Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,158,958 members, 7,838,414 topics. Date: Thursday, 23 May 2024 at 09:33 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / thank you every one......... (4196 Views)
It's Our Wedding Anniversary! Help Us Thank Jehovah. / thank you / Family! Thank You For Helping Me Pay My School Fees (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: thank you every one......... by Genius100: 7:35pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
Sicherheit: Guy, are you married? |
Re: thank you every one......... by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
Sicherheit: Lol . . . that would have been useful if my man was a NLDer . . . Children of now-a-days. SMH!! @ Genuis He's obviously not! |
Re: thank you every one......... by coogar: 7:39pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
Genius100: does he sound like a married man to you? anyone advising a woman to move out of her matrimonial house with a baby in the marriage can't possibly know the true value of the marriage institution. he probably feels marriage works the same way as boyfriend/girlfriend tiffs where either of the party can move out and move in as he/she pleases. |
Re: thank you every one......... by Sicherheit(m): 7:42pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
When I hear stories about what some men do to women, I used to wonder how they can get away with it but since I started visiting Nairaland, I understand very well how it is possible. Some women's mentality are so warped, even men who wouldn't normally take advantage will find themselves doing it. The woman gives a long list of what she has endured before, during and after pregnancy with her husband (he does not deny it) and then she said she slapped him once and all these other so called women can fixate on is that she slapped him. See warped minds, O ga o! |
Re: thank you every one......... by tpia5: 7:48pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
i think there was a similar thread ages ago where a couple [dont know if they were married] were listing all kinds of things here. somebody later accused both of being the same person but i dont know if that was the case. pretty long thread- too bad the names involved dont come to mind. |
Re: thank you every one......... by dayokanu(m): 7:50pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
^^ What can the wife do to make her deserve a slap from the husband. Like she dished out to him? |
Re: thank you every one......... by kandiikane(m): 7:51pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
I have a feeling too its the same person. .Lol, there are mad people around who like talking to themselves. . |
Re: thank you every one......... by tpia5: 7:52pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
^^i'm not saying this couple is the same person o, lol. just remembering that other contentious thread. it was terribly rowdy with accusations and counter accusations being thrown left, right and center. nlers of course added their own drama. |
Re: thank you every one......... by JeSoul(f): 7:52pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
2mch:x10001000 May God bless you for this post. Letty45, I'm glad you've taken off your posts (though ppl quoted you and some are still there). I hope this event serves as some kind of kick to both of you to get your heads back together at least for the sake of your child. 2mch has said it all. I hope you both heed these words carefully. |
Re: thank you every one......... by kandiikane(m): 7:54pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
tpia@:Oh, well I just had a feeling |
Re: thank you every one......... by ronkebp(f): 7:57pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
All i can add, is that, the wife looks to me as a little bit controlling, and that is driving the man mad, she wants to know everything, even to the bills that do not concern her, she should let her hubby be the man in the house and stop nagging, haba!!!!, you want love, you too show love and be a good wife, for you to have a good husband and turn his heart especially now that he says he still loves you, you have to kill him with kindness, |
Re: thank you every one......... by Sicherheit(m): 7:58pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
Genius100:Bros, I'm sure I all my response was condoning the man's behavior you won't ask me that question. coogar:First of all, where is the matrimonial home? It can't be the one where the husband comes and goes as he pleases, chats with other women in front of her, begs other women to send him naked picture? Matrimonial home where she has to beg him to stay home at night in case she goes into labor? My sister this matrimonial home you are talking about, is it different from the one where she left all alone with the baby while her husband goes out to drink with his friends, the home with the husband who brings nothing to the table but takes? Is that the Matrimonial home you speak of? Then my dear, you have big issues and it is a waste of time discussing with you. Since we are all praying for each other, my prayer is that all the women who are urging this woman to stay preserve this wonderful matrimonial home be gifted with the same kind in ten folds. Do I hear an Amen? |
Re: thank you every one......... by dayokanu(m): 8:03pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ^^ What can the wife do to make her deserve a slap from the husband. Like she dished out to him? Can you pls list one? |
Re: thank you every one......... by coogar: 8:10pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
Sicherheit: it seems you are just reading what you want to read. the husband comes n goes as he pleases because the woman in question has made the house a hell-hole for him. who wants to return back home and face slaps, verbal abuses and curses? do you? did you not see where the man said he had been locked out at nights and stuffs or is this a case of myopia on your part?
