride on eventually

Chai see parable shocked shocked grin grin

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Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Rotji(m): 7:16pm On Apr 05, 2022
Golden111:
U are neither feeling dirty nor remorseful, u simply lost interest in the man because he perform way below your expectations. he couldn't eat/screw you as you have anticipated for long.

You gerrit cheesy

She said they did it for just a short time grin grin laying credence to your postulation
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by seyz91(m): 7:17pm On Apr 05, 2022
cheesy
Rotji:


Chai see parable shocked shocked grin grin
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by emkz: 7:19pm On Apr 05, 2022
I have a female friend that I loved. We were very close to the point that we were vulnerable with each other.

When she was about getting married, I gave her a long distance.

I cared too much about her happiness and success in marriage than my friendship with her.

As for the lady in question, if her conscience can handle it, she can keep quiet and never try such again. But my little experience suggests that she'd do it again when the opportunity arises, provided she won't be caught.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by customstreet: 7:23pm On Apr 05, 2022
I will advice not to tell your husband this as it can destroy you and your home forever but be prayerful and ask for forgiveness from Almighty .
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by mt77: 7:26pm On Apr 05, 2022
Bestie with the opposite s3x ? I don't know why people think they're too strong to compromise. Anyway, tell your husband about your infidelity, it will help clear your conscience.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Henrygetpaid: 7:43pm On Apr 05, 2022
The nature of a woman..
Emotional witches....
Manipulators..
Till you are dead.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by PressyKcee: 7:44pm On Apr 05, 2022
Having self-discipline and self-control as simple as it seems is quintessential for the success of any relationship or marriage.

I dislike this saying that "A woman and man can never be friends" who even propounded this theory?

No relationship or marriage is perfect. There will always be fights and misunderstandings, but does that justify infidelity and unfaithfulness?

The next person appears perfect because you haven't dated them yet.

No matter the situation, we must learn to respect our relationships and marriages.

To start with, I don't think this is a mistake.

I see it as a preplanned act. You have already imagined it in your head, and you were just waiting for a reason to do it.

Having a male friend as a married woman or as a lady in a relationship isn't bad, but please respect your relationship and keep them at arm's length. Let them know you're in a relationship/marriage and give them boundaries. If they won't adhere to the boundaries willingly, it is your responsibility to force it.

You can talk to them, but avoid seeing them, even if you must see them, please do that in an open space, and make sure your partner is aware and the reason for such a meeting is worth it.

Don't make yourself available for temptation and then blame the devil when it happens.

My advice is, to let your husband know. I can't see how you can keep something so dirty for a lifetime else you have a dead conscience. Because I can't even stand my husband for a day after such a dirty act.

Confess with him and tell him how sorry you are. He may or may not forgive you. the decision is his, and if he decides not to forgive you, he shouldn't be seen as a bad person.

If you have the mind to, don't tell him and cut all ties with the said bestie, but I am still trying to phantom how you can keep that secret for the rest of your life.

Whichever choice you settle for, may God be with you.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by MadamOk(f): 7:51pm On Apr 05, 2022
Conscience nor judge you when you are cold with your husband
Conscience nor judge you when you start to talk sex talk with your best friend
Conscience nor judge you when you remove cloth
Conscience nor judge when you open leg

Haaaaaaaa madam undecided undecided
May God have mercy on you
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Golden111(m): 7:59pm On Apr 05, 2022
cheesy cheesy
Rotji:


You gerrit cheesy

She said they did it for just a short time grin grin laying credence to your postulation
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Enny2013(f): 9:18pm On Apr 05, 2022
Bfr dey crucify me,let me ask...

Wot of d ladies ur husband had slept wt?
Has he confessed n apologized? Dont he hv conscience too?
Side chicks everywhere.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by princewarri1985: 9:24pm On Apr 05, 2022
Rotji:


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Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Rapture4real(m): 9:36pm On Apr 05, 2022
I am sorry to say that you are a useless woman. If you must sleep with another man as a married woman, pack into that man's house. It will be a curse on you to use that body sleep with your husband. The only remedy is to confess to him and face the consequence.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by tightpussy156: 9:38pm On Apr 05, 2022
Stupid fool.OLOSHO sighted.you have no regard for your husband.if you Do quarell no go make you go Bleep for outside.useless tin.ASHAWO paraded as wife.they are always looking for slightest oportunity to misbehave.now your eyes don clear you don see say notin they outside. As a man once your wife is been caught fucking outside divorce straight no second chance because if you give am second chance she will do worse.she will look dirty.inside to you.public dog to you.All man food.no regards.As far you are done with her let her go.dont let annoyance make you commit suicide.who quote me for saying truth hug transformer.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by babajero(m): 9:39pm On Apr 05, 2022
skywalker240:

Omo you know them finish
The thing dey annoying.

