Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

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Men without wives or girlfriends get rest of mind

Run

Keep body collect na, if you like go back to that frustrated thing na your obituary. Guy your wife de expect enjoyment for marriage she no sabi say na double hussle

Redomi:
Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

satan packaged your problem into a woman and you married her. Congratulations brah. Go for prayers and deliverance.

I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son"

LMAO


You don jam wetin pass you bro. May God help you.

You need to leave the house for her before she harm or kill you. You caused it all when you started borrowing from her. Most women lose respect for their men when they provide or support financially.

My Advice; first, report her to her family. Then find a place to stay ATM and then concentrate more on your business and finances. Approach microfinance banks for loan to boost your biz.

If you ignore her and increase in biz n finances, she will come begging someday. If you have a child with her, make sure to support her financially because of your child.

It is well with you

This one is having conditional love with you. From what you wrote I don't think you love her blindly too,which is good.Money can not buy love,and she will never love you the way it should be even if you have tonnes of it.

Well, you know what to do, the day is still young

Report her to the authorities, make her sign an undertaking over the death threats.
Don't handle it with kid's gloves

Inform both sides of your families, likewise report the threat at the police station so that she gets to sign an undertaking and leave that marriage as I have worked in a female prison facility where I had sessions with some women who killed their intimate partners and a pattern was common....in their altercations with their deceased partners they had at least once or twice threatened to kill them.

Same goes for women, if a man you are in a relationship with ever threatens to kill you, leave and report to your family and his, then the police.

"I WILL kILL YOU", is never a slip of the tongue!

Mindlog:
Inform both sides of your families, likewise report the threat at the police station so that she gets to sign an undertaking and leave that marriage as I have worked in a female prison facility where I had sessions with some women who killed their intimate partners and a pattern was common....in their altercations with their deceased partners they had at least once or twice threatened to kill them.

Same goes for women, if a man you are in a relationship with ever threatens to kill you, leave and report to your family and his, then the police.

"I WILL kILL YOU", is never a slip of the tongue!

Thank you so much sir

MEGA4BILLION:
Report her to the authorities, make her sign an undertaking over the death threats.
Don't handle it with kid's gloves

ok sir, I'll see what I can do

@Op, I believe you are already out of that house? It is better for you to sleep and wake up from a mosque or church than for you to be under the same roof with the daughter of Jezebel.

Don't go about reporting to anybody, just disappear. You will get a good woman.
#Run

Divorce her when you're still alive ,place her where she belong ,there are better women out there ,don't let any one tie you down


Set her free you will have thousands of women at your disposal from wich you can choose from.

Just don't know why a man will carry his money to buy a woman and bring her to his house to be feeding her,clothing, paying rent for her and ensuring her emotional stability,all for what ? What exertly are you gaining in marriage that you can't get outside marriage.

What is the issue with men.

How can human being be so irrational.

All that you think a woman can offer you in marriage,you can actually get it for free outside marriage

No Take this thing lightly ooo. Women, fear them ooo. They can do the undo ooo

Daughter of Jez

You don buy job

jackslow:
Divorce her when you're still alive ,place her where she belong ,there are better women out there ,don't let any one tie you down


Set her free you will have thousands of women at your disposal from wich you can choose from.

just don't know why a man will carry his money to buy a woman and bring her to his house to be feeding her,clothing, paying rent for her and ensuring her emotional stability,all for what ? What exertly are you gaining in marriage that you can't get outside marriage.

What is the issue with men.

How can human being be so irrational.

All that you think a woman can offer you in marriage,you can actually get it for free outside marriage

Did your father "buy" your mother?

Proudly a baby daddy with 3 kids.Na Una wan dey marry.

Mindlog:


Did your father "buy" your mother?

Anything you paid for with money before having it is bought. So shut up and stop being sentimental here.

Nawa o.

Mindlog:


Did your father "buy" your mother?

i don't know what's really making you angry ,you can continue leaving in denial ,what ever you call it buying and selling selling has taken place ,i know i can't change your mind set about it ,likewise you cant change mine

Barbiturate:
You need to leave the house for her before she harm or kill you. You caused it all when you started borrowing from her. Most women lose respect for their men when they provide or support financially.

My Advice; first, report her to her family. Then find a place to stay ATM and then concentrate more on your business and finances. Approach microfinance banks for loan to boost your biz.

If you ignore her and increase in biz n finances, she will come begging someday. If you have a child with her, make sure to support her financially because of your child.

It is well with you

I cannot accept a woman that promised to kill me.


I cannot accept back a woman that has the guts to size my phone.


I cannot accept back a woman that curses me.

I cannot accept a woman that disrespect me.

There's no for better for worst in my dictionary.


It's not only death can put us apart.





He should leave that daughter of the devil for good.




95% of woman are evil.

Redomi:
Good morning nairalanders, I have known this girl from my secondary school days, she was my junior though are not dating then, even we don't do normal talking.
5 years ago we meet again, and we started talking, them issue of relationship came in, we started dating before finalizing the marriage rite last year, shortly after we had our first baby.
I have been doing everything to pleased this girl including going to market to buy foodstuffs, gave her little money to start a provision shop, though she has some money she saved during her NYSC days,she added everything together and open the shop.
To cut the story short, I have a betting shop and I'm also into poultry business, there was Newcastle outbreak in my farm, I lost all my chicken, so I used to borrow money from her sometimes and I paid back on Monday when I get my weekly commission as a betting agent.
I noticed she has been bossy over me since I'm broke, there was a day she sized my phone last week cos I couldn't pay the 25k I owe her, I paid her 16k out of it, I later have to tell her to take the half bag if rice we just bought the previous day so that she can sell and gu e me my phone, after few hours she later gave me the phone.
Fast forward to what happen, I finished eating almost 11pm yesterday, and I'm feeling dizzy and I told her to stand up and let me sleep in the chair, she shouted on me on top of her voice, I got angry and ask if she is alright, them I challenge her that I have been noticing she had wlbeen bossy, she is now the husband and I'm the wife, mind you, she has never help me with laundry since last year August, I have been washing all my clothes myself, including cooking, I do most of the cooking , etc
The issue got into a heat argument yesterday night, she started saying things that wasn't pleasing to hearing, she said "the debt I'm in is what will kill me" "I'm an unfortunate being" "all men are useless except his son" "that I will never be successful" etc

But she said something that made me stand up and beeged the neighbors to allow me sleep with them, she said "She will still stab me to death" or "she will poison me to death"

Better find money go find another house..

Don't take it for granted

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Justbehave:
Anything you paid for with money before having it is bought. So shut up and stop being sentimental here.

Nothing sentimental here, just answer the question,did your father buy your mother?

JovialJune:



Nothing sentimental here, just answer the question,did your father buy your mother?

Yes. As long as your parents continue to collect money from your would be husband in the name of bride price before letting you belong to him. You are bought. Finish. If you like keep pretending.

Justbehave:
Yes. As long as your parents continue to collect money from your would be husband in the name of bride price before letting you belong to him. You are bought. Finish. If you like keep pretending.

Meaning your mother was bought, her parents collected money from her would be husband your father in the name of bride price, meaning you are a product of a sold commodity

Good for you.