you are putting the cart before the horse. a lot had happened before the husband started misbehaving. the wife is the abuser here. go and read the husband's defense before making judgements on your one-eyed analysis. it was the woman that started the abuses, locked him out, screamed, wailed to the neighbours and airing her dirty linen. i wouldn't stay at home with such wife as well. you also forgot where she said when the dude was woking, the wife never spent her wages. . . . .trouble started when the husband lost his job and women being what they are started feeling the pinch and getting aggressive.
when your sister gets into such situation, move her out into your house and marry her. the funniest ish here is many of the women here would have managed the situation properly before it escalated to this crisis. it's all about understanding and maturity. what do you expect a man to do if a woman slaps him on the face? we should commend this man he has not retaliated. most men who take alcohol would have beaten her into a pulp with any slight provocation. i am not in support of the husband but the wife has majority of the faults. . . . . . |
Re: thank you every one......... by OAM4J: 8:38pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
Oga. I wish you two well o. Just one thing for the husband: Be the man! |
Re: thank you every one......... by Outstrip(f): 10:36pm On Jul 22, 2011 |
When the abuse started from either side they should have nipped it in the bud then. One thing I know is that usually when someone stays in an abusive relationship for a long time they too become abusive. I remember feeling the same way about a friend of a cousin but my cousins husband told me that the woman has gone through hell with the man. In my mind I am thinking if the only way you can be married to this man is by being so verbally abusive and even sometimes physical then there are issues there. It seems the man changed and she could not get over the bitterness of his earlier abuse. I am glad that a lot of single people come on here to read this stuff. |
Re: thank you every one......... by Nobody: 8:52am On Jul 23, 2011 |
@Coogar What the hell are you talking about? you my friend are accusing sicherheit of reading what he wants to read and you are as guilty as hell as well. When the man came on here and gave us a list of the curses she baptized him with even I thought it was wrong, but this lady has come back here to explain that she did not put the words out like he did and actually told us what she said and how she said it which by the way makes the man a liar. That armed robber issue to me is nothing and I definitely understand where she is coming from. Some mothers have had to caution their sons on their down-low saggy jeans before the police pick them up in the streets and lock them up like ageberos or hardened criminals, does it mean they are wishing their kids evil? nope Honestly you are the one choosing to read what you wanna read. If this man was not busy chatting ladies up with his wife beside him , asking for unclad pics, coming home late and not sleeping at home at all, THIS PROBLEM WOULD NOT HAVE GOTTEN TO THIS DAMMIT I am a fellow woman and I know what its like when my husband travels for a week and how lonely I get with him not around and can imagine, alot of us get so much attention from our hubbys and even complain that it is toomuch. I am looking at this case and imagining that it's happening to me (God forbid). My own husband the man that promised to love and cherish me, busy chatting another gurl up on the fone right in my very before, given me STD, comes back home late, does not give an F about his child, sleeps out, found heaps of messages sent to other gurls on his phone and you expect her to be happy? have we forgotten that this gurl is human with blood flowing through her veins? |
Re: thank you every one......... by Nobody: 9:18am On Jul 23, 2011 |
OP and hubby enjoy this music tonight. Make una give unaselves everything tonight yea thanku me laterz, I have always been known for my good heart [flash=500,400] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPo5wWmKEaI?version=3''[/flash] Cheii I remember when you sang this song to this gurl before you married her. [flash=500,400] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkChu2T3Q6c?version=3''[/flash] |
Re: thank you every one......... by Nobody: 11:40am On Jul 23, 2011 |
// |
Re: thank you every one......... by kandiikane(m): 2:28pm On Jul 23, 2011 |
Ofcourse, there are great marriages but also with their ups and down. .It ain't always sweet and rosy- goshh, what is that saying again? *walks away thinking* |
Is This Baby Shower Or Madness / Help! She Found Out On Their Wedding Night That His Manhood Is Very Small / Perfumes, make up and more
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 59 |