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Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by jaszplus12(m): 9:40pm On Apr 05, 2022
So that saying is true... No matter how long you keep a chicken, you're eventually eat it!
Bestie!! I hear!!
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by babajero(m): 9:43pm On Apr 05, 2022
simpleseyi:


No mind the idiot, she thinks everybody is stupid like her useless parents that did not train her well. A prostitute will always be a prostitute. Woman wey don sleep with everybody for office, she come dey tell us stories.
some prostitutes just wants to look decent, that is why they come up with all these stories.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by babajero(m): 9:45pm On Apr 05, 2022
CaptainAyub:

Meihn niggarrrh grin
You is a very wise and experienced nigarrrh grin
That's ehn, the thing no funny o.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by babajero(m): 9:46pm On Apr 05, 2022
CaptainAyub:

Meihn niggarrrh grin
You is a very wise and experienced nigarrrh grin
That's ehn, the thing no funny o..
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:03pm On Apr 05, 2022
Don't mind them, expecially those one that pretend to be believer's. They re the worst.
Sometimes it better you marry a girl that is open and not a believer because they re more sincere.

Imagine a house wife, falling in love and having sex with his male friend.

My advice for unmarried guys is to pray well. That God should expose the hidden characters of the lady before marriage. And once you see it. Please ran ran ran.

Am giving you a real life experience

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Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by snipernigga(m): 10:08pm On Apr 05, 2022
Confess to your husband and don't forget to mention it was all his fault.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by yuping(m): 10:12pm On Apr 05, 2022
pseudonomer:


Whenever I tell whoever I’m dating at any point in time that you can’t have a male bestie, they call me paranoid, insecure and whatever. If you have a male bestie… stay clear off me, that’s the rule.
finesse.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 10:31pm On Apr 05, 2022
Rotji:


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na lie she has been fvcking the friend long before now and she wants to continue to fvk him but maybe the friend repented boom she pained come enter social media
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 10:35pm On Apr 05, 2022
qekng40:
cool Wahala


You're in a big big mess.

Forgive yourself, tell your husband and accept what may come.
who tell you, she has been fvcking the friend long time ago
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by EagleSquare1(m): 10:56pm On Apr 05, 2022
You’re absolutely correct! Spot-on! There’s no hiding place when you both meet again. The feeling is mutual


immortalmortal:
You obiously have feelings for him. You even talked about it before doing it, so it was premeditated. Its what you wanted, and the opportunity presented itself so you took it. Next time you guys meet you'll do it again.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by freddie009(m): 11:07pm On Apr 05, 2022
I have never fallen the term " he is my bestie". That dude is just waiting for the best time you are vulnerable so he can hit it.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by martinslaura: 11:38pm On Apr 05, 2022
But u yab sha. U no try. Instead of u to put more efforts to make it work with ur hubby. You rather keep the fight on and get closer to ur male friend. My dear deal with it but know that u hv used ur hand to destroy ur marriage.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Ifakiland(m): 11:57pm On Apr 05, 2022
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If I were the husband, it be better you take the secret to the grave, cos confessing it to me.....I'd probably make such a woman's demise look like an accident....lol too much oyinbo crime store....crime of passion is 3rd degree murder of less Dan 25years.
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by KINGS100(m): 12:07am On Apr 06, 2022
Whoever makes chicken his pet will eventually eat the chicken
Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by mhktaryan: 1:14am On Apr 06, 2022
babajero:
Na Wetin dey her mind since she do, Na so women dey do after dem use a man satisfy their sexual urge, them go come dey act like they force her do am, some go even hold you join body for bed still dey tell you stop I don't want to do it, Oya Na leave me na make I get up na, lai lai. She go don use that same strategy take sleep with more than ten men, still dey form I didn't want it.


Sense will not depart from you comrade

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