bashy_demy:

^^ hmm then if that is the case then at the age of 70 i'll marry a small wife that always take care of me what else? all of you are just saying what can never happen? do you think at the age of 70 she will still be sting and agile like me?

bashy_demy:

@armyofone there is nothing to be adjust

jennykadry:

How do you 'toast' these girls with this your upside down English? they definitely must be low level "tuwo" sellers

Your supposed wife must be a sahara desert brought up with no exposure or brain

slymm:

@Bashy, just listen to what you are spewing. WTF? Yes, i guess you must have married an illiterate or something. You bought a car in your name and took it from her, and in your home you are king? You should have stayed single. Most chauvinst and sexist men like you harbour a deep seated self esteem issue. You are with your kids passport? Abeg, abeg, e don do. As long as you got married in the church, you are bound by the matrimonial causes act, and the law will always prevail, its the court and not the church that will order you to pay alimony. You are going round and round in circles, maybe its time you call one of your smallies to satisfy your lust and forget about this topic.

tunnytox:

@ bashy-demy

Honestly, your post are truly getting very sexist pls stop now! You mean you'll take a car away from your wife if she 'messed up' what happened to the love you have for each other? I can never do that for my wife and I'll register the car I bought for her in her name, even if she used the car to transport her boyfriend it won't make me change my mind cos it's not the end if the world. Pls try and chill a little bit 'aye o le to be yen o' and I'll always treat my wife the way I want my daughters to be treated by their future husbands

tunnytox:

@ bashy-demy

Honestly, your post are truly getting very sexist pls stop now! You mean you'll take a car away from your wife if she 'messed up' what happened to the love you have for each other? I can never do that for my wife and I'll register the car I bought for her in her name, even if she used the car to transport her boyfriend it won't make me change my mind cos it's not the end if the world. Pls try and chill a little bit 'aye o le to be yen o' and I'll always treat my wife the way I want my daughters to be treated by their future husbands

dayokanu:

I disagree completely with this.

If I buy my wife a car and we separate, She drops the keys. Anything material I buy her she has to drop it when she decides to elope with her new lover.

The love we had has ceased to exist, What happened to the love when she ran away with another man.

Some people just say stuffs on here that make me SMH.

So if you buy a house in her name and she leaves you next yr, She take the house with her? The properties are for her benefit when she is my wife, the moment she isnt, those benefit cease

jennykadry:

How do you 'toast' these girls with this your upside down English? they definitely must be low level "tuwo" sellers

Your supposed wife must be a sahara desert brought up with no exposure or brain

armyofone:

in africa/nigeria you can mess up and still be king. where i am, you are a big time goner. you mess up, you leave the house!! yes, you are leaving our home in just your boxer if that's what you got on you know, i can drag you through all the courts of the land if need be, i have the means to fight if i want anyway, a man with head on his shoulder is what we pray for not some ragamuffins from isale gan gan wey dey make mouth for cyber and come jam real ogbologbo for real life mu he he.
laughing out so loud

armyofone:

in africa/nigeria you can mess up and still be king. where i am, you are a big time goner. you mess up, you leave the house!! yes, you are leaving our home in just your boxer if that's what you got on you know, i can drag you through all the courts of the land if need be, i have the means to fight if i want anyway, a man with head on his shoulder is what we pray for not some ragamuffins from isale gan gan wey dey make mouth for cyber and come jam real ogbologbo for real life mu he he.
laughing out so loud

bashy_demy:

@ronkebp and armyofone you are birds of the same feather,  you  are getting married in order to be able take all what the guy have is that not it? ok let me put it this way you got married to the guy because he is rich and can provide anything you need,  and maybe after few years of your marriage you try to set the guy up with one of your friend sister maybe in a club,office or anywhere and the girl wll be flirting all over the places in order to fulfill her paid job and since you know what you are doing and where you are driving at you will be going about all the places the guy is and trying to find one single excuse and that why you employ the girl service and with just a simple hug between the guy and the girl then that is the only proof you need and you chase him out of his house he work so hard for abi,  God punish some women and if i have the opportunity to come back to the world an gonna remain in Africa and no court marriage Shikena

tunnytox:

Well it depend on individual preferences I mean how much is the car worth that will make me to start pursuing my wife about just to proof a point? I'm not talking about a mansion here but even if it's a mansion I built for her it will depend on how rich I am. If I'm rich enough to avoid mansions why belittling myself by pursuin an unfaithful wife just to get the house back? You might as well strip your wife Unclad just to recoup all your spending on her however, I believe there are some issues through which I can proof how matured I am. I won't go about chasing an unfaithful wife to recover things that may not really worth it.

