Laidejelly:

Seriously pple,this is no joke.there is this cousin of mine.initially,we werent so close.we only meet during family functions and probably festive periods.for about a year now, we have bin growing so close.we go to places together and we do things together.we find it so easy to confide in eachother.we even sleep in d same room(not dt anytin happens, gisting leads to it most times), the thing is,i am falling in love with him.crazy love.i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.his girlfriend neva believed we were cousins until lastweek at my dads' birthday party which she also attended and that is because he spends more time wit me than he does with his gf.he is just al i want in a guy.he luks out for me nd he dosent joke wt matters concerning me.i know this sounds crazy buh am really going gaga.each time i try to fight the feelings.he does things to spring it all up again.i really need to fight this.its so embarrasing and i dont want to lose the kinda closeness we share.i could really use a good advice ryt now.[color=#000099][/color]

pendo89:

jeez!
I am not going to condemn you because we are flesh and most often we fall short of expected standards.

Start dis entangling yourself from your cousin both emotionally and physically.

This will only be possible if you put a stop to all these meetings and sleeping together in the same room.

Turn your attention to your boyfriend and spend more time talking to him than your cuz.

I like calling that a displacement.Get him off your mind and replace him with your boyfriend.

Avoid him like plague until you are sure hes more cuz than lover. You cant avoid family gatherings but don't seclude yourselves at all when they happen.

Prevention is better than cure so don't light a fire you will not be able to put off!!

You have been warned.

Laidejelly:

Thanks pple, i knew this whole thing was crazy, i just needed sometin to let all des craze out of me and you guyz did dt, will work on it fast.

nkem123: morally,biblically wrong.flee from those thoughts,not easy but try cos it happened to me.or try sorting that out with him in private and let him understand what you are going through and how to avoid such.