The family of my wife as conclude to bring her 2 sibling (which their mother die a wrek ago).

Their mother took my wife when her mother dies years back, a sister of my mother wife.

I hv said i don't have the capability of taken anybody on me or taking careof at the final burial meet but explain they will sponsor them all they need is for to just monitor them.

Just married 2yrs ago, with 9mnt kid

Please anyone with such experience b4
Should i or not.
If i shouldn't how can i send them back stylishly without been see as ingreat

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Do you men that your inlaws wants to bring your wife siblings to stay with you against your will?

if yes, don't agree to such arrangement cos it will end in premium tears.

Okay, I'll try to state everything you typed up there in clear terms so that other commenters can understand and proffer their advice.

The OP & wifey has been married for 2yrs now, they have a 9months old child. His inlaws want him & wifey to take care of his wife's cousins who lost their mum(his wife's aunty) a week ago. Their mother is a sister to his wife's mother and she took care of his wife when she lost her mother many years ago.

He has informed wifey's family members that he won't be able to fend for them due to lack of finances but they told him not to worry about that cos they're willing to sponsor the children but then they want the children to be under their watch & guidance. The OP seeks advice, opinions & suggestions on how best to go about this.