armyofone:

You are way too funny. no need for long word. just don't cheat on the woman you are with.

bashy_demy:

@Dayokanu thanks jare i always like reading from the likes of you and other reasonable African/Nigeriam men jare maybe if the properties are in my Father or mother name you will ask me to leave and my mother will not chase you our of her house,  i dey laff ooo your name will be memunat then

bashy_demy:

@ronkebp and armyofone you are birds of the same feather, you are getting married in order to be able take all what the guy have is that not it? ok let me put it this way you got married to the guy because he is rich and can provide anything you need, and maybe after few years of your marriage you try to set the guy up with one of your friend sister maybe in a club,office or anywhere and the girl wll be flirting all over the places in order to fulfill her paid job and since you know what you are doing and where you are driving at you will be going about all the places the guy is and trying to find one single excuse and that why you employ the girl service and with just a simple hug between the guy and the girl then that is the only proof you need and you chase him out of his house he work so hard for abi, God punish some women and if i have the opportunity to come back to the world an gonna remain in Africa and no court marriage Shikena

ronkebp:

Armyofone, wahlai we can roll together as friends, lol,  , i feel you too much,

dayokanu:

You heard "material", If her blouse is material to me I would take it.

With the average yearly income being like $60k a year, whats the cost of a car, Thing is a Good car is a material expense for 80% of the population unless its a Jalopee. A car is not something that goes missing and you would forget it.

So if your wife leaves you for her boyfriend, you would give away the car, even if you are still paying notes on it, you would keep paying it fdor her to cruise with her new BF.

Thank God for men like you

ronkebp:

Bashiru!!!!! or what will i call you,, Nope am not that kind of a woman, just so you know!!!and i am no fool too, i married my husband for 'Love', respect, a friend, someone i can share everything with, someone i can trust (to an extent), someone i feel can protect me and give 80% of what i need, and be strong for me in everyway, and even as i expect all these and more from him, i bet he expects such from me too, and am willing to give (that is our understanding). Now!!!!! if yahwah kon gas, (God forbid) and he wants to Lord over me, my kids, home and property, ?? Hmmmmm, because of some unnecessary misunderstanding, Trust me, Bash, it will NOT GO DOWN WELL, whether the guy is a freaking! Niger Man!!! we will tell, when the time comes, am just saying do not take any woman for a fool, just because you are a typical Niger, man, shishhhhh!!!!

armyofone:

dayo, you've said that before in some or many threads how you will dribble any lady. anyway, mine is i wouldn't cheat, if you cheat, you are a goner and if you want to fight it, bring it on, don't forget you are dealing with a mad/scorned black woman too

also don't get the thread twisted we are talking abt cheating men eh

bashy_demy:

Ronke you just dey make me laugh hahaha well that your way and i hope you find that mumu man to marry but may i put this to you, Why is it that when small yawa gas why is it that the first thing you woman go for is the home either you have kids or not you try to take the house and take the man to court in order to share all his properties with him why if not that what you are after. why can't you just pick your things ang go away to where ever you want, definitely you just proof me right about your getting married to your hubby cos of his money and material things and after few years you set him up in other to claim his properties and in other word you can kill the man to take all if properties why not go work hard yourself and try to make the guy regret instead of claiming his properties that you dont know when he is trying to put them together, sometimes i think marriage is a mistake God punish MARRIAGE self wetin

ronkebp:

Bashiru!!!!! or what will i call you,, Nope am not that kind of a woman, just so you know!!!and i am no fool too, i married my husband for 'Love', respect, a friend, someone i can share everything with, someone i can trust (to an extent), someone i feel can protect me and give 80% of what i need, and be strong for me in everyway, and even as i expect all these and more from him, i bet he expects such from me too, and am willing to give (that is our understanding). Now!!!!! if yahwah kon gas, (God forbid) and he wants to Lord over me, my kids, home and property, ?? Hmmmmm, because of some unnecessary misunderstanding, Trust me, Bash, it will NOT GO DOWN WELL, whether the guy is a freaking! Niger Man!!! we will tell, when the time comes, am just saying do not take any woman for a fool, just because you are a typical Niger, man, shishhhhh!!!!

don't get the thread twisted we are talking abt cheating men eh