Ginaz:
you will have to draw closer to God bro. ask him to give you a new personality to overturn your life around to change for good.

then stop those habits that lure you into masturbating, close off your betting account and start afresh in life.

You are wise, I like you. But you are not 100% correct though. Stopping masturbation is not by "drawing closer to God" if you know how many pastors, choristers, youth preachers, deacons and deaconesses are under the bondage of pornography and masturbation, you'll be alarmed. You mean they "are not drawn close to God enough"?

You maybe right about deactivating betting account as since I deactivated over a year ago I have not returned to it.

TheboyGhost:
Betting killed you and not masturbation.

I have been masturbating from the days of redwap.com till date and I am doing alright financially, mentally and in everyway you can think of.

But betting nearly ruined my life until I called it a Quit.

Avoid betting man, Avoid that shit, but brother masturbate all you want cause that shit is life .

This is evil advice. Your foundation and his foundation are not the same. Maybe your ability to get money/wealth is genetic and he doesn't have that "bloodline". The fact that you masturbate and are balling doesn't mean every other person can try it and still get your result. Grace differs, you don't know the grace upon your life. What if Your eyes were opened and if you had never masturbated or stopped it 10 years ago, you and Dangote would be dragging for the richest man in Africa

Just ganner the WILL POWER to stop gambling and you WILL masturbate less.

You go into masturbation most often out of frustration when you lose your bet. So when you stop or limit your betting stake to N100 weekly, you may not get frustrated and you will have less intention to masturbate.

By the way, why not get a girlfriend?

NewSoul:


This is evil advice. Your foundation and his foundation are not the same. Maybe your ability to get money/wealth is genetic and he doesn't have that "bloodline". The fact that you masturbate and are balling doesn't mean every other person can try it and still get your result. Grace differs, you don't know the grace upon your life. What if Your eyes were opened and if you had never masturbated or stopped it 10 years ago, you and Dangote would be dragging for the richest man in Africa

Hahaha don't go biblical or religious on this man, it's just natural.

Masturbation just like sex has no hindrance to whatever you will be and should be in life.

Your brains and how well you make use of em determines what comes around and doesn't.

The man you mentioned his name might even have more sexually oriented mindset than I do. He probably used to masturbate more than I do and he probably has more sex in a year than I do, but he is still regarded the richest in the country.

I personally believe his problem is the betting lifestyle and not the masturbation.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

the only suggestion i ave 4 u is that>you stop stayin idle and alone in d house hang out wit frds and do some hobbies lyk playin games and exercising ursef.

Eyin, na betting be your problem. Masturbation is what you use to fall back when alabi don knack you.

If you get viable means of income, try to limit your total stake per week to say 10k or 5k or even 1k depending on how much you make.

Also, find something to occupy your time with. Busy person no dey masturbate.

E no go pass Dortmund wey do you this one sha.

imagrg:
Just ganner the WILL POWER to stop gambling and you WILL masturbate less.

You go into masturbation most often out of frustration when you lose your bet. So when you stop or limit your betting stake to N100 weekly, you may not get frustrated and you will have less intention to masturbate.

By the way, why not get a girlfriend?

Follow this advice op but ignore the part where he said just play with N100. Just quit totally. I have been there trust me. When you play with N100 and the last game on your ticket spoils may your supposed N100k winnings. You won't feel like you lost N100 but N100,000 and you'll masturbate to cheer yourself up.

numberonecytyzen:
E no go pass Dortmund wey do you this one sha.

Leipzig and schalke04

numberonecytyzen:
Eyin, na betting be your problem. Masturbation is what you use to fall back when alabi don knack you.

If you get viable means of income, try to limit your total stake per week to say 10k or 5k or even 1k depending on how much you make.

Also, find something to occupy your time with. Busy person no dey masturbate.

10k per week on betting God forbid bad thing instead I will go out on the street and give 20 hungry people N500 to quench their hunger than dashing an already wealthy man money that he already has plenty off

NewSoul:

Leipzig and schalke04

how did you know about this,i play Dortmund and Monaco to win stake 500k ...i just losts that so I think it's high time I stop the stuff

NewSoul:

10k per week on betting God forbid bad thing instead I will go out on the street and give 20 hungry people N500 to quench their hunger than dashing an already wealthy man money that he already has plenty off

what is 10k per week,talk about 80k sometimes 150k.. can't just calculate My Long losts

numberonecytyzen:
E no go pass Dortmund wey do you this one sha.

yes it's what wrote, Dortmund and Monaco

numberonecytyzen:
Eyin, na betting be your problem. Masturbation is what you use to fall back when alabi don knack you.

If you get viable means of income, try to limit your total stake per week to say 10k or 5k or even 1k depending on how much you make.

Also, find something to occupy your time with. Busy person no dey masturbate.

i have tried all means, I can stay for a week without engaging myself into that but boom another week they spirit comes again... And it's has deprived me of having a girlfriend...i mean no urge for women atall.. which is affecting me entirely..

Unyimekelvin:
what is 10k per week,talk about 80k sometimes 150k.. can't just calculate My Long losts

What's your profession. You seem to earn a lot..

Odinakaibe2022:

the only suggestion i ave 4 u is that>you stop stayin idle and alone in d house hang out wit frds and do some hobbies lyk playin games and exercising ursef.

but if hang out side with friends, immediately i see a pretty lady..they spirit will kicked in then I zoom house asap.. just can't control it,had an idea of cutting this My manhood off.

