Any man that spends money in training a woman who is not his wife in school is big fool.

When you see some people suffering, before you pity them, look well well, you'll see that many are the architect of their own suffering. They are the engineer-in-chief of their misery. If her bf stop sponsoring her in school and her family descend into poverty, she will of course blame someone else not herself, meanwhile she caused it. This reminds me of what God told Cain about why he is suffering, in the biblical story of Cain and Abel.

Then the LORD said to Cain, "Why are you angry at the world? If you do what is right, will things not be better for you? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must master it Genesis 4:6-7

Cain suffered because he lived his life in a irresponsible way, he gave God sacrifices that was meant for the dustbin meanwhile Abel his brother gave God the best, and blessings was all over him. I see it alot with people when they suffer. Usually I don't just pity you because you're a victim, I usually reserve my pity for genuine victims not the idiot that put himself there and wants pity.

You dont bite finger that feeds you. I'm a proponent of breaking the teeth that bites you. So if you feed someone (like this guy is sponsoring his babe) and he/she bites you, then jejely withdraw the spoon loaded with rice and fish, then donate a punch to the face. Never put value in a place where it is not appreciated. It's a natural law, and a biblical teaching, check out.

Do not give that which is holy to dogs, and do not throw your valuables before pigs, for they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. Mathew 7.6

Fools normally don't appreciate good things, they will probably think they are doing you a favour for allowing you to help them, and you must never tolerate that. Collect everything damn thing and send them back to the hole you brought them out from. Then, they will now appreciate it when it's gone but it will be too late. Making them to learn the hard way is better than not making them learn at all.

kristonium:
She has just lost a good man.

Howbeit a saint!

This will haunt her for the rest of her life!

I can bet you for free, that man will never return!

She don lose guard