Marriage had never been a bed of roses.While marriage this days comes with comas.pls I need your contributions with reasons.A cheating husband or an abusive one who is worse? .

Non is irredeemable

An abusive husband.
Though Some women prefer abusive men.

Omo anyone no good normally.man no suppose dey do any of these things women deserve to be treated like Queens that they are even if their own dey their body too.

An abusive husband and obviously 99.98% of men are cheats so what are we now comparing

Bluezy13:
An abusive husband.
Though Some women prefer abusive men.

You are a man and as such you won’t understand the damage an abuse does to a woman

Op which one are you

Decentdave:
Marriage had never been a bed of roses.While marriage this days comes with comas.pls I need your contributions with reasons.A cheating husband or an abusive one who is worse? .

Armed robber and SARS who is worse?

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WTF MAN!

cheating husband is okay.

Men are also abused by their wives for your information.
A Cheating husband shouldn't be compared to an abusive husband, the former is Ten times better than the latter.
Men and Women shouldn't hesitate to japa from an abusive marriage/relationship.

NON pls

Cos the depression and pain that comes with both is crazy

But to be frank an Abusive relationship is never an option...Flee when you find yourself in it

Iyaebe:
You are a man and as such you won’t understand the damage an abuse does to a woman

Of course.

I was seeing a lady who was in an abusive relationship. Sometimes, she would come and meet me with red eyes, complaining of the beatings and scoldings she received like she was a kid.
Asked why she wouldn't leave, she said she did not know. She didn't even know why she remained. She was literally afraid of the man. She "loved" the man. She somehow loved the beatings. I let her be and would only assist her as far as she would let me.
She was financially stable.
Some women would even boldly say that try prefer men who beats them as a sign of authority over them...you know manliness.

Ask some women why they remain in an abusive relationship, they will not give you an "reasonable" reason. Some will even tell you that you will not understand, meanwhile there is nothing to understand in the first place.

Bluezy13:

Of course.

I was seeing a lady who was in an abusive relationship. Sometimes, she would come and meet me with red eyes, complaining of the beatings and scoldings she received like she was a kid.
Asked why she wouldn't leave, she said she did not know. She didn't even know why she remained. She was literally afraid of the man. She "loved" the man. She somehow loved the beatings. I let her be and would only assist her as far as she would let me.
She was financially stable.
Some women would even boldly say that try prefer men who beats them as a sign of authority over them...you know manliness.

Ask some women why they remain in an abusive relationship, they will not give you an "reasonable" reason. Some will even tell you that you will not understand, meanwhile there is nothing to understand in the first place.

She needs psychological help, it’s not normal to like been abused

Iyaebe:
She needs psychological help, it’s not normal to like been abused

I understand that it is not normal to be in an abusive relationship, but you should understand that what is normal to you maybe abnormal to another person.

Iyaebe:
A cheating husband and obviously 99.98% of men are cheats so what are we now comparing

i'm happy for you that your fatheris among the 0.002% of men. oya throw a party for we the cheats

None of the above.

Don't lower God's standard. Even if you are a child of perdition, reject evil. You can have a husband who's neither a cheater nor an abuser.

I choose goodness.

Iyaebe:
A cheating husband and obviously 99.98% of men are cheats so what are we now comparing

You see, to buttress my opinion; you agree that a cheating husband is worse that an abusive husband.
This means that if you were to choose, you will choose to remain in an abusive relationship than a relationship in which your partner cheats.

More like saying: "Beat the hell out of me but don't dare cheat on me."

Bluezy13:


You see, to buttress my opinion; you agree that a cheating husband is worse that an abusive husband.
This means that if you were to choose, you will choose to remain in an abusive relationship than a relationship in which your partner cheats.

More like saying: "Beat the hell out of me but don't dare cheat on me."

Typo error, I meant to type an abusive

Non abeg. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. If you like to be abused then abuse others and if you like to be cheated then cheat others as well

Iyaebe:
Typo error, I meant to type an abusive

Oh... alright.

Ask Mr Osinachi the killer Husband....

Better I cheat on my wife than abuse her!!!

Future wife are you with me



I know she wont agree with me on this......

Make I cheat she said No
Make I abuse she said No
Make I add second wife she say No.

Forget all the noise on social media women naturally love cheating and abusive men

Women always say what they want in reverse

For find out all the men women cheat with is one the ex that is abusive and cheating.