NewSoul:

Follow this advice op but ignore the part where he said just play with N100. Just quit totally. I have been there trust me. When you play with N100 and the last game on your ticket spoils may your supposed N100k winnings. You won't feel like you lost N100 but N100,000 and you'll masturbate to cheer yourself up.

i don't bet with N100,i stake from 40k up..

NewSoul:


This is evil advice. Your foundation and his foundation are not the same. Maybe your ability to get money/wealth is genetic and he doesn't have that "bloodline". The fact that you masturbate and are balling doesn't mean every other person can try it and still get your result. Grace differs, you don't know the grace upon your life. What if Your eyes were opened and if you had never masturbated or stopped it 10 years ago, you and Dangote would be dragging for the richest man in Africa

just speechless here.

imagrg:
Just ganner the WILL POWER to stop gambling and you WILL masturbate less.

You go into masturbation most often out of frustration when you lose your bet. So when you stop or limit your betting stake to N100 weekly, you may not get frustrated and you will have less intention to masturbate.

By the way, why not get a girlfriend?

i have never been in a relationship with any girl before, I don't talk to women..i just don't know why!!

NewSoul:


You are wise, I like you. But you are not 100% correct though. Stopping masturbation is not by "drawing closer to God" if you know how many pastors, choristers, youth preachers, deacons and deaconesses are under the bondage of pornography and masturbation, you'll be alarmed. You mean they "are not drawn close to God enough"?

You maybe right about deactivating betting account as since I deactivated over a year ago I have not returned to it.

i think I should deal with betting addict firstly! Thanks

All u need is to get busy and engaged in more interesting things. Virtual games are designed to make you lose money eventually. Accept those loses, think of what u can do and start doing it.
Get a girl u like and trust too.

beatsbymaxxie:
All u need is to get busy and engaged in more interesting things. Virtual games are designed to make you lose money eventually. Accept those loses, think of what u can do and start doing it.
Get a girl u like and trust too.

getting a girl i liked will be something very difficult right now

THIS IS MY ADVICE

My bro,I understand how you feel because am currently in the same shoe with you.
From your statements so far, you don't seem to have problem with earning money.The main problem you have is gambling which led to masturbation and other stuffs.At least you have acknowledged that you need help.Let me tell how to go about this.
1.Close all your betting account
2.Find someone you trust maybe in your family and confide in that person.this will make you to be accountable until this current phase of your life pass.
3.Then most importantly,you need professional help.What I did was I got in contact with a mental health physician at a private hospital and I started going for medical check up and counseling.They will also prescribe medications that will help you and beat this addiction.
4.Continue to pray to God to help you.You will definitely relapse from time to timeBut the urge to engage in such activities will drastically reduce.
5.Hit the gym or if the job you are currently doing now is giving a lot of free time,you can find a second one to keep you busy.

You can beat this.
It shall end well.

Hustle2flex:
THIS IS MY ADVICE

My bro,I understand how you feel because am currently in the same shoe with you.
From your statements so far, you don't seem to have problem with earning money.The main problem you have is gambling which led to masturbation and other stuffs.At least you have acknowledged that you need help.Let me tell how to go about this.
1.Close all your betting account
2.Find someone you trust maybe in your family and confide in that person.this will make you to be accountable until this current phase of your life pass.
3.Then most importantly,you need professional help.What I did was I got in contact with a mental health physician at a private hospital and I started going for medical check up and counseling.They will also prescribe medications that will help you and beat this addiction.
4.Continue to pray to God to help you.You will definitely relapse from time to timeBut the urge to engage in such activities will drastically reduce.
5.Hit the gym or if the job you are currently doing now is giving a lot of free time,you can find a second one to keep you busy.

You can beat this.
It shall end well.

I'm just touched on this kinda of advice,thank you i will try it out!!

Believe me bro,that is what am currently doing and I am getting better everyday.most importantly, visit a mental health physician.that was what really turned my situation around.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm just touched on this kinda of advice,thank you i will try it out!!

Hustle2flex:
Believe me bro,that is what am currently doing and I am getting better everyday.most importantly, visit a mental health physician.that was what really turned my situation around.

okay!! I'll do so....

I once read a book that says, 'best way to stop an addiction is by replacing the thing(habit) with another one, by so doing you eradicate the primary addiction. Eg, you can try and get gf for that masturbation, trust me if you have a girl around you will enventually stop or reduce it, for the betting aspect, I believe it's brokeness and lack of funds aside greediness is the main cause of it. Try learning a skill you can monitize or get a job, this will also try to replace gambling for you, that's my 1cent. Lastly someone told you to be ready for more damages, that will be your final solution if non of these work out.

Nzecorneboy:
I once read a book that says, 'best way to stop an addiction is by replacing the thing(habit) with another one, by so doing you eradicate the primary addiction. Eg, you can try and get gf for that masturbation, trust me if you have a girl around you will enventually stop or reduce it, for the betting aspect, I believe it's brokeness and lack of funds aside greediness is the main cause of it. Try learning a skill you can monitize or get a job, this will also try to replace gambling for you, that's my 1cent. Lastly someone told you to be ready for more damages, that will be your final solution if non of these work out.

I'm working, getting is somehow hard now but thanks for your opinion!!

Unyimekelvin:
how did you know about this,i play Dortmund and Monaco to win stake 500k ...i just losts that so I think it's high time I stop the stuff

You be big man sef naim you dey bet, imagine 500k on one slip, at this jucture try visiting rehab bro.

Nzecorneboy:
You be big man sef naim you dey bet, imagine 500k on one slip, at this jucture try visiting rehab bro.

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Jacketaltrade:
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Drop your advice..