God hates divorce just as He hates lies, theft, fornication and the rest. But why do people feel that divorce is the unforgivable sin. It is the marriage that God joins together that should not be put asunder. Not what a man joins or a family joins. If it is God then it will work.

If my cheats I'm leaving her ass

The only unforgivable sin is blasphemy against the holy spirit.
Divorce is not unforgivable and most of our pastors have gotten it totally wrong.

They have succeeded in brainwashing the people into staying in abusive marriages.

Please let's not get it twisted here OK..

God hates divorce. But the bible did not say 'don't divorce'

So OP those your comparisons are not healthy