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How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Kingsley123456(m): 6:21am On May 03, 2022 |
I will be brief... I dated a lady in 2009, despite that she knows I wasn't ready to father a child, she got pregnant and hid it for about 5-6months before she came to my patents through my elder sister....now I hardly sleep, Well, I started dating another girl (23yr old) early last yr, obviously we started as a sex mate thinking the relationship was heading nowhere so I thought there was no point of being straightforward about having a child before meeting her.... Now I've seen other qualities that I like in her, we love each other and the relationship has taken another face, I don't want to lose her Care and love. I ought to have told her before, now I'm scared, I know she will be heartbroken, I don't know what she could do when I finally tell her, but what I know is that, she will leave me once she found out elsewhere.... We spoke last night and I asked her what can make her break up with me, her reply was, if her mother should reject me or if she herself should find out any of my secrets from another person...how do I tell her Honestly I'm afraid of loosing her...I'm 31yrs old, she's serving rn. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Tony4988(m): 6:24am On May 03, 2022 |
With her reply to the question you asked, that should already be a hint that she wants you to be more open and tell her all she needs to know. You can't run away from the nemesis of your actions forever. Thus, you need to man up and tell her all she needs to hear. If it comes, let it come If it goes, let it go Honestly is not just a virtue, but also an expectancy from any responsible man. Kindly check my signature for your writing services 82 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Skyfornia(m): 6:25am On May 03, 2022 |
Stop running around the bush... obviously you need to tell her. If you can't summon the courage, send her the link to this post. 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by ShobayoEmma(m): 6:28am On May 03, 2022 |
who is already down fears no fall. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by robinso01(m): 6:28am On May 03, 2022 |
Just tell her the truth, stop hiding Ur child from her. She'll wait if she loves you, and if not, then move on with ur life. She might also have a secret also 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Anaerobi(m): 6:29am On May 03, 2022 |
Tell her jor. Maybe she will tell you her own secret too. That gender have millions of secrets. 159 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by fikayormi(m): 6:32am On May 03, 2022 |
Anaerobi: Follow this advice kid and if you wish continue like that , Who bloody cares? 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by KingsleyCEO: 6:59am On May 03, 2022 |
Tell her immediately, and explain the whole situation to her and get ready to play this card on her own terms because most women don't want to have anything to do with another woman's child. Best of luck bro. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by jogsman01(m): 7:00am On May 03, 2022 |
Tell her nau. Every die na die. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Jeon(f): 7:02am On May 03, 2022 |
NO ROOM FOR AFTER ONE DAD[VICE VERSA ] 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by dawnomike(m): 7:03am On May 03, 2022 |
Kingsley123456:It is better she hears it from you... You can not change what happened in the past. The earlier you tell her now, the better for you guys 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Mikirolex: 7:07am On May 03, 2022 |
The child outside is your first fruit, your blood, your pride and as such, you can't hide him or her. Tell her openly that you never knew you would fall in love considering what you have been through in relationship.Hence, you never told her initially,but now you really want to settle down with her, therefore,the issue must be cleared. Please if possible bring your child inside your house before the marriage, otherwise,she will become a stranger in her father's house. Thank you for sharing 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Islandlady(f): 7:07am On May 03, 2022 |
Go ahead and tell her now it is an honorable thing to do...than she finding out her, it will be more complex If she is not okay then let her go, don't hide or be ashamed of your child because of anything, Be proud to be that childs father, it's your responsibility and cross, shebi na you Sabi f**k without condom , I am sure your own father did not hide you Man up and tell her, Goodluck 9 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by liftedud(m): 7:11am On May 03, 2022 |
Oga stop behaving like a primary school boy What else do you want Its a child you have not a wife abi you are thinking of marrying ur baby mama, Abeg tell her you have a child and how it happened, her reaction is the remaining quality you ought to watch if its a wife material quality or not Use 100 condom Una no gree, after Una go dey find free advice 15 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by HopeNeverDies: 7:49am On May 03, 2022 |
Damnnnnnnn!!!! |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by oneolajire(m): 7:57am On May 03, 2022 |
Put the pic of the girl in your house, or make her pic your do. She must ask you questions. Stop fornicating, go and marry. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by virginchaser(m): 7:58am On May 03, 2022 |
It's better to tell her and see her reaction. Please feel free to share it with her. Forget what you read on line. There are still many good ladies around. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Purpletee(f): 8:24am On May 03, 2022 |
Be honest with her,she's not going to be happy,yes. She might even resent you for a while,and want to distance herself from you,it's understandable, how would you feel if the tables were turned,I'm sure you'd break up with her immediately. You're a single father,so what?,I always tell whosoever that's interested in me that I'm a single mum,if you're cool with that,fine, if you're not,I'm sure you'd find someone else,circumstances has forced you to have a child out of wedlock,you shouldn't hide your kid or feel embarrassed about it a bit,that doesn't change who you are or your love for her,and if she doesn't see past all that and love you for who you really are,with all the "baggages" then she's not worth your love,good luck dear Op. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Kingsley123456(m): 8:26am On May 03, 2022 |
Thank you all Nairalanders, I heart you BIG |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by siofra(f): 8:48am On May 03, 2022 |
Own up to your responsibilities and stop running away. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Truvelisback(m): 9:36am On May 03, 2022 |
Kingsley123456:Tell her. The earlier the better. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by slawormiir: 9:54am On May 03, 2022 |
Damnnn niggar Isoright... Stop being a pussy ass niggar Tell her Most women will even be happy about it Because the child is a female...which means in the future she will also go and marry and not stress her.... This looks like my type of huzzling in keyboarding.... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by loadedvibes: 9:54am On May 03, 2022 |
E no hard.. post am for your Instagram page with the baby and the baby mama |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by BigDawsNet: 9:54am On May 03, 2022 |
Just tell her You can't control her response and decisions afterwards... Just hope for the best... |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Baawaa(m): 9:55am On May 03, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Nobody: 9:55am On May 03, 2022 |
send me her phone number let me tell her for you 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by blinking001(m): 9:55am On May 03, 2022 |
I don't understand you Op, like are you scared of telling your woman that you have a child elsewhere from another woman becuase you dont want to lose her? you're only 31 years old for crying out loud. There is nothing scarcity mindset cannot do. Taking the redpill is a must for all men. No single strand of masculinity is still left inside of you. Shame on you. Wonders shall never end. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Gatchoo(m): 9:55am On May 03, 2022 |
This one choke for oesophagus ooo |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by Lexusgs430: 9:55am On May 03, 2022 |
Kingsley123456: Just tell her ........ Best she knows now, than later in the future........... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her I Have A Daughter Elsewhere! by GooodHardDick: 9:56am On May 03, 2022 |
Tell her and she'll also tell you her own secrets! E sure me die say that girl has thousands of secrets she would want to share with you too. But she's afraid and doesn't know where to start from. Telling her would also make her to open up and also tell you her own secrets! 2 Likes |
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